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Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is tense, most of them stem from the two sides stand in their respective positions, did not think of each other. Don't underestimate the usual unpleasantness between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of those drops, through the accumulation of day-to-day convergence, and eventually condensed into a big contradiction.
While there is no blood relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they are destined to become a family because of their deep love for a man. And home should be full of affectionate atmosphere, if the family for a little bit of small things, fight a redneck thick, even if the fight won and how.
Moreover, the family should focus on the big picture, no matter who has difficulties, family members should be united **** through the difficult times. Some mothers-in-law are too selfish, on the son's business is very concerned about the daughter-in-law's business is to hold a "not a matter of concern" mentality, which will undoubtedly make the daughter-in-law in the family can not find a sense of belonging.
Zhou Hong encountered an arrogant mother-in-law, home, but a little bit of big things, mother-in-law and son only to discuss, never consult her as a daughter-in-law's opinion. The company's newest product is a new product, which will be available on the market in the next few months.
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The mother-in-law's eyesight is high, and she dislikes the fact that Zhou Hong is from the countryside. In fact, the gap between the city and the suburbs is narrowing, and many rural people are living in buildings, driving private cars, and saving money, which is even better than that of the city people. However, Zhou Hong's mother-in-law does not know where the superiority, in front of the daughter-in-law open mouth, we city people.
In order not to let her mother-in-law look down on her, Zhou Hong asked her parents to borrow money to open up a store, in her heart to take care of business is very good, 2 years time to earn enough to buy a house down payment. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said. "The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said.
Out of filial piety, Zhou Hong agreed to allow her mother-in-law to follow them into the new home, but within days she began to regret this decision. In fact, the mother-in-law has a lot of time on her hands after retirement, and Zhou Hong and her husband are busy with their work, so her mother-in-law can help with the shopping and cooking. But her mother-in-law only cared about their own style, every day either with old friends climbing mountains or dancing, housework is not willing to do.
Even when Zhou Hong was in her first month of life, her mother-in-law called Zhou Hong's mother in order not to delay the game, and pushed her to do all the dirty work, and she was only responsible for watching the baby. The newborn baby eat and sleep, mother-in-law is leisurely sitting on the sofa to play with the phone, looking at the hot weather mother in the kitchen sweating, Zhou Hong heart is very sad.
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Even though her mother worked hard every day, she couldn't get a good word out of her mother-in-law, who was either too salty to eat, too hard to cook, or not clean enough to scrub the floor. The first thing you need to do is to get your mother-in-law to talk to you, and you'll be able to see your mother-in-law's face, and you'll be able to see her face, and you'll be able to see her face, and you'll be able to see her face, and you'll be able to see her face, and you'll be able to see her face, and you'll be able to see her face.
Husband believed that the couple had a big fight, Zhou Hong temper to hold the child, back to his mother's home to sit through the month. During the period, her husband apologized several times at the door, coupled with the persuasion of her parents, Zhou Hong, which went along with the steps, followed her husband home after the full moon.
Considering the fact that the business season is about to start, the store is too busy for one employee, Zhou Hong wanted to ask her mother-in-law to help her with the baby, and she came back every day to deliver the milk. However, her mother-in-law said she had signed up for a square dance competition at the senior university and had to practice every day, so she didn't have time to take care of her grandchildren. She also said that whoever gives birth raises the child, and asked Zhou Hong not to put the responsibility on her as a grandmother.
Forced to do so, Zhou Hong had to brazenly ask her parents to watch the child, parents distressed daughter is not easy, and fear of the in-laws, and ultimately, the old couple of money in the same neighborhood to buy a house, not only to Zhou Hong with the child, but also responsible for her noon meal delivery.
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Thinking of their own already married but still trouble parents, Zhou Hong is really upset, give money to the old man refused to accept, she had to buy a little milk cereal fruit from time to time to send over. This usual action, but the mother-in-law is not happy, not to say Zhou Hong eating outside, this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have not been a contradiction.
2 years later, the mother-in-law checked out the body of a cyst, need to be hospitalized for surgery. The mother-in-law did not say anything, she knew that usually did not have a good relationship with the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law did not make any contribution and help, now the daughter-in-law will take the opportunity to return the favor.
The situation is unexpected, Zhou Hong not only personally in the hospital accompanied, but also mobilized his parents to help, three meals a day to send a variety of delicious meals, the family all around the mother-in-law. This makes the mother-in-law very incomprehensible, and asked her daughter-in-law why she should be so good to her.
Zhou Hong smiled and replied: "Mom, I also thought of not caring about you, but I really can't do it. Since I married your son, I am your daughter-in-law, a family does not need to see outside, only we are good, this family can be good."
Mother-in-law was touched, tears to Zhou Hong apologized, admitted that they were too selfish, figure comfort not to bring grandchildren, did not think about the daughter-in-law's feelings, but also with the in-laws, from now on, she will never again be a demon.
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The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is nothing more than the mother-in-law is not used to the daughter-in-law, is not willing to the status of the hostess was replaced by the daughter-in-law, do not like the daughter-in-law to share the son's love; daughter-in-law is not accustomed to the mother-in-law's interference, hate the mother-in-law leaning on the old man, and then try to find ways to rebel.
In fact, looking at the problem from a different perspective, the reason why the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, because they are only loaded with the heart of the small me, only think of their own problems how to solve, but did not do to think differently. The mother-in-law is not willing to give up her hobby to bring up her grandchildren, but does not consider the daughter-in-law to open a store to earn money to pay the mortgage to raise children hard.
And the daughter-in-law may have never thought, don't look at the old man appearance tough, in fact, the inner is very fragile. Especially those who are old, they feel that their time is running out, so they want to enjoy the remaining good time, and live a good life for themselves.
In the final analysis, the lack of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to think differently, we must realize that everyone has different ideas, see the problem from a different perspective. So between the family, usually spend more time to communicate with each other, each other heart to heart frankly, naturally easy to communicate.