In the countryside, there is no son in the family, will find a way to recruit a son-in-law. This son-in-law is actually equivalent to a son, the mother-in-law's family should be responsible for all the big things. A capable son-in-law will usually become the head of the family, but if the son-in-law is indifferent to the family's affairs, it's hard to say.
Baoding City, Hebei Province, Tang County, Brother Liu is a son-in-law, he met a "trouble". According to the statement of Mr. Liu, he has been working hard outside all these years, first in Northeast China, and then in Shenzhen. Back to reunite with the family to spend the New Year together, but was rejected by the daughter-in-law, their own walls into the home, and was thrown out of the daughter-in-law. He had no choice but to live temporarily in the village around the mountain in a ruined and broken factory building. Seeing the end of the year, he was eager to go home, so he approached the mediator, hoping to help himself home.
The husband has been working hard all year round, and it is not easy for him to come home for New Year's Eve, so he should be greeted quickly, and then cooked a table of good food and treats. The daughter-in-law said that the family has nothing to do with him, ran out more than 20 years have not returned home. What makes her even more angry is that when her own mother died, several people called him, this door-to-door son-in-law froze and did not come back, and finally hung up the phone or even simply refused to answer.
For his daughter-in-law such accusations, Liu explained that he suffered from cerebral thrombosis a few years ago. When his mother-in-law died, it was the time when the condition was so serious that he could not lift his legs and could not walk. The daughter-in-law, on the other hand, said that he had been talking nonsense, even if he had been sick for the past two years, then he had not seen him return home in previous years. In front of the mediator, the daughter-in-law asked a few more questions.
"When did the oldest (eldest son) get married, do you know?"
"When did the second one get married, do you know?"
"Do the two daughters-in-law know you?"
"Have the grandchildren, now in their teens, seen you?"
At this barrage of questions, Brother Liu began to stammer. This is a little strange, in the rural area of the wedding is a big thing, no matter how to go home, the old Liu actually did not show up once? In this regard, Mr. Liu gave an explanation, saying that the children's wedding, just outside to take over the work, too busy to go.
This old Liu in the end what work will be busy to such a point? Conversation with Mr. Liu revealed that he took over what pavilion, artificial lake, rockery work. In this village, a fellow villager has also been to the northeast in earlier years, some understanding of his situation, confirmed that he is indeed a contractor. It is reasonable to say that the contractor to make money should not be less, that the old Liu has not subsidized the family?
Talking about this issue, Liu's daughter-in-law is even more angry, said he never paid a penny to the family, even when his mother-in-law died, people did not arrive, the money did not play. I've been working hard to bring up two children, the sons went to college, the family can not afford to cook, the children are working while studying. The old Liu denied this, said that at that time every month will give the child transfer 1000 yuan living expenses, the end of the year will also give 9000 yuan tuition.
The two men's statements are always very different, in the end who is lying? In order to verify the authenticity, the mediator to come to the son's phone, dialed in person to ask. I didn't expect the son to say: "Since childhood, he (father) has never managed me, and there is no such thing as giving money." Hearing his son say this, Mr. Liu was a little silent. Mediators know that they have not yet found the crux of the matter, the old Liu so many years do not go home, can make money but do not subsidize the family, there must be a reason.
Louis vuitton handbags outlet, Liu claimed that a lot of money for the project has not come back, and at this time the daughter-in-law from the cell phone to turn out a photo, is the old Liu and a Henan woman intimate photo, the other side of his neck, the two people smile very happily. Daughter-in-law said this is someone else from her husband's circle of friends found and forwarded to her, it seems to send the circle is blocked her. For this photo, Brother Liu said it is a square dance dance friends, the relationship is better just ......
Chat to this, how the facts basically can guess, the mediator also felt that there is no persuade Brother Liu's daughter-in-law to take in the necessity of him, just said that the family let him give him a chance to change his ways. Old Liu said, his condition is now aggravated, there is no way to go out to work, after the year for people to look at a gate, pick up a scrap or something, but also barely able to earn a little pocket money. The only thing I want now is the end of the year, do not want to stay in the mountains, want to spend the New Year at home.
I think we can all predict the outcome, the daughter-in-law still do not agree to let him go home, but did not do things. The son said that although he is not good, after all, you have to call Dad. The two sons to the old Liu bought food, and bought more than a thousand pounds of coal, are sent to the waste plant, to ensure that he is not hungry not freezing. As for whether he can go home later, it depends on his own performance.
Men who have a career is not a bad thing, real life in order to break the career and ignore the family is also a lot of people. Only the family should be the source of power and goal of your career, the purpose of making money is to let the family live better. At the same time, even if the work is busy, you should also make time for your family, at least when there is something at home to show up. Like the old Liu such a go out to work for many years not to come back, to the family does not care about things, is also very rare very strange.
I hope that Mr. Liu will be able to cover his family's hearts with practical actions and move down from the mountains to his home as soon as possible, as he said himself. Do you think the family should give him a chance until they accept him?