Because truly love, and can not seek. Buddha said: life has seven suffering, wishing to hate, love and separation, can not seek. This is also lovesickness ancient times why so many died, so many Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai up. Because in ancient times, love was not free and could not see the face of the beloved. Can not be calm for a long time, and finally depression, triggering the spirit to oppress the physical body, slowly people die.
All about life and death, why can not hate it? All in the struggle stage, all busy, all have no time to meet? Not really, slowly love love, around the emergence of the right one. Those who are far away, can not see, can only mirror the male and female friends. Know their own good reason to be cuckolded, not a hate, only strange. Who wouldn't like this discrete method of being replaced, right?
Long-distance relationship, many are paper tigers, too easy to break. No amount of liking is as solid and genuine as long term companionship. You can take care of him? You can accompany him? Can you give him food and drink when he's sick and security when he's lazy? It's not easy, is it? People who are far away from reporting the good news may slowly neglect their other half who is far away. This is often the case, so hate slowly rise.