What are the tips when talking to girls?

The network provides more convenience for us to know girls, in the case of the above correct understanding, it is necessary to master more and better network chatting skills and practices. Today I bring you three network chatting tips. The classic article "Bad Boys Tell You How to Attract Girls" is also mentioned in the circle. The "Internet Chatting" I mentioned here includes chatting, chatting with girls tips and chatting. Hello, I am the hedgehog who wants to get into trouble. Today I'm going to talk about three tips to improve the level of chatting on the Internet, and I hope that you can experience them with all your heart. Before speaking, first of all, brothers should understand a problem, hiding behind the screen want to just chat with girls and use the very powerful words you have learned to get girls, but do not dare to go out of the house to practice, not determined to carry out self-transformation of the brother, it is impossible to become a girl masters, and will not even make any progress, will only become a more obscene obscene man. Of course, I said practice, not let you read the article, like a chicken blood like to go to the street accosting, unattractive brother to go to the street to stop accosting girls, this scene is not called accosting, called harassment. Don't make it hard on yourself or the girl, and despite the anxiety that comes with picking up a girl beforehand, picking up a girl is, on the whole, a relaxing and enjoyable activity to take a leap of faith in, not an unbearable and painful ordeal. So as I mentioned in my previous post, change starts with an image makeover first and then go into practice. The internet has provided us with more convenience in meeting girls, and with the above correct understanding, it is necessary to master more and better internet chatting skills and practices. Today I bring you three tips for online chatting. Here I mentioned the "network chat" including chat, and girls chat skills and chat and so on. First, the chat with a good "shy" "cover the mouth to sneer" two expressions I often receive brothers help, in a variety of help, there is a help accounted for a large proportion of this help is this, I will receive a message similar to "Hedgehog Boss, I'm chatting with this girl and she says this, how do I reply." Followed by a screenshot of this brother chatting with the girl. Such requests for help take up a lot of my energy, but I reject them because no matter how well I help my brothers reply, it doesn't really help them, it just shows off my strength. You chat with the girl always chat bad, not that you lack the flash of light to think of the "words", but because of your own image and your display surface is not good enough, do not see this point, that mentor to help you say a few words different words can make the girl instantly impressed, and then say a few words of the girl will be on your embrace! The idea is not correct. Moreover, after the mentor helped you reply, your own level, even the words did not have any improvement, so the direction do not get it wrong. In view of the fact that there are a lot of questions of this kind, and most of the brothers who ask me for help on the Internet have not yet received "systematic" training and transformation, I'm here to teach you a practical chatting tips for chatting - good use of the following "Shy", "cover the mouth to sneer" two expression to and girls chat skills. Many brothers like to use a variety of emoticons when chatting, but in fact, it is better to use bad emoticons than not to use them. In chatting, most of the emoticons will be counterproductive if you don't use them well, which emoticons are included in this "most of the emoticons"? --Except for the two emoticons I mentioned today, all other emoticons are emoticons. This includes all the emoticons that come with the program and the emoticons that you download yourself. To paraphrase one of my catchphrases, "If you don't know how well you're doing with this emoji, then you're definitely not doing well with this emoji." Most emojis are not suitable for newbies who are not good at chatting and are risky. The two emojis I'm introducing today have relatively the lowest risk and the best results. How exactly are these two emojis going to be used? - - Use them casually. That is to say, you can use them any way you want. You can use the expression "covering the mouth to sneer" when you are joking with the girl, and you can use the expression "shy" when you are flirting with the girl. You will find that there are not many occasions when you can't use these two emojis, as long as it is in a casual chatting atmosphere, you can use them. A few final questions about this tip: 1. Does this tip work on any girl? -Yes, and the kinder the girl the better the effect, the more familiar the girl the better the effect, but remember, don't use these two emoticons on your girlfriend, because these two emoticons can't keep up with your intimacy anymore. 2, these two emoticons are not any age can be used? --Some brothers will find that these two emoticons are a little tender and cute suspicion, indeed, so this tip is not applicable to all ages, already must take the mature route of the brother is not suitable for this tip, and college students and just entered the workforce of the brother is the most suitable for this tip. 3, this tip is not applicable to all stages of my life? --No, as I said earlier, this technique is for brothers who have not received "systematic" training, that is, self-education, but have not yet become a part of the brothers, when you have received systematic training, this technique is too single, and even discarded. Even will be discarded, no girl master has been using these two expressions to hook up with girls. Second, remove the tone of voice words in the chat Many brothers in the chat will appear "the" "it" "it" "ah" "ah " "The" such tone of voice words a whole lot of cases, and even almost every sentence at the end of the situation. Don't be like this, please simply and roughly cut out all these intonation words. Some brothers may ask if the language seems to become less fluent after they cut them all out. This is not a problem, you can change the expression of the sentence, for example, when you ask someone a question like this, "Are you a hedgehog who wants to get into trouble?" You could change it to, "Are you a hedgehog who wants to get into trouble?" and that cuts out the intonation. What if you find that you have no way of removing the intonation by changing the expression of the sentence in a suitable way? -Simply and roughly cut out the intonation, even if there will be some sense of awkwardness, it is still better than having too many intonation, and instead it may appear that you are more special. After reading my posts, many of you have told me that you feel my posts are "well organized" and "concise". In addition to the reason that I try to put dry goods every time I write a post, is because I am writing an article, rarely appear at the end of the sentence tone of voice, I have formed a habit and will consciously modify, which is why the same is colloquial, popular article, I wrote the post will give people a different feeling. If the brothers are still not able to appreciate the harm of the tone of voice in the network chat, then, you can turn back to your and the girl's and girls chat skills chat records, a careful look, feel, to the girl's position or to the position of the bystander, feel your chat process, you have not felt that their chat chatting is very childish, full of need. You can then look at how much you use the tone of voice, in many cases, the tone of voice is the culprit of everything. Finally mention, in the middle, the same to avoid the tone of voice, and, not suitable for you to chat with me all night platform, so not only to avoid the tone of voice, but also try to be concise, do not have too many extra words, concise will help you convey high value. For example, if you invite a girl, you can say "I'm walking in the playground, come and have fun with me", instead of "I'm walking in the playground, come and have fun with me". instead of "I'm at the playground right now, come take a walk if you have time." Instead of saying "I'm at the playground right now, if you have time to go for a walk," the latter statement feels more polite, but actually has a lower success rate and conveys a lot of low value. For example, you could say, "I'm at place XX near your workplace. Instead of saying, "I just came to your unit to do something, now I'm at XX place near your unit, I don't know if you're free, if you have time, we can have a chat together". Do you understand? Not only do you need to avoid intonation, but you need to be more concise. This also applies to temporary invitations on platforms with similar features. Third, the use of good "么哒" quickly close the relationship between you and the girl This is the last tip to introduce to you today, but also one of the most powerful tips. "么哒" is now often said a onomatopoeia, expresses the meaning of kissing, applicable to men and women between lovers, of course, girlfriends and even good friends will also be used. That is to say, between men and women, generally speaking, unless the relationship is lovers, otherwise you can not use "muah da" to express affection. Today I teach you the technique is - in the chat with the target who is not a relationship, use "么哒" this onomatopoeia to quickly draw your relationship with the girl, and greatly shorten the time of GAME. This skill applies to,, and other network platforms, and can even be used directly in the chat, face-to-face chat, the effect is remarkable. Some brothers will ask, this is not to expose the sense of need? What I want to tell brothers is to dare to dance on the blade. When you go against the norm and use this technique, the girl will not think "this boy has been attracted to me, he is a pass the game", but will think "really a special boy, he must be very self-confident, he said this is really interesting to me? Is he really interested in me? Or is he just flirting with me? Does he like me or not? Come to think of it he's pretty good, really good at dealing with women." We all know that when a girl is stuck in a situation where she doesn't know if you like her or not, she will constantly make moves to determine if you like her or not, and these moves are your knives and swords, one after the other, cutting into her, and she will end up thinking, "I must like him" after her own post emotional rationalization. You know, the more a girl thinks about you, the more likely she is to like you, and she's at her best when she's thinking about "does he like me or not". Isn't that great? Not to mention you're showing confidence. This technique is not like emoticons can be used casually, first of all, before you use, to make sure that the girl's impression of you at least not bad, if the girl's impression of you is not good, don't use, will not have the effect, but will hit your confidence. Then how to determine how the girl's impression of you? According to the Enigma Man method, you have to determine how many indicators of interest you've gained, but I rarely go to that trouble, and I know that any normal girl I've ever been in contact with will have a good impression of me, so I never use this technique without a "determination" step. It comes back to the question of self-construction. You can only use this technique if you have a good, or at least qualified, image. Without a qualified self-image, it's pointless to judge a girl's interest - you won't get any interest, and if you think you're getting any, then you're not. If you think you've received one, it's usually an illusion, either yours or the girl's (for a certain moment she may have thought you had some charisma, but in fact you didn't). When using this technique, how does it work? Network chatting, whether it is, or chatting with girls tips, in a relatively pleasant time to chat with the girls, ending with "good, I know, back to chat, mamma mia", "thank you for caring, mamma mia" can be. In reality, when you use, pay attention to say with no matter and natural tone and demeanor, it seems that this is your habit, you are very natural so said, and do not finish the control can not help staring at the girls to see her reaction, seem very nervous, then, you will become a confession. After saying "muu da", whether on the network or in reality, you have to be ready to receive the trick, what do you mean by receiving the trick? That is to say, no matter how magical I say this technique, how much you get its essence, you do not expect the girl will be in your finished "么哒 "After you say "么哒 "After you will reply to you a "么哒 "This is true in practice, but the number of less, and it is not necessarily a good thing. It does happen in practice, but it's rare, and it's not always a good thing. The usual response from girls is to "play dumb and pretend they didn't see it" or reply "Haha, it must be from your girlfriend, good night guys." "Oops, you're killing me, haha" or something like that. In reality, the pressure to use is much greater, so you have to think about how to take it before you say "muah da". How to answer? It's simple - calm and natural, she played dumb, you point to break her a "you do not return to me a? If she reacts violently, you can keep calm and make her feel as if she is a village girl who doesn't often come out to play, she can't keep up with your world. There's an article in Bad Boys Tell You How to Attract Girls that talks about it too. Anyway, just keep your frame and say "mwah mwah mwah", it's really not a big deal. This technique is very good, but may not work once, you can use a few more times, but from the frequency, must be "occasionally", always use, not only will expose the sense of need, and then you really can't catch the girl with a calm and natural attitude on the ensuing questioning.