The world is full of wind and cloud, and as soon as it enters the Jianghu, the years will rush;
when you talk and laugh, you can't live a drunken life.
I work wholeheartedly at work. In my spare time, I just socialize, drink and occasionally play cards. I don't have any special hobbies, and I don't have many friends. Outside my colleagues, that is, classmates and students have more contacts. I didn't participate in the "circle" and I didn't feel anything at that time. On the contrary, I was very bored with those so-called "circles".
A few days ago, an outdoor hiker crossed the Huaguo Mountain, and he met a retired high school PE teacher on the bus. He told me about the "circle" he participated in, including cycling circle, basketball circle, fishing circle and photography circle. Especially for bicycle riding rings, his equipment is very professional, and the top-grade equipment costs 1, yuan to 2, yuan. Personal equipment includes helmets, riding caps, glasses, face towels, riding clothes (including tops, riding trousers, riding trousers, etc.), lock shoes, riding backpacks, sleeves, gloves, leg covers, etc. Car body equipment includes professional bicycles, lights, meters, mobile phone brackets, car beam bags, kettle racks, simple inflators, car locks, multifunctional maintenance tools, spare tires, etc. Ride 2-3 times a week, about 1 kilometers each time. He tried to pull me to join his cycling circle. There are too many benefits. I feel that the amount of exercise is too much, which may be a little unbearable. Think about it.
Nowadays, all kinds of "circles" of friends are popular in society, because * * * share the same hobbies and come together. Including classmate circle, student circle, square dance, ballroom dancing, catwalk, reading, poetry friends, calligraphy and painting, chess, musical instruments, Tik Tok, mahjong, playing cards, tennis, big balls and small balls (including football, basketball, volleyball, gateball, table tennis, badminton, etc.), swimming, running, fitness, brisk walking, beauty, moxibustion, etc. You can join any circle you want. With the circle, there will be activities and gatherings. With WeChat group as the contact platform, there will be a fixed place for activities, and you will find a sense of existence. When you communicate, exchange and share, you will not feel lonely and bored.
I was idle after the second line. Many friends dragged me to join this circle, but most of them declined. In order to exercise, I only joined two circles. One is Tai Ji Chuan Circle, and I joined WeChat group. Every morning, as long as the weather permits, I would practice Tai Chi, including Tai Ji Chuan, Tai Chi sword, Tai Chi fan, Tai Chi stick and Qigong exercises, but their other gatherings included. The second is the outdoor circle of donkey friends, who have joined two groups. Every Sunday, they have to climb outdoors, far or near, and go if they want. In this way, the number of "circles" I join is still too small, which is determined by my personal character. I like cleanliness, and I don't want to disturb others, and I don't want to be disturbed by others. I can play both big balls and small balls, and I can play mahjong and cards, but I won't join their "circles". Too many circle participants, naturally too many activities, too busy and not free, and sometimes upset, which is not conducive to self-cultivation.
After retirement, many old comrades moved back to their families for the second scene of Shajiabang, focusing on their children. However, as they get older, they are prone to physical problems and have been out of society for a long time, so friends are no longer in contact, and psychological problems are easy to occur. Therefore, they join several "circles" and often get together with people with similar interests, not only exercising, but also sharing ideas and information.