I'm in my 50s, should I get a divorce

Is it still necessary for a 50-year-old couple with an unhappy marriage to get a divorce? This question is really difficult to answer, it is difficult to summarize. Unfortunate marriages are unfortunate in their own way, and should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

Couples in their 50s, marriage is no more than two cases, one is the original couple, the other is one or both are remarried, halfway couple that kind.

If the marriage is the original match this situation, if the divorce, really regrettable. As the saying goes, the teenage couple in old age. Marriage is destiny, a sea of people, two people can come together, the probability is too small, on this probability is worthy of our extra cherish. As the saying goes, a hundred years to repair the same boat, a thousand years to repair *** pillow sleep. Between husband and wife, should cherish this rare destiny.

Both sides are more than 50 years old, if this time to divorce, it is too bad. For one thing, both men and women are old enough that it is difficult to find a suitable partner after divorce. Secondly, it involves children and property division, and it is a mess.

But living a life is real, couples spend time together, if the war is constantly, then very painful. Especially one party has any vices, such as domestic violence, gambling, alcoholism, etc., to the other party is the damage is very big, marriage is like a nightmare. In this case, it is better to leave, it is better to give each other a freedom than a short pain.

If the two sides just because of personality differences, then I think it's better not to leave, because as I said above, it's hard to find a better remarriage. In this case, if you can't change each other, then change yourself, and if you can't, just make do, after all, people in their 50s don't have much left in the rest of their lives. If you are unhappy in your marriage, you can try to turn your attention to something else, such as attending a university for the elderly, practicing calligraphy, painting, square dancing and so on.

But in the case of halfway couples, seriously, the roots of the marriage between the two parties are already unstable with many obstacles. The moment there is any breeze, both sides will be like a thief to prevent each other. This situation of marriage, if you really can not go on, it is fast and furious, leave it, or both sides are tired.