There was once a student who stayed at school and didn't want to go home after school because his parents often played poker at home to escape from such a family environment. I think that if you hate this kind of family environment, you can also try to reduce the contact with your parents.
Don't play cards at home, don't interfere with family life
Knowing that the parents of my students' families were gamblers, I checked every day at the end of the school day to see if the children in the classroom had gone home, and if there were any who were still in the classroom. That day, because there was a lot of homework, I went to the classroom long after the school bell rang, but I found a girl in the teacher, Chen scribbling on the blackboard.
I asked her why she hadn't gone home yet.
She said there was no one to cook when she got home, and that her mom and dad both liked to gamble, and now she didn't know who she was playing poker with at home. Sometimes playing poker until very late at night also do not sleep, who loses and who wins will yell ......
I a burst of speechless, as a parent, actually do not even care about their own children, only focus on gambling.
I told her, then you have to come home too, and if you don't like it, you tell mom and dad so they don't gamble or go out there and don't bring it into the house.
This is one way to communicate with your parents and let them know that you have an opinion, and express this protest with your actions, and if you have elders, you can also pull your elders into your camp, so that they do not become addicted to gambling, or do not gamble in the house, which interferes with the normal life, and you can't study well, and you can't have a good rest.
I don't go home, out of sight, out of mind
Of course, as children, their influence on their parents may be limited, and when their parents are determined to play poker, it's possible that they can't be persuaded to do so.
But if you want to minimize the conflict with your parents, you can do so by not living in an environment where your parents are constantly playing cards.
Lodging away from home is one way. School dormitories, company dormitories, etc., are all good choices, except in big cities where rent is more expensive, and other general cities where you can earn your own living expenses to meet your survival needs.
More importantly, do you have the ability to stand on your own two feet, or are you inches away from your poker-loving parents?
Using other people's examples to influence parents' behavior
Parents' education for their children is actually more important than that of the teachers. Parents are in contact with their children every day, and what the parents do, the children learn.
As teachers, they can teach children the dangers of gambling, but parents play cards every day, it is difficult for children not to learn to play cards ......
Word and example, parents should pay more attention to their own behavior, to be a good example.
If there are any people around who have lost their homes because of gambling, you can take your parents, feel it, see it, and see if they are willing to pay for the cost of their family's happiness in order to play cards. I believe that witnessing it with your own eyes is more capable of touching the hearts of parents.