Why?
Under normal circumstances, like and pursue your man in you have a boyfriend when not dead, because he has a spare tire mentality, feel less than the last minute, they still have hope, and these men waiting for the bottom line is to get married.
So, when a woman gets married, the spare tire is basically dead. Married to know the opposite sex, no matter how good the woman, even if the woman has a good feeling, but also will not show it, because it is against the morality.
Just like Lawyer Ho in Perfect Relationship, he liked Stella, and while Stella's marriage to Choi Young-joon was still alive, he could only hide this emotion and get along as a good friend. After Stella's divorce, he thought he had his chance, but Ye Dong Yeol came out halfway and that's why he told Ye Dong Yeol, "You're not from the same world, Stella is the center of attention everywhere she goes." The purpose is to let Ye Donglie know difficult to retreat.
So, after the marriage of the male pursuit, most of them are the opposite sex after the marriage of the acquaintance.
What is the mentality of these opposite sex?
See you good tease, anyway, tease a little bit of their own and not out of the loss.
Women have to be extra careful with those who know that they are married and still have a passionate pursuit of the opposite sex, because their behavior is fanatical, no sense of right and wrong, no sense of morality. It's like a moth to the flame, wanting to die with you.
So, what should a woman do?
Stay away from those who may bring harm to their marriage. It's not that you can just talk to him, the point is that it's hard to talk about feelings. You think you are innocent, but your husband will not think so.
So, when the discovery is around the opposite sex of friends to their own care beyond the normal friendships, women should decisively choose to alienate each other, so that the other side know your attitude, and recognize your identity.
There is also a point, the woman to reflect on their own usually with the opposite sex in the course of the words and deeds, whether there is a cross-border behavior, so that the man produces the misunderstanding.
There is no love for no reason, after marriage, the opposite sex suddenly pursued you, certainly in your body to get a certain message, so that he had a misunderstanding. Otherwise, this man is a typical "playboy" regardless of whether the woman is married, as long as you feel like it will tease a little, will not think about their behavior will have any consequences.
As the saying goes, "flies don't bite seamless eggs". You just have to be correct and have no evil thoughts, and you will definitely have a good way to deal with it.
The fact that you are still being pursued by men after marriage shows that the woman is still attractive. However, it must be clear that this woman is married, Ming this flower has a master, but at the expense of destroying other people's families are still going to pursue, so there is no lack of men in the scum of the man. So, how to deal with this kind of cheeky men? I'm out of a few small ways below.
One is to keep silent.
This is a way to give each other some face. Your silence, perhaps the other party that is the default, and will therefore launch a more violent attack on you, but over time, you the power of this silence is revealed, the other party will slowly realize that they are out of empty fists, is pandering to the air, the pursuit of this can not get any echo, very uninteresting, and also grey rolled away. I said here to remain silent, is silent from beginning to end, if you say a word in the meantime, then the previous work is gone.
The second is a decisive rejection.
Have to take into account some of the scum will be harassed in person, so that you can not be silent, in the face of this man, you must take out a decisive gesture, decisively tear him, it is best to be in the open, reasonably tear him a face, once and for all, to cut off the idea that he wants to chase you. The first thing you need to do is to get out of the way, and you can't drag your feet, or you'll be hard pressed to get rid of it.
The third is to let the husband out.
This should be a last resort, but also a foolproof plan. First of all, it is better to take the initiative to explain to your husband than to be discovered by him. Secondly, your husband to go out to talk to the other side, more deterrent. Here to pay special attention to is not to provoke the husband, lest the branch, it depends entirely on how you express to the husband. I suggest that if you want your husband to come out, it is best to talk to each other on the phone, talk about how much to talk about, talk about deep talk about shallow, you are around to control.
The above is for reference only. Lastly, don't be complacent because there are still men pursuing after marriage, which is playing with fire.
In fact, I have encountered this kind of thing. I'm not sure if I'm a good person, but I'm a good person, and I'm a good person.
What I want to say is that since you are married, you should take responsibility, think about your children, think about your husband, think about your parents, which do not expect you to live a good life?
If you love your husband very much, love your family, your husband is also very considerate of you!
Then cherish your marriage and reject him! Reasonably reject the guy who is chasing you!
A moment of degradation will make you happy, but there will always be a day of regret!
The first thing you should do is reject, distance yourself from them and continue to stay away from them.
Then, make it clear, make it clear who you are and what your responsibilities are.
Categorically tell them that you are married and have your own favorite man and family, so that they do not harass your life!
We can only do ordinary friends in the future, courtesy, not to exceed the minefield half step.
Otherwise, even friends can not do. We can't see each other, it's better not to see each other!
Let them immediately go to pursue other women, do not continue to waste time and money on you.
It's a shame that you're being victimized and hated!
From now on, don't bother each other, and be good to each other.
This is not a beautiful thing!
Of course, if your marriage is not happy, you are dissatisfied with your man, grumbling, want to leave, you can also consider accepting their pursuit.
Only, the pursuit, does not guarantee that their love for you, is a lifetime, they are really good for you or not.
A woman pursued after marriage, showing that you still have charm, there are a few gestures, let people pity.
But this can not be your pride, show off the capital!
Youth forever, and it is impossible.
You always have the old day!
Home life, to be love, mutual tolerance and understanding.
The face, just a star piece, can manage a moment, but can not be used for a lifetime.
Ultimately, the dust to dust to earth, the prosperity of the end, warm and cold to know!
As if the past clouds smoke, blossom and fall,
Thinking about it, you will not say again by the male pursuit of things.
Instead, be a good person, be a person who is respected and honored.
Especially women, it is not easy, and why do you need to be out there to be a woman, so that you are trapped in a difficult place.
Embarrassing!
It's not a delight, it's a sin, a cluster of sins. It's likely to cause you to fall and crash into the middle of nowhere.
So it's time for you to introspect!
Love the family you already have and cherish the joy that your family brings.
What if you are still being pursued by the most men after marriage?
You should refuse and stay away from them.
Make it clear that you are a family man, and that you can't give up and do something wrong.
If they are still stubborn, report them for harassment.
From then on, each good!
For you, that's all.
The red color,
I hope it does not happen to you.
Or a good husband and mother!
Man, woman, married is husband and wife.
The couple that registers for a license is the legal couple.
Couples, some hosted a banquet, some do not host a banquet. But regardless of whether a reception is held or not, as long as the two people have received a marriage license, it is protected by the law.
1. What is the pursuit?
The quest is for men and women to be attracted to each other and eventually fall in love.
The pursuit is a man and a woman attracted to each other, and eventually fell in love. There is no love interest in the situation. Otherwise, it is suspected of third-party meddling, the third party is immoral, is against the public order and morals of society.
2. Why do men pursue you?
From the literal analysis, first, you are particularly beautiful; secondly, you and the other did not maintain a proper distance; thirdly, you and the opposite sex should be self-respecting and self-respecting when you talk to each other, and always keep in mind that you are a woman with a husband and a family. You should always keep in mind that you are a woman with a husband and a family.
3. What is the solution to face the pursuit of others after marriage?
The real quality.
They are the most important thing that you can do for your family. The first thing that you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular ones. As the saying goes: flies do not bite seamless eggs ......
We have a female colleague in the unit, she is a clerk in the sales department, called Aying, Aying people look white. The body is tall. Dressing up is also exceptionally fashionable, although she is a married woman, but uninformed people think she is the end of the marriage of the little girl.
Unbeknownst to her, she is a 30-year-old married woman with two daughters. Dancing, and usually like to go to the square dance.
She also has a large number of friends of the opposite sex, and there are many male coworkers to her.
Our unit is an enterprise with thousands of people, Aying is like a lark wherever she goes,
Her singing voice can bring joy to her colleagues, and her character is also very cheerful and optimistic.
Every time a member of the opposite sex invites her to dinner, Ah Ying refuses skillfully and from a position of respect for the other party. That's why she's quite popular. Whenever a member of the opposite sex tells some dirty jokes, she'll walk away immediately, but she won't offend any of her friends of the opposite sex either.
After the woman married, self-discipline is the most important! Only self-discipline . The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty and get out of the way. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money and a good deal of money. The only thing that will be respected by more people is a woman who is strong in her own right.
Is it a sin to be beautiful? Why is it that pretty women have a large number of men pursuing them wherever they go? As the saying goes: men and women are not tired of working together.
The beautiful woman is the focus, beautiful is capital, but not because of their own beautiful bees everywhere. Otherwise, it is to get into trouble ......
If your husband loves you, don't be three, married man chasing you mostly because he wants to sleep with you without money, and do not have to be responsible for. Don't think you have a lot of charm! Do not believe that you ask to chase you to borrow money, immediately ran away [face]
Marriage is still being pursued by men how to do? As a woman since she has been married, do not have any more non-thinking, can no longer have a foot in two boats and other ideas, we must be merciless and former lovers to be cut off, delete WeChat phone can not be contacted again, the woman married to be dedicated to each other, filial piety in-laws, take care of the housework to do a good wife and mother.
The woman when the moment of marriage, it should be completely heart, should not have any contact with men outside, although society is developing and progressing, the past traditional marriage has also changed, since the woman has been married, it must abide by the family customs to keep the way of the woman, which will not change in any era, you can not take chances and eat the bowl, looking at the pot, today's society is difficult to do a person, do a good job of a person, but also a good job. The society is difficult to do a person, do a good job of a woman is even more difficult, if a woman to go out of the way, the society on the wind and wind words are enough for you to suffer.
Since you are already married, there are ex-boyfriends to chase you, this is your wrong, you have to give a firm rebuff, can not leave any illusions, can no longer have the idea of lotus root, must be through the following three ways to give a complete rebuff, the ex-boyfriends to make clear the stakes, delete WeChat phone calls, and can not be dating to meet again, you can do the three sides of the ex-boyfriends will not come back to harass you.
First, the former boyfriend clearly state the stakes;
When you decide to marry your husband before, you have to sort out those who are still hesitant in the heart of the former man, feelings of this thing can not be rubbed in the sand, it is necessary to be clear, it can not be vague and dragged on the mud, since you choose to marry your husband, you have to be loyal to him can not be stored in the heart of the second time, this time you want to The former boyfriend said the stakes, can no longer have telephone contact, or let your husband know, we do not look good, but also affects your present husband and wife relationship, the future of the family's happiness, this is a woman of a principle of the problem, must be cut off from the ex-boyfriend.
Second, delete the emblem phone;
Now you are married, every day with her husband to live together, usually not very good to go out, but also have the opportunity to call your ex-boyfriends to send a microblogging, if this is your current husband saw, that you have a lover outside, this problem with the mouth is not clear, spittle is drowning people, will affect your couple! Harmony and happiness, as soon as possible to WeChat phone completely deleted, you have to change your cell phone number, so that the ex-boyfriend can not find you completely, and for a long time he died on your heart.
Third, can no longer meet on a date;
Women are to abide by the way of women, women married, can no longer have anything to do with other men, which is the scale of the ancestors left behind for thousands of years, has been y branded in the hearts of the Chinese people, married women and other men in the dating meet is not pro, you can not from now on to give the ex-boyfriends any of the wrong signal, so that he mistakenly think that you are not the same as the other men, you can not give him the wrong signal. Signal, so he mistakenly think you still have him in mind, he will continue to wait, call to harass you, so you end up with a bad family, you get yourself into a man not like a ghost, so you can not meet again on a date, to give him the wrong signal, you are also hurt, the result is that the weasel did not catch, caused a mess, but instead of their own reputation to be spoiled.
In short, the woman was married, there can be no other non-thinking, good at home with their children, filial piety in-laws, do a good wife and mother, which is a woman should be to do, can not be affected by some of the bad women in the community, bearing in mind the commitment to not forget the mission to leave a good reputation, do a good job as a good wife.
Not knowing how to refuse, intentional worry will unintentionally hurt another person, you always try to reach every request of others, although they are not completely willing. You have to know that the end result, no one will sympathize with you, who let you care too much about others, forget yourself forget the people who accompany you.