A bowl of soup is the best distance. Living together is really easy to cause conflicts and awkward, and you have to look at people's faces and do housework for them, so why make a fool of yourself.
Why live together? Is it because you don't have a place to live, or you can't bear to part with your son?
If it's a case of not having a place to live, I can only blame myself for not having a long-term plan and not working hard enough when I was younger. See if you can find a way to buy a small house near your son. If it's a case of not being able to let go of your son, then you can only let go. The rest of your life is not very long, it's time to plan for yourself. Square dance every day, exercise and develop hobbies.
I also have a son who will be a mother-in-law in the future. Now you have to work hard to earn money and plan for the future. I've read many examples of rich mothers-in-law who have more dignity in their old age.
Living together is also a good choice, a friend of mine is gentle and virtuous, but it is and mother-in-law and can not come, her mother-in-law has two daughters-in-law, the daughter-in-law of the sweet-talking, very good at pleasing her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law also like to help the little daughter-in-law with the child. But my friend is very straightforward, sometimes speak to the mother-in-law does not like, so my friend simply do not live with them, a person in Shenzhen to do financial, children and husband and mother-in-law live together.
Today, my friend is living a very prosperous life alone in Shenzhen, people are short, treat yourself well. There are many female friends many diseases, such as breast nodules, which is usually caused by anger, people live is to make themselves happy, have a good body than anything else,
There are a lot of young girls to get married the first condition is to live separately from the in-laws, which can be accepted to avoid conflicts, but really can be avoided? Mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship in China is the primary contradiction in marriage, two women who do not know each other in order to the same a man had to enter a circle, and it is necessary to accept each other, regardless of like or dislike, so naturally leave a lot of drawbacks exist, a blood to the family, a marriage to the family, two different women but have to be and a man exists, surely there are a lot of can not be **** at the existence of the problem, the problem. Either character, diet, or is to fight for favor, so the man is the only balance of the relationship between the center, if the man can grasp the appropriate, decent maneuver, perhaps the two women can peace **** place, if the man is weak, a taste for avoidance, the family that will be chicken and dog jumping. So the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law does not lie in the distance, but the tolerance and respect for each other, the mother-in-law strive to do mom, daughter-in-law thinking of doing daughter-in-law, everything is not a problem.