1: Idle time on the derailment: women have too much free time, children have become a family, there is nothing to worry about, because there is no thing to do, women will generally have more spare time can go out to play or square dancing, of course, which will certainly be a man, but met with a funny man with a sense of humor, they will be very easy to move, which leads to mental derailment or really divorce derailment. Because a man to pass the time with her, do something funny, can have more **** the same topic to talk about. But his husband can't give those things.
2: the husband's indifference: people to middle age, get along for a long time, to be honest, a lot of couples are emotionally diluted, only affection, aesthetic point of view is also tired, there will be a lot of things will not go to care about the woman, dislike the woman nagging, however, get along with so long time, some of the shortcomings of the husband also endured enough, when there is a man to send warmth from time to time to care about their own time If both sides have families, it will be easy to become a secret lover relationship, because you can get care and warmth in that man's body.
3: men derailed in the first place: women feel that in middle age, feel that they are not as good as a day, life is also, physical and mental, young time for the family willing to pay everything, but did not complain, when looking at their own wrinkles began to climb a little bit to the time, the man will be at this time dislike of chaffing wife, most of the men are like this, long ago has been famous for the Husband and wife, gradually came to the end of love is almost divorce. This time the man outside to find a small three, the woman will therefore gamble also find a, no matter how long to know will have relations with the lover, even if the heart is balanced, but still the heart is not happy.
If the two people's feelings really have problems, if you want to continue to be the problems you encountered to solve the problem, with the derailment of such an extreme way to solve the problem, it will only solve more and more stubborn, leading to really leave each other. If you really do not love, it is better to let go before it is also a responsibility for both sides, the exhaustion of marriage is really terrible, do not let each other are so tormented.