Recently I found that the object is really a natural talent, some people are born with the temptation, some people just do not know how to deal with the opposite sex ****. Many people think, dealing with objects is mainly to see whether the two are suitable, whether there is talk, only need to be suitable, naturally can be together. In fact, the object are technology, moderate geography some small tricks, so that you no longer miss the person who understands you. Above there are four dating tips, I believe you can certainly be inspired.
a, mobilize each other's sensesdating, to mobilize each other's senses, such as the auditory system, olfactory nerves, taste buds, sense of touch. For example, in general, go to a concert, better than to a common drama show; eat delicious hot pot, hot pot skewers, better than eating home cooking catering restaurant; go to the zoo, better than going to the Botanical Gardens. Stimulating the five senses will make the other person more focused on the present moment and fully engaged in it.
Don't believe it, recall, your most impressive date in the date, it should be two people talk to the memory is more impressive, or for the time to see what interesting things, taste what delicious food, memory is more impressive? Famous brands in that method, let everyone remember them, such as zarahome fragrance, some with songs, McDonald's "like you to", taste buds needless to say, the more fragrant, spicy, heavy things, the more customers can remember, the greater the rate of eye-catching.
Second, let each other's heart beat fasterTwo people go to the theater to see a movie, there are two films to choose from, one is a horror movie, one is a love movie, which one do you choose? See which one is well known? The virginity of the object to see romantic movies? The other party wants to hear what all watch which? The correct answer is, watch horror movies! Since the heartbeat is very likely to be faster when watching a horror movie, the human brain may think that it's the heartbeat. This is not nonsense, but rather there is a serious scientific research.
A person with a faster heartbeat is more likely to become emotionally involved with those around them, while a steady heartbeat is more sensible and repulsive. Therefore, it is easier to promote feelings by going together to play basketball, ride roller coasters, and sing and dance in a ktv than by chatting in a cafe or reading a book together in a library.
Three, a small amount of time, than a single multiple amount of goodSmall Zhao and small Peng are chasing Xiaoli. Xiao Zhao picks out a day every weekend to ask Xiaoli out for shopping and dining, and the day is calculated to be 10 bells and whistles. Xiao Peng Sunday every day overtime, but every day during the workday can pick out an hour or two, to Xiaoli send a cup of milk tea, talk, calculated that the week are 10 bells. Under the same conditions of education, with whom is Xiao Li most likely to have deeper feelings? The answer is very obvious: nature is to meet more small Peng.
As the saying goes, love is deeper with each passing day. If it is possible, several times to pay a little time, than a single capital investment in a lot of time reasonable a lot. I heard such a story, there is a man will fall in love with his colleagues in the company, once, he traveled home on vacation, brought a gift to a friend, the friend was particularly happy to receive. The next day, the same gift was taken out, and again on the third day.
That's it, the man for many days in a row, said to the colleague, I'm in Japan with a gift to let you. What woman can't stop this kind of rottenness ah? Quickly, the two were together. A small number of times, better than a single multiple!
Fourth, learn to have come and gone, courtesyTwo people dining out together, who pays the bill? This situation, different people will come up with different answers. Some people say that it is imperative that the boys pay, to give the girls self-esteem, some people say, to AA, reflecting the independent side of the woman, but also some people, just together when the AA, feelings are good or after marriage, they are boys pay.
Actually, women with high emotional intelligence have to be able to "come and go". For example, the boys set up a banquet to eat the main meal, that shopping when the dessert drinks you buy. In other words, this time he invited, you told him that the next time you invited, day this, the next date schedule can be arranged?
Mr. Qian Zhongshu said in "Siege" that the best way for women and men to promote their feelings is to borrow. After all, it's a loan, so you have to see both sides, borrowing on one side and returning on the other. In this way, the emotions are deeper when there is a back and forth. Learn to have back and forth, so that the two people closer and closer!