At one time, I also held such a silly thankful heart, thinking that I am such a kind and beautiful young lady deserves to be cared for severely, and in the future, after the recovery must be remembered people's good, however, after a few waves of so that I have some bitter condolences, I have to painfully admit that chatting with the patient is also a technical work.
Half a year ago, I had a sudden immune system disease, in the experience of a variety of medical treatment at the same time by the gift of modern technology, received hundreds of phone calls and WeChat condolences, the vast majority of them are out of love, but many times I really want to look up to the sky long whistle, in the end, what I did wrong, to be in the period of illness to suffer so much torture.
If the human body is an extremely precise instrument, the current level of human medicine may only be able to achieve this machine disassembled but can not figure out its specific mode of operation, can do only a simple repair, in the complexity of the human body in front of the composition of the subtle, modern medicine is still a growing teenager, the doctor and so on, for the ordinary people want to fully understand the ailments of a The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you're getting yourself into.
However, there are some diligent and studious people who, after learning that I was sick, expressed deep dissatisfaction with the generalized immune system diseases, and repeatedly asked for specific names of the diseases, with Baidu, Sogou, and XX doctors to collect all kinds of information, and I was hanging in the water to carry out a kind of friendly medical discussion, from the causes of the disease to the treatment program, from the treating physician to the rehabilitation training, each of which was accompanied by a lot of academic information. The problem is all matched with a large number of academic screenshots, if not lying in the hospital bed, I really thought I was in a large scientific research site, and even more thoughtful to help me screenshot a paper mentioned in the disability rate and complications, and succeeded in letting a not very optimistic about the future of the I have a deep concern.
A patient as long as it is not self-defeating, a type of death, in such a developed scientific and technological conditions must have been on their own disease 360 degrees of all-round search, but this does not mean that he has the same and your desire to explore, after all, no doctor tutor hope that the PPT played on the case is their own, and as a patient really does not know more than Baidu encyclopedia, asking a patient to explore their own science, how to make the patient to explore the case? The patient to go to the popularization of their own, how to be a little cruel.
As for me, I have an immunological disease, if I go to the reproductive department or some do not want to be known by the condition, in the face of the care of the root of the problem, may only pretend that I have to go to Mars in order to maintain the remaining self-esteem and privacy.
In addition to the fear of the footsteps of the nurses, I was most afraid of the phone calls from my elders when I was sick for a few months.
Is little XX sick?
Yes, the name of the game can be the seven aunts, three grandparents, two uncles, etc.
The first time I saw this, it was the first time I saw it.
The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new cell phone, and you'll be able to do that. I said ah you young people do not always take the phone, not sleep in the middle of the night, that radiation is big, this radiation ah is not good, I heard the neighbor Wang aunt said her sister's children's classmates cousin is because of cell phone radiation only thirty years old, got leukemia, you see this is not you also got sick.
The newest addition to the list is the newest addition to the list, the newest addition to the list, the newest addition to the list, the newest addition to the list. I told you, don't lose weight, don't lose weight, look at you every time you eat that little thing, our small flowers are more than you eat (small flowers is a nine-year-old cat), now the girls all want to lose weight, the legs are thin with the sparrow like, can not be sick it. But this year's New Year's Eve is who said my face is fleshy, almost catching up with the small flower that big face.
The small XX you are not every day do not cook, only eat spicy hot, bubble noodles and those junk food? I have not been much exercise, no wonder the body is so weak, I tell you do not eat well is not good, at least 10,000 steps a day, you see since I jumped square dance, the waist is not sore legs also do not hurt, you these young people ah is the lack of exercise, omit 10,000 words here.
At the beginning of the time as a defiant fairy determined not to back sick are due to disobedience of the pot, each concerned and with the accusation of face will also patiently explain, I sleep late in addition to some of the three normal meals, do not like fried do not like fat, regular exercise every day, defecation on time, and the health of the ordinary people's habits are not very different, however, the opposite seems to have not heard the cries of my heart, still Repeat their own regimen, in short, you are sick certainly is what you do wrong, you lazy you greedy you do not listen, you do not get sick who get sick.
I recognize that habits and health are closely related, however, I have been in the pain of the disease in the life of the torture of reflection many times, and really do not have to repeat the point of guessing which link is out of the problem. I always think that the disease and genes and luck also have a great relationship, some people sleep late and eat casually and peacefully to old age, and some people strict self-discipline can not hide from the fate of the sneak attack, when everything has happened, moderate care of chanting is not wrong, but repeated nagging accusations, really only want to make people pretend to be cell phone out of power, away from the world.
If the above two condolences are still a minority, then I'm afraid I'm about to talk about a lot of people will use but let the sick in my most bitter chat method, I jokingly called the chicken blood type condolences method.
After getting sick, because the disease violates the joints, I have a long period of time can not turn over, walk, take things, many come to express their concern for the partners most often say a sentence is to be strong, often accompanied by the back of the exercise you need to strengthen ah, so that every day lying down can not be the advice. Once I also so, thought the patient said you have to be strong is a kind of encouragement, however, after the disease to really realize, love who is strong who is strong, I just want to be a delicate little fairy, heartbroken hug yourself.
This society loves positive energy, everyone hopes that the hero of the story brave and fearless people admire, however, the disease brings not only physical pain, and that can not see the future of fear, really experienced pain, weakness, nausea brought about by drugs, sleeplessness, and all other kinds of pain in the people, none of them are not strong, and constantly refreshing the limits of endurance, in order to give up the people and things! The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't know how many times I've had the thought of ending my life early in the midst of the pain, and if I'm not strong enough, I'm afraid I'll leave only a suicide note instead of this tweet.
Every sentence of the disease you have to be strong, have become a silent request and rope, I do not dare to cry, do not dare to shout pain, for fear of destroying their expectations, can only grit their teeth and pretend to be light and say all right. But I really want to complain, I want to cry, I want to say I'm so hard, I want to not be so strong. The disease seems to have cast a magic spell, born to turn a person into a small child, miss the warmth and comfort of the mother's womb and the soft voice of the advice, dear I know you're very difficult to bear, and then bear a little bit of everything will be fine.
People love to use arguments to support the correctness of their own point of view, commonly known as examples, one is not enough?
People love to use arguments to support their views, which is commonly referred to as "examples".
During my illness, I used to complain to a close friend about my physical pain and worry about the future, he listened to me in silence and returned to me that your pain is really nothing, I'll tell you that my sister-in-law had xx type of disease a while ago, and every month I need to have a lot more doses of chemo than you do, and often the body is convulsing, and can't take care of itself, you can at least control the treatment, and be able to act, and I'm very happy to see that I'm able to do that. I'm not sure if you're a good person or a good person.
After listening to his speech I don't know whether to be depressed or grateful, depressed I actually lost in the sick contest, there are too many people's pain far more than me, grateful that I can still be so depressed. But God knows, I didn't come here to compete in a so-and-so contest to be more miserable, I really just want to talk and be comforted, I don't want to know if there are people in the world who are in more pain than I am, I don't want to care about the world, food and peace, I just want to care about myself, forgive me for being such a selfish little fairy in the here and now.
Sickness does not stop spitting. The above is a brief guide for a post on how to torture a sick person into madness, so please take it with you. In fact, the principle of comforting the patient is only three, just follow your sick you the biggest, you treat you the best, everything will be fine policy, there is no comfort can not comfort the patient, less say more listen to appropriate encouragement, sincerely hope that everyone is safe, joy.