Someone once said that all love cannot be limited by age. And love itself, is freedom.
For love, most people think that it only belongs to the young. And for those who are older, it is not necessary.
Is it true that older people have no right to pursue "love"?
In fact, people of all ages have the right to pursue love. Because of the love, it is about the heart, rather than the rigid reality.
In this regard, we can find that some people, although they are older, but still in the "pursuit of love" on the road farther and farther.
These pursuit of "love" people, they are in the end the majority of men, or women?
In most people's opinion, it's definitely men. The reason for this is that when a woman is old enough to pursue love, she is said to be ungrateful.
Such a view, after all, is still a bit stereotypical.
Because under certain conditions, older women are more open and bold in their pursuit of love.
Especially some widowed women, they will not only pursue men, but also favor young and strong men.
The so-called "old cow eat young grass". This kind of behavior is not only for men, but also for women.
For this problem, it is worth listening to the following woman in the end how to say.
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Auntie Wang is 65 years old and her partner has been away from her for 5 years.
In the 5 years since she lost her partner, she has not been living with her children, but by herself in her old house, living a lonely life.
Why didn't she live with her children? Because Auntie Wang's children are all just renting a room outside, and besides, the children have started a family, so it's not appropriate to live together.
So her life is lonely and unsupported.
And she, in order to relieve the bitterness in her heart, often went to the park at the edge of the village to dance with others.
When she first started square dancing, Auntie Wang realized that she not only liked the lifestyle, but also liked the instructor who taught her how to dance.
The coach, who is 55 years old, is still not married, for what reason no one knows.
For Auntie Wang, she especially liked the coach's gentleness and the feeling of dancing with him.
Slowly, in a back-and-forth, both sides are also good, and even a few times, she lived with the coach.
Because of the people in the park, all the people inside the village, so Auntie Wang this matter soon spread.
And it also reached the ears of Auntie Wang's son.
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When Auntie Wang's son heard it, he was actually surprised by the emotion and felt an inexplicable sense of complexity.
The surprise is that he does not know how his mother and the other side of the good, how the other side will look than their own 10 years older than the woman's?
And the sense of complexity lies in the fact that this man, what is the purpose of his coming to his mother's side, and how much offense he will really cause.
In addition, he also believes that it would be good to have a man who can take care of his mother.
With this complexity in mind, he went back over to the old house one week-end to talk to his mother in detail about the matter.
When he returned to the old house, he found that the man was cooking while the mother was washing the dishes, and they seemed to be getting along very well.
So as not to disturb them, the son enters the house after the man has left.
He asked his mother, "Mom, I've heard people say that you've been getting particularly close to a man lately, is there such a thing?"
Auntie Wang was surprised and said, "It must be those long-tongued women who spread the word. I'm not afraid to admit it, I've been lonely for many years and want to find a companion."
The son heard, said: "Mom, I do not oppose you to find a companion, but we have to see how the purpose of this person, the intention is good bad, or you were cheated of money also do not know ah."
As a mother, Auntie Wang was actually very happy to hear this, because she knew that her child had agreed with her behavior.
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Here's the question, why would 65-year-old Auntie Wang like a 55-year-old young man?
To many people, this is unbelievable. Could it be that older women also like younger men?
In fact, this is certain.
It has been said that everyone has an "old cow eating young grass" heart, but most people do not directly show it.
Especially the older, and widowed for many years, they not only have the feeling of loneliness, but also hope that someone else will "love" his desire.
Like Auntie Wang, her partner has been dead for years, and no matter how she lives her life, she is lonely.
So it's not unusual for her to seek out an older partner, or to fall in love with a younger man.
This "normal", from the physical and psychological needs.
No matter how old a person is, appropriate physiological needs are necessary.
No matter what kind of situation a person is in, he or she needs some kind of psychological fulfillment,
and when these two needs are lacking, they will give birth to the idea of finding a new love.
And this is the main reason why they prefer younger, stronger men.
The first time I've seen this, I've seen it in the past, and I've seen it in the present.