Life is at 63 and have been retired for a few years now. The process of work busy, after retirement they feel cold phase she also adapted; over the years in the economy should be some property savings.
After the first stage of acquaintance, the first thing that came up was the resistance of the children in her family.
The children felt that their mother could play any way she wanted to, and that she could do square dancing and square drilling. Traveling and traveling, old sisters and old brothers to eat and drink are good, if with which old brother or old brother to really love, this can be a good think about it.
With 63-year-old comrades in the contact process, we must be sincere. Not a false love.
The warmth is also real care: if you know in the process of square dancing or square exercise, give her a good pair of knee pads to protect her knees; winter to buy thicker gloves or good woolen hats, color quality to be better, do not buy cheap things.
What is going on in her home, seriously consider participating in helping, someone sick in the hospital to give up their own money, to help pay some of the costs first, this time do not distinguish between you and me, cure the patient is the first; personally boil porridge with warm cups packed to the hospital to replace the patient to take care of the patient, like a family member of the same participation in it over time, the hearts of the people are flesh long, who is not touched?
To be able to help like a family member, this is the best choice. It makes people feel that having such a person around to help is better than nothing.
Slowly the children in the family recognize it, and you and the old comrade will naturally bond together.
Don't count the old comrades in your dealings with them, but praise her more, appreciate her, not boastful, real praise is very popular.
Sincerely, you can get the whole family's recognition in the interaction with the old comrades. Of course, the recognition of the old comrades is the first.