Sharing workplace stories, looking at your life and mine
Introduction: I once heard the saying, "We know a lot of truth, but still can't live a good life". I think this sentence, you must have heard. Just like the phrase "knowledge changes destiny", we all know this truth, but most of us do not insist on doing.
Nowadays, most people in the post-90s generation can at least graduate from high school. Knowledge is important, reading is the easiest way to change your destiny, we all know these truths, but how many of us stick to it?
What are most people doing when they study?
Elementary school: that bird outside is flying so fast, Xiaoming brought that toy yesterday is too much fun, later to find him to play for a while, how is not yet class ah?
In junior high school: the class flower is so pretty, I want to play with her. I don't want to do it, I want to go to the Internet cafe. I don't want to do it, I want to go to the Internet cafe to play games!
High school: This game is too good! This movie is so nice! This question is too difficult, I can't do it! What is the teacher talking about? I don't understand a word of it.
What should I do now?
When you go out into the world, there are usually successful precedents in front of you, ready-made experience right there, waiting for you to learn, waiting for you to realize your potential.
Once there was a news: a young man entered the bank after graduation, no power, less than two years, but did a million dollars a year. What did he rely on? Square dancing.
Square dance mothers are often at home is the financial power in hand, and by a lot of free time, at the same time most of them are very interested in financial products. In their generation's concept, the bank's safety factor is the highest, so they will give priority to the bank's products. The amahs tend to be more emotional when choosing products, too. The young man understands this mentality of the amazons very well, coupled with the fact that he has been dancing with them for a long time, the relationship is more familiar.
The reasoning and the road are readily in front of them, but when they really want to do so, they find all kinds of excuses.
I don't know how to square dance, I just can't do anything to run over and dance with them, will it look too stupid? I don't want to go.
I'm a big man, I go to dance with a group of big moms, it's too embarrassing, don't go!
Forget it, I'm not in a good mood today, I'm not going?
Forget it, I'm not cut out for this, I'm not doing it?
In this way, time passed day by day, but I was still the same as before, in addition to getting a little older, nothing else has changed.
In fact, a lot of truth, we all understand, we all know that do will be beneficial, but we ultimately did not do, why?
Many people say it's because they don't know how to persevere and are afraid of failure. If you ask me, the biggest reason is one word - lazy!
How should we deal with this laziness? Comment on your method.