Middle-aged men, over the hill, have long been waiting for no one.

Saturday night, and my sister took my little niece to stroll through the center of the book city. Leaving a wide range of book city, corner to the lively square, the big moms in groups dancing square dance, the artist crossed his legs waiting to go up to ask for a portrait of the customer, the concert hall door scalper to see people will ask for tickets? Outside the hustle and bustle and the book city inside the peaceful contrast, live in two worlds.

Walking across the street, there was a cover of Ella Chang's "The Price of Love" from the crowd, sung by street musicians, three unimpressive middle-aged men, vocalist, guitarist, saxophone, electric piano, all the same, the sparrow is not small, but all the organs are complete. Slightly hoarse and powerful voice, both magnetic and a sense of experience, so that we do not stop to enjoy it. Then look at the crowd of people watching and enjoying, all ages, but the overall look, actually is 30-40 years old men mostly, their faces expressionless, eyes confused, but also seems to be thinking, frowning meditation. I do not know how they feel at the moment, probably the lyrics have been revealed: go, go, people always have to learn to grow up; go, go, life is inevitably experiencing pain and struggle; go, go, go, for their own heart to find a home, but also had tears of sadness, but also had a broken heart, which is the price of love...

Yes , it is not easy for people to reach middle age, especially middle-aged men in first-tier cities. Especially the past 2018, the business winter, is particularly difficult.

But, when people reach middle age, which year is not difficult?

Since the "greasy middle-aged man" list, goji berries and thermos cups of the paragraph y rooted in people's hearts, middle-aged men's "funeral" is like the back of the gorgeous robe has been uncovered, not only there are lice, there are also rough repair patches.

The pain of young people is very impressive; the pain of middle-aged people is silent.

Originally, we all have a successful career and stable family "the best time of life", finally removed the filter, revealing the true face. When people reach middle age, life begins to go downhill. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do it in a way that's easy for you.

Children are older, parents are older. The speed of their own money did not keep up with the pace of the children growing up, and did not catch up with the pace of aging parents. But they are the mainstay of the family.

There is a paragraph on the Internet, do not reprimand the young people, they will immediately resign and leave; but you can feel free to reprimand the middle-aged people, they have an old man and a young man, can not flash people. In the words of Eileen Chang, "A middle-aged man feels lonely from time to time, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who want to rely on him, but there is no one he can rely on."

Both parents need to take care of their elderly parents, but also to prepare for medical treatment at any time;

The growing children need to be taken care of as soon as possible, the household registration and the index of the famous school.

The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time before I was able to get to a place where I was able to get to the top.

One second, they were laid off, and the next, they had to face the "30,000 dollars can not support the children's summer vacation".

The middle-aged man, over the hill, has been waiting for no one.

All that's left is a weak body and a tired dream, but also carry the last cover, for fear that it will become obsolete. The main character in Han Han's new movie, "Spirited Away," is also a middle-aged man who is "bereaved" of his life.

In the face of the turbulent and fragmented life, back to the neon fireworks fried rice to support his family, he told you: only when you have no confidence in themselves, will be out of date.

But in middle age, he wants to bend the road once. Not to overtake someone else, but the person he once was.

Just like Zhang Chi said to his teammates, "You are not much of a story in life, want some stories; I, too many stories in life, want to give myself an ending." There is a kind of self-redemption in the middle age, called "bottoming out".

"I'm not trying to win, I just don't want to lose."

Men are like this, women are like this, life is a chicken hair, the night of the tears, pain, the next day to draw a fine makeup or smile face into the work. No one to pay for your tears last night, life is never the first, will not wait for you, you have no value will only be the reality of the merciless abandonment. The only way to avoid being left out of the car is to keep seeking progress.