The acting circle is never short of beautiful women,
Mei Ting's "beauty" is unforgettable.
In the eyes of the flickering eyes,
Full of all the stubbornness.
If you have to find a sentence to summarize Mei Ting
What I can think of is -
Not according to the rules.
She could have relied on her face to get a job, but she had to act,
She went through a lot of trouble to get into the Chinese Opera House, but she dropped out in her sophomore year,
She put up her entire fortune for her ex-husband, but she filed for divorce,
She fell in love with Zeng Jian, who is three years younger than her, through filming
After suffering from a broken heart, she took the initiative to take the lead
She got married in low profile but she is being pampered by her husband,
She has lived a life that is the envy of all. p> Lived a life to be envied.
Mei Ting's experience,
What kind of enlightenment does it give us?
01
Meiting was favored by the gods, and it was smooth sailing Meiting was born in 1975 in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province. Her father was a military doctor and her mother was an ordinary worker. Mei Ting grew up beautiful, like a doll Under the long, dense eyelashes is a pair of big, soulful eyes that emit an independent light from time to time. At the age of 5, she was chosen by the Children's Hospital to promote the statue because of her good looks. At the age of 7, she offered to apply for the Nanjing Little Red Flower Art Troupe. On the Spring Festival Gala several times, With the opportunity to go abroad and exchange with famous artists. Not only is there a high demand for cultural and artistic skills, but there is also a high demand for physical appearance. Seeing their daughter's determination, the parents took the idea of trying to enroll her. Perhaps some people are favored by the heavens at birth, Mei Ting was selected and became a student of the Little Red Flower Art Troupe. She has been working on a project for the past few years, and she has been working on a project for the next few years. Five years later, Mei Ting was sent to Nanjing First High School with the qualification of "dance specialty student", Later on, Mei Ting was admitted to the Frontier Song and Dance Troupe of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Fine Arts because of her outstanding performance. In the second year of her high school education, she was admitted to the Frontier Song and Dance Troupe of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Fine Arts. If nothing else, Mei Ting might have spent her life as a soldier, singing and dancing for the soldiers. But there are always some uncertainties in life, such as Mei Ting's encounter with a big shot in the capital, Ye Dajing, which changed her life. 02 Meeting Ye Dajing, Mei Ting started a new life In the Beijing compound, Ye Dajing had a friendship with Ye Jing, Wang Shuo and Zhao Baogang. Wang Shuo is known as the "father of mainland variety arts" But his debut "half of the sea water, half of the flame" "Tenacious" can fire, There is also a part of Ye Dajing's credit. In 1994, Ye Dajing was ready to shoot the movie "Scarlet Heart". At the Nanjing Military Region Frontline Song and Dance Troupe, he spotted 19-year-old Mei Ting at a glance . Fair and clean skin, flashing eyes, high nose, pursed lips unconsciously show perseverance, a hit Ye Dajing's heart. And the black and shiny ponytail, A shake, but also shook the eyes of Ye Dajing. He immediately made the decision that she was the one! And so, Mei Ting followed the crew to Russia, where she was partnered with popular actor Lu Yi, and starred in the role of Chuchu, a young girl in the "Scarlet Heart". Whether it is acting or looks, Mei Ting at that time, a little green, but she from inside to outside are full of real sense, y pouting the audience's heart, also into the heart of the Ye Dajing. Mei Ting with the role of "Chu Chu", won the "Spring Swallow Award" for best actress. Mei Ting became famous and fell in love with acting. As Mei Ting's popularity grew, the number of offers for her to do movies also increased. And by this time, she had been promoted to the rank of platoon. The song and dance troupe asked her to choose between acting and an iron rice bowl and Mei Ting was caught in a dilemma. In '95, Mei Ting secretly applied to Nortel, but ended up losing out because the organization wouldn't give her a certificate. Mei Ting, a passionate performer, made another life-changing decision. 03 It's clear that you can rely on your face to make a living, but you have to act In 1996, at the age of 20, Mei Ting resigned from the Song and Dance Troupe, and enrolled in the Chinese opera troupe, becoming one of the "Seven Golden Flowers" of the 96th grade of the Chinese opera. Mei Ting was one of the "Seven Golden Flowers" in the 96th grade of the Chinese Opera House, and she was classmates with Zhang Ziyi, Zeng Li, Liu Ye, Qin Hailu, Yuan Quan, Fu Jing, Hu Jing and many others. And Zhang Ziyi live in a dormitory, They became good friends with good relations. But, Zhang Ziyi was later spotted by the famous director Zhang Yimou into the "Mou girl", a leap on the "international movie queen" throne. But Mei Ting dropped out of college during her sophomore year. At that time, Mei Ting was already a great "famous actress" in the eyes of her classmates. Later, Mei Ting received a film contract for "Northern Tales", but there are rules in the Chinese opera that students can't leave school to shoot a movie. Zhang Ziyi was scolded by her teacher when she came back from a private commercial . After Mei Ting made a plea to the school, the school finally made a concession asking the crew to give the acting department a sponsorship fee. But when Mei Ting went back to the school with the money from Ye Dajing the teacher took a look and changed her face. The negotiations did not work, Mei Ting simply quit school to focus on filming. The movie, which cost Mei Ting a fortune, didn't bring her back to prominence. In the same year, Ye Dajing directed The Red Lovers Mei Ting worked with Leslie Cheung, and was given a pair of designer glasses by Leslie Cheung, which made Zhang Ziyi envious. With this movie, Mei Ting won the Best Actress Award at the Cairo International Film Festival and the Outstanding Actress Award at the 5th Huabiao Awards. It may seem like a great success, but Mei Ting has missed out on a lot. After dropping out of school, Mei Ting, under the patronage of Ye Dajing, like a canary in a cage, lived a life of clothing and food without any pursuit. Ye Dajing was afraid that Mei Ting's popularity would be too much for him to control, and he stopped directing new movies because he was not inspired. But Mei Ting didn't want to live like this, she started to go out and find her own theater crews, the two of them were in constant conflict and drifted apart. I don't know if she's ever regretted her impulsive behavior, when she saw her former classmates surpassing her one by one and achieving extraordinary success. And Mei Ting more impulsive, far more than this one thing, soon she met her "false destiny" and lost all the money more than 4 million. 04 Maturing in acting, she married Yanyan Po At the turn of the millennium, Mei Ting co-starred in Don't Talk to Strangers with Feng Yuan Zheng. The movie is a classic in terms of its writing and directing as well as the actors' interpretation and grasp of the role It has made the role of Mei Xiangnan Mei Ting and Feng Yuanzheng, who plays the role of An Jiahe, a hot mess. Even 20 years later, many of those who saw the movie in the first place remember the feeling of terror. When Feng Yuanzheng was mentioned, he gritted his teeth, and when he talked about the victims of domestic violence Mei Ting 's bloodstained face and those two poor, innocent little goldfish came to mind. Mei Ting's acting skills skyrocketed, earning her the honorary title of Double Ten Best Actor in Television Arts. At this time, Mei Ting met Yan Po at a party. Mei Ting pursues truthfulness and naturalness in the theater, and is not pretentious in life. She ate her favorite meal, without realizing that her image of gluttony fell into the eyes of a man without a trace. At that time, Yan Po just returned from France, clean, warm and easy, talented, with the temperament of an artist, but not stained with the world of smoke and dust. This kind of Yan Po also has an inexplicable attraction to Mei Ting. The Yan Po, who fell in love with Mei Ting at first sight, has used all his tricks to pursue Mei Ting, and frequent text messages, as well as careful romance. Once, Yan Po learned the French to quietly fly to the set where Mei Ting was filming, texting Mei Ting, "If I drop in unannounced now, will you be happy?" Mei Ting was agonizing over a plot and casually replied, "Not happy!" Such a straightforward Mei Ting, in the heart of Yan Po instead more points. Such pursuit, let Mei Ting no force, not to mention that Mei Ting herself is a person with ideals, she is naturally favorable to the talented people. After meeting for a month and going on a romantic trip to France their relationship became inseparable. Three months later, they had a secret wedding. That year Mei Ting was 26 years old and Yan Po was 6 years older than her. 05 In the first marriage, she lived as an "old mother", and she was wounded all over After the marriage, Mei Ting, her career was in full swing. The first time I saw the movie, I was able to see the movie, and I was able to see the movie, and I was able to see the movie, and I was able to see the movie. However, the opposite of her, Yan Po, seems to be how to hold up. The company wants to hold exhibitions and open studios. Mei Ting took out her savings to support him. YAN Po also has a dream of directing, Mei Ting is all of their own will be their years of savings of more than 3 million to help, but also desperate to get a movie, it is not easy to come up with 4 million to help him prepare for the shooting of the "Aspirin". In order to save money Mei Ting was the producer and starred as the female lead. However, the director of the film, Yanyan Po, was not happy with her performance She was often angry with Mei Ting on the set, but Mei Ting put up with it, she understood Yanyan Po's difficulties. Then the film was released, Yan Po was nominated as the most popular director of the Beijing University Film Festival, but the box office was very poor. During this period, Mei Ting took on films and TV dramas such as The Age of Passion Let Love Begin Again, and her fame grew. Yan Po has not been able to make any progress, and has been labeled as a "soft rice" hat, which makes Yan Po very uncomfortable. In 2006, Yan Po accidentally got the opportunity to direct the "New Marriage Era", In order to let Yan Po into the game, Mei Ting also lowered her own price, willing to play the female supporting role in the drama. And she and Yan Po's conflict has reached a feverish stage, Yan Po had a "crying scene" Mei Ting emotionally incorrect, and the public was furious at her, and even yelled: "How do you do as an actor? Shoot a crying scene are so fake! Positive this scene without you, hurry up!" The hurt accumulates over time and slowly becomes a wound that cannot be ignored. And then later rumors that he and the actress in the hotel "on the script" Mei Ting was caught on the spot scandal. In November 2006, during a promotional event for The New Age of Marriage, YAN Po complained: "We're now mixing work and life together, talking about work all the time after tea and dinner, and there's no more life." Rumors were swirling that the two had divorced, and to break the "divorce" rumors, in December, Mei Ting showed her wedding photos. However, a few months later, Mei Ting publicly admitted that the two have been divorced, Yanyan Quo hand in hand Li Xiaoran, also known as the "New Marriage Era" heroine, A public outcry, said what all have. It was Mei Ting who stepped forward, to explain her relationship with Yan Po and deny the rumor. In the Jin Xing Show, she told the audience, "If we go on, both sides will hurt each other". 6 years of marriage, Mei Ting lived into the "old mother" image, Managed to broken heart, and begged for the whole, finally came to the end of the "labor and swallow fly each west east". But as the old saying goes, "misfortune and good fortune come hand in hand." How can you pick up a "watermelon" without losing a "sesame seed"? 06 Lost in love, but ushered in the career highlights After the divorce, Mei Ting, whether it is a relationship or acting, are stuck in the trough period. Until 2012, Mei Ting once again ushered in the peak of her career. This year, she and Guo Tao starred in Parental Love. In the movie, Mei Ting played the role of An Jie. From green silk to white hair, from the girl to the old woman, From the fashionable young lady to the plainly dressed square dancer, Mei Ting's understanding of the character's psychology is very thorough, Her every move, knit her brows and smile are all portrayed in the wood, Never those who stare and lift up the chin to show the arrogance of the With the finger-biting and lip-biting to show the simple traffic flow. It's not like those actresses who bite their fingers and lips to show their simplicity. This TV series allowed her to win the Flying Sky Award for Outstanding Actress, and was nominated for Best Actress at the Shanghai TV Festival, Mei Ting is back in the audience's sights. In the same year, Mei Ting starred in Pushing Daisies, which won the Grand Prize at one of the three major international film festivals as well as the highest award at the Taiwan Film Festival. Not only that, but the movie led to Mei Ting's ultimate happiness. 07 Meets Zhen Zun Bao, a second wife spoiled as a "princess" Zeng Jian is known far and wide as a "talent", who has won three gold awards for editing. Mei Ting fell in love at first sight with Zeng Jian but after she made a secret gesture, she didn't see any action. This can be anxious Mei Ting, she took the initiative to find the same crew shooting Qin Hao, straight to the point, said: "I like Zeng Jian, but he did not even show, in the end, what does it mean ah?" Qin Hao how smart ah, the understanding, immediately came to the side of Zeng Jian, lying on his ear, two words pointing out some. In this way The honest Zeng Jian realized, He also likes Mei Ting, Compared with Mei Ting's fame, The difference is not a half a point big. Originally, I thought it was a luxury, and I didn't dare to think about it, After Qin Hao so a little bit, I got the hang of it, and the two of them quickly got married in Hong Kong. Because Mei Ting had a failed marriage, this time and started so hastily, many people are sweating for her. And Zeng Jian's family, originally did not quite agree with them, but seeing the two people really love each other, they also accepted this daughter-in-law, send sincere blessings. After the marriage, Mei Ting gave birth to a daughter fast, and added a big fat boy Yang Yang. I remember when my son was a few months old, she participated in "Mom is Superman" 2-year-old daughter's childish words: "Mom is not Superman!" At the time, I thought it was a random comment from a child, but later I realized it was incredibly appropriate. I'm a klutz, I've been shredding potatoes for half a day and I've ended up with sliced potatoes, I can't breastfeed my son, I can even make him fall out of his chair when I'm watching him. All kinds of unreliable, the whole confused, people do not have to vomit. But looking at the post-partum growth of more than 20 pounds, fat into a ball of Mei Ting Smiling to everyone, said: "I life is not particularly good? My husband didn't even let me brush a single bowl, and at night he took care of the children, I just sleep." Suddenly there is a kind of inexplicable touch. It turns out that "happy fat" has a source! Yes, it's not a matter of life and death, What woman would want to be a superhero who can do anything? If you can, Who wouldn't want to be a princess spoiled by her husband? Now, Mei Ting's daughter is 7 years old and her son is 5 years old, the two youngsters have turned into a sister and brother, who can make fun of each other, and watch the ants move in the bushes. They are the ones who can make fun of each other and watch the ants move in the grass together. Through the love injury, through the marriage, through the career downturn, Mei Ting lived into the envy of the people. Some people ask why? In fact, it is very simple ah, she has a dream, so desperately to chase the cause; She believes in love, so the injury is also brave to pursue their own happiness; She has her own heart, so at any time will not have been aggrieved by their own, Wrong immediately stop, the right to bravely adhere to the wind and rain without fear. Face value and acting skills fly together, pattern and temperament and drive, Such Mei Ting, How not happy? Borrowing a line from "The Journey of Uncertainty", I would like to encourage you: A person's whole life is to get rid of the bundles of other people's expectations. May everyone find their own happiness!