Men chasing girls, rarely a chase can get it, especially the two people in all aspects of the gap is very large, and the man is at a disadvantage under the things, the man wants to get the girl's love, can only use this plan. Jianghu said: thick skin, eat a enough; thin skin, eat not. If a girl's refusal to give up, then there is no chance of anything.
Men should use this plan at this time, not afraid of shame, not afraid of humiliation, not afraid of tired, not afraid of spending money, not afraid of wasting time. Men know that men are afraid of wrapping women are afraid of grinding the truth, as long as the indomitable, never give up, the victory must belong to their own. This is also a good man without a good wife, Laihan accounted for the root cause of the flower branch.
The second plan: to escape
This man is very cunning, obviously the girls have been coveted, but always keep a certain distance from the girls. The man used is to capture the plan, in the strategic contempt of the girl, in the tactical importance of the girl. He knows that the tighter the girl is chased, the faster she may run. He pretended not to care about the girls, his attitude appeared to be nonchalant and salty, just to let the girls relax his vigilance, so that it is easier to observe the weaknesses of the girls, and not to expose their own shortcomings.
He never talks about his feelings in front of the girls, but always shows himself to be very good at the right opportunities. He does this to let the girls know that he is not in the same class as those fly-by-night men. Just wait until the opportunity is ripe and get the girl in one fell swoop.
The third plan: the slow stew
The old saying: the heart can't eat hot tofu, feelings are cultivated. Men of these two ancient Chinese quotes to understand very thoroughly, chasing girls as stir-fried vegetables, martial arts fire frying is certainly not, non-frying paste can not be, the need to use the fire slowly fry, and enjoy the joy of frying vegetables from it.
Their specific approach is to find opportunities to get close to the girls, first in the name of friends to put the girls in their own ready pot, seasoning is often invited to go to dinner, picnics, movies, parties and so on, as long as the girls do not refuse, so slowly fry down, there will always be a day the girls this piece of raw beef stewed, also became his dishes.
How to pursue girls
From a girl's point of view, I understand the psychology of girls better. Most of the girls will not take the initiative to pursue their favorite boys, except really like it too much or the kind of brave girls who have more personality. So, if you like a girl very much, and think she is also a bit interested in you, then take the initiative, don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, it's hard on yourself, and maybe the person you like is also suffering.
Any girl who is being chased by someone is psychologically complex. She may be happy, but with a bit of trepidation, she has the ambivalence of wanting to reject and welcome this boy who is intruding into her peaceful life, and she doesn't mean it. Don't think she's testing you, she's actually struggling with herself and she's afraid of getting hurt.
Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her resentment, you don't take the initiative, she doesn't take the initiative, and slowly fade down. If you start the confession was her refusal, that is also very normal ah. Don't be discouraged, who knows what is in the heart of this girl?
Maybe you'll be impressed if you confess twice more, a good girl with a good heart is very easy to move.
If you get a setback, you immediately leave, never answer the girl, protect yourself tightly, licking wounds in silence, in your pain at the same time, unaware that the girl may also be in the heart of regret, regret it! Maybe she will secretly cry, regret refused you, and then see your indifferent eyes, she is also very painful, but she will not say to you, definitely not request you to come back to chase her. Your excessive pride may hurt the girl's sensitive heart.
She will think that you don't sincerely like him, or else why would you just give up on her?
Some people say that it's really hard for guys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social roles of men and women. From the biological and social point of view, women are always passive. If the other way around, let the men all pulse shyness, women become courageous, the world is a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful and touching ~ I always hear about a brave man who overcame a lot of difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. The opposite example is much less
Often heard a sentence, the girl's mood is like the weather, sunny and cloudy occasional showers, the mood of the ups and downs of the really unpredictable, hey! This sentence really hit the nail on the head, think about it from another angle, and of course, said many boys helpless, if you do not have any predictive ability, then you will sooner or later accept the stormy retribution. If a girl's temperament really is like the weather, then let's take a good look at the categories of weather! This time, we'll take a look at the wind's classification in comparison to a girl's temper.
1.0 - No Wind: This is when you don't feel any girlish temperament at all, and it seems like you're in still air, which usually only happens when your girlfriends aren't around, and you're in a completely relaxed state of mind.
2.1 - soft wind: this time you will slightly feel the girl a little reaction, you will see the girl is doo smile and say hate, at this time you will feel she is like a spring soft breeze, let a person feel very comfortable.
3.2 - light wind: this time the girl has begun to show a little bit of displeasure, usually lightly spit out a boredom, to represent her feelings, but quickly turned away, this level may not have any impact on you.
4.3 - Breeze: This is when you'll notice that the girl has started to show more displeasure, usually by tapping you with a small object to let you know to stop! But it probably won't affect you yet because you'll think she's joking with you.
5.4 - Wabi-sabi: You'll notice that the girl starts to use some vocal language to show displeasure.
6.5 - Breeze: At this point you should feel a bit of a chill, and usually the girl will give you a stern look and make a few snide remarks. Don't think it's just a breeze, but if you've been in this situation for a long time and don't know it, I'd like to remind you that there's a one-level difference between this level and the next level of strong winds!
7.6 - Strong Wind: This is the level where the girl is usually already cursing with her hands in her pockets, and her voice is already pitched up, so you should know where to go!
8.7 - Blistering Wind: This is the point where the rage has begun, and the huffing and puffing of curses continues.
9.8 - Gale: This level is a bit scary, and in addition to the constant cursing, there are also loud noises and banging, usually while cursing and slamming the table!
10.9 - Gale: At this level, there will be some loss of property, usually when she starts dropping small objects that are easily accessible, such as pens, cell phones, and shoes! Often this will result in the destruction of small items, so remember that this is when you need to be able to catch things in the air.
11.10 - windstorm: this time there are often a large number of things broken and damage to the situation, this time you can not pretend to be calm or strong, encountered in the ensuing and direct to you to throw objects, it is best to find shelter, the way to deal with the same as in the case of an earthquake.
12.11 - Gale: This level is just as the name suggests, she will come at you like a madman and hit you, often causing human disasters, usually a slap in the face is not to be avoided.
13.12 - Hurricane: This level is also known as the familiar strong typhoon, if not prepared for, there are usually casualties and disasters.
How to please a girl:
If you have a girl of your choice, you should cherish the feelings between the two. You should learn to care for her and love her, and you should make her feel how much you care about her. To be a boy to read the girl's heart, understand her heart, so that the girl feel your meticulous care, she is like a happy bird generally around you singing joyfully. You have to learn to walk with her, shopping, singing, dancing, together with excursions ...... you have to often give her a sense of novelty, buy some trinkets to give her, both cheap, but also expresses your adoration of the feelings make her feel that you are know how to love, know how to love the life of a good boy, she will love you more.
Only understand each other to have **** the same language, only tolerate each other to make love sweeter. You have to let her understand that a girl is to be spoiled and loved by people to be cared for, cared for and loved! Love means to give, means dedication, love means to make you happy for life, this is true love! I believe that with your intelligence and wisdom, you will be able to please the girl's heart!
Teaching you how to please a girl
1. "Can I ask you for directions?" "Where to?" "To your heart."
2. "Can I borrow a dollar from you?" "Why?" "I want to call my mom and tell her I just met the man of my dreams." Or "I'm going to call your mom and thank her."
3. "Is your father a thief?" "No." "Then how could he steal the brilliant stars and put them in your eyes?" (Be prepared if they answer you "yes."
4. "You're so warm that the plastic in my underwear is melting."
5. "Your legs must be tired." "Why?" "Because you've been running around in my head all day."
6. (Look at his/her clothing tags. When they say "What are you doing? ") Answer "Just checking to see if you're made in heaven." Or "Just checking to see if you're my number."
7. "Sorry, I dropped my phone number, can I borrow yours?"
8. "I hope you know CPR because you're so beautiful you make me stop breathing."
9. "Miss, please give it back!" "What!" "My heart, you took it away from me with your eyes!"
10. "There must be something wrong with my eyes, I can't take my eyes off you."
11. "I'm having a bad day, and seeing a pretty girl smile makes me feel better, can you smile for me?"
12. "It's raining really hard today."
13. "I'm sorry, but I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that. "That's because God is drooling on you."
13. "If I could rearrange the letters of the alphabet, I'd put U and I together."
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14. "I'm sorry, I'm an artist. Gazing at beautiful women is my job."
15. "Trust me, I will make you the second happiest person in the world." "Why not the first?" "With you, I am the happiest person!"
Chasing girls tips
Very detailed "chasing girls tips" The most difficult thing for lovers is not knowing how to start the program. The man is worried that he is acting out of character, and the woman is worried that the man will see her as being flimsy as a result. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a pair of shoes or boots, and you'll be able to get a good look at the shoes or boots.
Hand contact
1) When you're crossing the street, say: "Hurry up, the red light's going to come on," and then naturally walk across the street holding her hand.
②When you get off a boat or walk across a rough road: naturally reach out your hand and say, "Here, it's dangerous here, please take my hand."
③ people are very crowded: said to her: "Grab my hand, or to walk apart," if she squirms, you will grab her hand; if she really like you in the heart. If she really likes you in her heart, she will only struggle for a few moments and then obey. If she really does not want to, it will "sound and color" to break free. At this point, you do not force, this is the will of her respect, not to show that you are weak.
4 When she wants to get up: naturally she says to her: "Come on, I pull you up".
5 Compare the size of her hands with her: "Come on, let's compare whose hands are bigger, Choke, your hands are so cute."
6 Try your wrist strength: can you resist her pulling with your hand.
7 Read the palm of your hand: it's an old method, but it works. If you're really good at palmistry and can talk for five minutes, you can get her interested.
Touching shoulders and other parts of the body
①When a car comes from behind, say, "The car is coming. So easily floor her shoulders and pull her closer.
②When you are swinging on a pole: say: "Here, I'll push it for you". The hand naturally pushes her shoulder
③When you come to the entrance of the meal: gently pat her shoulder and say, "This is the room, how is it?" If she agrees, gently hold her shoulders and walk in together.
4) When the wind suddenly turns cold or it suddenly rains: take off your coat and drape it over her, then gently floor her shoulders.
5) When introducing a building or place of interest: put your left hand on her shoulder from behind and point to the building or place of interest with your right hand and say, "That's the one".
6) When riding a Ferris wheel or entering a haunted house at an amusement park: hold her hand or put your arm around her shoulder.
7 When she just got up in the grass: you say, "Oops, it's dirty here." Give her a few pats on the butt in passing. Remember, the touching action should be natural and gentle, the tone is more relaxed and natural, must not have a sense of tension, because the woman and the opposite sex for the first time contact, the heart has been very nervous. Inwardly, if she likes you, she not only will not mind you touching her, but also eager for you to do so. But your movements. Demeanor and tone of voice will have a significant impact on her emotions, and if you do it unnaturally, she will be even more unnatural and may even reject you. The other tips described below also assume that she likes you and that you do it naturally.
Other tips for initial contact
①Touch her head, gather her hair with your fingers, or run your fingers through her hair. If she looks shy and doesn't object, you can consider further contact the next time.
3) Gently pinching her nose will make her heart flutter.
4 Point your hand at her forehead and say, "You naughty little piggy," and you'll make her laugh.
The skill of skin-to-skin contact
The condition of skin-to-skin contact is the external atmosphere and environment coupled with intimate conversation. The conversation must be started by a natural topic, and it is best to add gestures and gestures of cooperation to stimulate each other's mind ****. The environment and the atmosphere should focus on the following points:
① in the dark: this can eliminate her shame to make feelings more open
② in a narrow place: the other body will naturally touch each other, each other will naturally produce "magnetic force", if not hate each other, this "magnetic force" is very seductive, and the other side of the body will be in contact with each other. The "magnetic force" is very seductive and can make the attention highly concentrated.
3 quiet boulevard, thick willow bank: easy to provoke the woman's heart strands of love, but also the right place.
4 to warm climate: too cold no mood, the temperature of 25 ℃ for the most appropriate.
⑤Sounds that can intoxicate the woman, low and intermittent whispers, the sound of rain, the sound of cars, etc.
⑥When the other party is in a low mood: it will produce a desire to confide in the opposite sex.
Note that when doing the above kind of initial contact, it should be suitable for the environment and atmosphere at the time, for example, you can't do this when you see the climax of a bitter drama. If the environment is suitable, you can also add a little romantic meaning, the girl will not hate. But for mature older women you will not be too romantic.
Precautions when eating with a woman:
a. Take the initiative to ask her to eat, because usually girls are reluctant to say that they are hungry.
b. Ask her what she wants to eat first, and if she doesn't express an opinion, you decide the menu yourself. Don't push around, so you think you're being courteous, but
it's actually embarrassing for the other person. Be careful not to order food that stains your teeth, as that can ruin the mood.
c. Try not to make a sound when eating, it is better to talk and eat at the same time.
d. You can eat as much as you want, girls usually like it when boys have a big appetite.
Precautions about drinking:
a. Don't force your girlfriend to drink on a first date, as this will make her unhappy, and she may refuse to go out with you again on the pretext that you forced her to drink
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b. Don't pretend to drink, whether you know how or not.
c. If she drinks and turns extra red, you have to compliment her.
If you're late for a date:
Rush to the date, gasp for breath, apologize sincerely, and then naturally find an excuse, such as, "I was stuck in traffic on Zhongshan Road, and I was so anxious that I jumped out of the car and ran over here, and it made me so out of breath that I was panting like a cow." Or: "I want to find a gift you like to give you, so that you can not catch up with the time ......" In short, to make up a reasonable and reasonable, can not let her perceive that you are a moment of carelessness caused by the tardy, at all with what the car ah gift ah has nothing to do. This kind of promise to help dissolve the girlfriend's dissatisfaction, the motive is good, can not be regarded as unintentional deception. However, if you're late for something like this, you can't tell it again, and if you tell too many lies, you're going to be exposed.
Saying goodbye to her:
The best way to say goodbye to her is to wait with her at the appropriate station until the car arrives, and then leave when she gets on the bus and the car leaves. This way the woman will not feel that you are not pestering her tightly. If she is willing to let you send her home, that means she has a little heart to heart with you. This must be timed separately, meaning that the first date should end when the girl still wants to spend time with you. This is a great way to make her look forward to the next date. In the meantime, you should utilize the following invitation techniques. For example, while waiting for the car, you ask her, "Today is the summer solstice, do you know what the meaning of summer solstice is?" She says no, and that's when the car comes. You say, "Well then, I'll tell you on our next date." Repeat the time and place of the next time one more time, then walk her to the car. Or, she says this as she is about to break up, "I had a great evening with you." You must immediately press the point and say, "That's just great, I'll make it even more enjoyable next time." Then repeat the time and place of the next date appropriately.
Tips for getting to know her:
Generally, women don't hate strange men who talk to them because they subconsciously think it's because they are attractive enough to attract men, but if you don't say the right words and gestures, they won't stop and talk to you, and you should think about what you want to talk to them about before you talk to them and make use of the following questions.
①It is more suitable for women who are full of makeup and confidence to ask:
Can I buy you a cup of coffee?
Miss, you are so beautiful Miss, your hair is really flowing and charming!
Miss, your temperament is so charming, can we make a friend?
Miss, your dress is so nice, where did you buy it? I want to tell my cousin.
Miss, are you a fashion model? Would you please sign ...... what? You're not? No? I don't believe it. You're so pretty and still
yes please sign it."
②Opening nouns more suitable for the average girl must be said with humor and wit.
--- The view of the sea in front of you is so beautiful, let's go see the sea together, shall we?
---I like your style of dress, talk to me, okay? I want my sister to learn it too.
---- I really want to invite you to a thirsty drink, do you appreciate it?
---- I know a restaurant with a beautiful style, atmosphere, go enjoy together.
Practice:
①Don't talk to strange women from behind.
②Smile naturally when you see each other.
3) Don't look at your partner's body from top to bottom.
④Attitude should be natural, do not let the other party feel that you are intentionally talking to her.
⑤ Don't be in a hurry to touch anywhere on the other person's body.
6 Don't get discouraged when the other person refuses, you need to try again. Invite at least 5 times.
⑦Don't pester the other person, and don't block the other person's way and follow them closely. Even if you fail, there is nothing wrong with it.
8 such a method of acquaintance can enjoy a short time with her on the fun, if you can agree with her next meeting time, is a complete success.
To know the right time to end this first contact.
9 If the woman's response is enthusiastic, you do not need to stick to the above approach, and should be "pursued".