I think: in marriage, no love should tell each other, but it must be clear that the couple is not no love, but no passion.
People who have been married know that no matter how passionate a couple's feelings once were, they will pass with the passage of time, age, and finally fall flat, melting into a quiet life.
If you can understand and accept the present calm lifestyle, don't be windless, calm life can be experienced in the calm joy and happiness.
If you can't accept the current lifestyle, and you want to live a life of passionate love, you need to communicate with each other honestly, find out the reasons why your life is so dull, and live a passionate life together.
The seemingly lack of love between husband and wife is because of the increasing familiarity of the two people, the two sides together without a sense of mystery, without the kind of ? Leaning on the door to look back, want to talk, shy two infatuation? The feeling of the two men is not the same as that of the two women.
Some of the good once broken, it is difficult to return to the former feeling, the best love is not get, far from the appreciation, far from the watch, the heart of the non-stop thinking, these love exist in the imagination of the good.
Marriage is like a beautiful scene we see from afar, always so beautiful, until the scene, as far as the eye, the hand can be touched, a piece of grass can be seen clearly, the kind of pleasure brought by the beautiful scenery, the heart will be much less happy.
The love in marriage is like a silent flower, need to cultivate, need to water, need to love, need to appreciate.
I. So, how can we make the lost love reappear?
1. Both sides to re-create their new image
Couples live together for a long time, to each other's attire, mannerisms are particularly familiar, and sometimes even the other side of the small gestures, mantra are as good as know, the other side in front of their own is a ? Transparent people?
So, couples should often change the head type, change the style of new clothes, give each other a sudden surprise, so that the other party to fall in love with you again.
2. Couples take the time to live in the world or go out to travel
Some couples are busy every day, are very tired, there is no time to adjust the rhythm of life, couples simply can not find the time to grooming feelings, at this time, to take a break, a few days of relaxed and happy life, so that couples get a timely addition to their feelings; or to go out to travel and see the local customs, try a little bit of delicious food from different places. Taste the delicious food around the world, will also provide couples with a new **** the same language, a new feeling of life.
3. Often the furniture in the home to change places
Couples live together for many years, the environment of the home has been familiar with can not be familiar, plus the two together all day long, each other have visual fatigue, the colloquialism is: enough to see.
This time, often change the furniture at home, add a few pots of beautiful flowers, potted plants, the mood will be different, which is touching the scene, a good scene will also bring a good mood.
4. Couples go out for a walk, exercise
Couples back home, eat dinner and go for a walk, square dancing, go out with friends to exercise, full of enthusiasm will also bring a good mood.
5. Go home and stay away from the phone, read couples recall the sweet past
Most people come back every day with their cell phones, each playing their own, chatting, playing games, watching movies and so on, there is no time for verbal communication between them, couples are becoming more and more unfamiliar with each other, it really is like ? The left hand touches the right hand?
If couples spend their quiet time reminiscing about the sweet past, the moments that moved them, couples will surely cause ****ing, because it was the two of them **** with the experience of the beautiful, wonderful moments.
The memories are intermittent, I believe that every good time, are the couple's feelings mingled moment.
6. create a romantic mood
Couples need a romantic mood, need passion, and passion needs to get in the romantic, pre-marital romance is natural, because the two do not live together, have their own living space, there are thoughts of each other, there is a thirst for love, this love from the heart, so that they put a lot of thought into creating a romantic mood for each other, so they will continue to have a romantic mood. That's why there are constant surprises, constant passion and non-stop love between them.
Second, the conclusion
This shows that the seemingly absence of love in marriage is not really the absence of love, it is because each other in the trivial life, there is no take care of feelings of time, energy, and mood.
Marriage needs passion, need enthusiasm, need to make each other happy and happy desire, need to let each other's feelings of long-lasting thirst, need to stay together for life, never give up the vow, need to love with all your heart, with all your heart to do, without complaint to pay the love.