Some elderly people will complain, so hard to help with the grandchildren, but also every day is not pleasing, always this is not satisfied with the dissatisfaction, don't know what to do, now it is good, directly with their own, do not need to help with the elderly, they are so hard to do it all don't know what for.
Many daughters-in-law will also complain that their in-laws are busy dancing all day long and don't know how to help their grandchildren, so they can share the load and relieve the pressure. Even if you are willing to help with the child, you will not be able to bring it properly, always have to make some mistakes, always make you feel at ease, it would be better to bring your own.
It is true that if there is an old man in the family to help bring up the children, the young people can rest assured to go to work and wrestle their own career, but some old people really can not let them help bring.
It's not that there's a prejudice against the elderly, some of them really aren't suitable for taking care of children, such as the following:
1. This is only the case for those who have a strong knowledge of parenting. They are always adhering to their old set of parenting ideas and are not willing to change them at all because that's the way they used to be.
Not enough milk should be fed with rice paste, no matter how old the baby is, two months, three months, or six months, the rice flour must still be their own rice; rice flour is very nutritious, do not need to feed the milk powder, milk powder is very expensive ah; the baby does not eat the salt, no strength, the complementary food must be added to the salt, on the surface of the promise that you don't put the salt, in fact, but also secretly to complementary food; the baby is four or five years old and do not need to go to kindergarten, a waste of money, the kindergarten is also a good place to go. It's a waste of money to go to kindergarten, but it's just a way to find someone to take care of your child.
Friend Fangfang's mother-in-law is often in the time when Fangfang is not at home to feed the three-month-old baby porridge, said that the baby is afraid of the future a little bit bigger refused to eat, to the baby 7.8 months and often secretly in the baby's supplemental food with salt, to the baby to eat sugar and so on a whole lot of things, Fangfang had to bring the baby every day to go to open the store, although hard, at least do not have to worry about.
2. The old man. Xiaoyu's grandmother liked to carry Xiaoyu to the shopping mall, shopping supermarkets, go to the market the most lively place, the grandmother especially like to go along, as long as you do not pay attention to, those items whoosh a little to her bag to go. The child is also to see what to learn, see the grandmother to do so, ear and eye, and soon learned, often back home like pulling out the treasure box, pulling out the same and the same, an apple a tangerine, a pair of socks and so on, are not valuable things. Grandma was still proud of this and used to brag to the neighbors about how smart the kid was. This is the behavior of a thief, okay? With the grandmother's encouragement, the child went to other people's houses and did the same thing, wanting whatever he saw. Who would dare to give the child to an elderly person with such a bad character?
Adults are the children's role models, what adults do, the children will follow, as the saying goes, when you are young, you steal needles, when you are older, you steal gold, this is to cultivate a god thief?
3. The foul-mouthed old man. Tingting's grandmother used to be a coach worker, working with a bunch of male drivers every day, unknowingly making herself dirty. Now that she has become a grandmother, she can't change this bad habit, popping up a swear word from time to time, Tingting often follows her grandmother, often complained by the kindergarten teacher, Tingting's mother said many times that her mother-in-law is very unhappy, Tingting's father feels that her mother is making a big deal out of it, and the couple often quarrel over it, it's really not a peaceful home.
4. The old man's superstitions. Some old people are particularly superstitious, no matter what they do can not be rationally treated, for example, the baby is sick the first time is not to go to the doctor, but to go to ask some of the "fairy", back to the child to drink water, and said that even if you drink the water after drinking the charm of the good a little faster. I don't blame you for being religious, but what's the point of giving your child a drink?
5. The old man. There are some old people who are really open-minded, and their nerves are so big that they can't even be bothered with the smallest of things. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and then you'll be able to get them to fit in the back of your head. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of pants, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of pants, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of pants, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of pants, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of pants, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of pants.
Friends often tell me that his mother's nerves are at least as thick as chopsticks, and that she's too big for her own good. She often opens the front door of her house and lets her children run around outside the door, while she herself goes to work on other things and doesn't look after her children. I often worry that if a trafficker passes by his son will be lost, so my friend would rather take care of the child himself and do a full-time job, until now the child is in elementary school to find something to do.
In fact, if there is an old man at home to help with the child is really good, we should also be grateful, but there are these kinds of old people at home, the baby parents or hard work a little bit, their own with it, teach by example, good, teach, bad, the same can teach, if you do not want to turn the child into that kind of person, or to influence the child with their own words and deeds, right.
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