Are you a geek girl or a geek guy?
What do you do when you are on vacation?
Anyway, I am 80% stay at home.
On the ultimate question of "two points, one line", I've been thinking about it a lot, but I've only come up with a vague answer. Since graduation, it seems that the only friends left around are the workmates, so life has changed dramatically from sleeping, going to class, shopping, scenic spots, KTV, etc., to two points and one line between the company and the home; going to work, getting off work, eating and sleeping; and the next day is still so repetitive.
So, gradually found themselves more and more home, more and more reluctant to go out, that work is too tired, vacation should be a good rest, if not the need to buy essentials, is not going to step out of the door hall step; even if you stay at home, the bed accounted for two-thirds of the time. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
One day, there was a voice in my heart that said: "Do you want to live this monotonous life for the rest of your life?
The heart violently contracted, strongly expressed his resistance.
They do is the training industry, vacation is not fixed, but only one or two days of vacation. Every time, always in his mind outlined a variety of vacation plans - a two-day short trip, do crafts or get together with friends dinner. But then, you realize that a rare nap is all it takes to derail your plans. You wake up, it's noon, you laze around, and the day is gone. When you realize that one day has passed, you get busy cleaning the house, doing laundry and cooking, and another day passes. So I slap myself and swear to the next vacation to make it meaningful and not to waste it. The truth is that cows can't change their ways, dogs can't change their ways, and the next time it's still a repeat. The next time, it will be the same.
If you're not sure what you're looking for, you're not going to be able to find a way to make it work for you.
A chance encounter with high school classmates, has been the ugly duckling really turned into a white swan, speech and demeanor is elegant, talk about the name of the country, can only be viewed from afar; so that I am the same nest of ugly duckling shy of self-consciousness. So I decided to change my mind, to be a new person.
So I decided to set a small goal for myself, starting with going out to see.
Why did you arrange for yourself to "go out and see"?
Nowadays, we are usually busy with work, and once we have a chance to take a vacation, we will lie in bed for a day. I remember reading an article a long time ago that said, "The way the gods rest is to stay busy. They never waste their time on boring sleep; working out, reading books, taking classes, traveling, cooking, and raising flowers are their way of resting.
I think these are the ways in which my small goals are realized.
I think I can go to the neighborhood square to see the big moms dancing and feel the passion of life; I can lie on the railing to see the play area of the children laughing and playing, sighing the lost childhood; I can stand in the bus station, experience the haste of the rows of people; I can walk in the insects and birds sound endless into the ears of the woods, listen to the agitation of life, but also and the old people who ride the cool, chatting about traces of the years.
When I go out for a walk, I find many new things.
When we are physically tired, we can try a spiritual journey.
Choose a good book, it can be Keigo Higashino's reasoning novels; it can be Big Ice's travel memories; it can be Zhang Xiaoxian's love transcripts; it can be Gu Man's romance novels; and it can be Hao Jingfang's science fiction stories. Here you can experience a different life - that of the purest love, the stone god of the best trickery; the woman who plays with sharks, the little kidney bean; the bread tree of bread or love; Xiao Nai of the university owes me a big god; the Beijing Folding that sprinkles poetic sunshine to the sci-fi genre. All this everything, is not the same experience, each read a story, seems to have experienced a different life; when I read it, still can be a long time back to the silence for a long time.
From a young age like handmade, as a child is like to watch a straw in the hands into grasshoppers, a bamboo leaf transformed into a lime green boat, a bamboo was enchanted, into a bamboo basket. After a long time, also forgot the fun he brought, the novelty. Why don't you get back to your old ways? Waste reuse, origami, paper cutting, stone painting, non-woven fabrics, preparation are all good choices.
I want to raise myself as a woman of texture.
A vest? Hmmm, sounds good.
The neighborhood is next to the university, go to the large playground on the run; out of the pedometer, the pace of the concrete; home to open the Zheng Duoyan, follow the video to enjoy the feeling of sweat. Or, pedal a bicycle, go to the countryside to walk, see the wild flowers, smell the fresh air.
How about packing up your home?
Buy some cotton and linen products, delicate tableware, small fresh wall stickers, a table with flowers, crisp wind chimes; will these make my room look a little more textured.
These are just to make my life look more than just two points and one line, there are poems and distant fields.
Big Ice said, "Any kind of long-term single mode of life is a crime against oneself.
I don't want my whole life to be a two-point-one-line life like work and home, a monotonous life will make me more boring and monolithic, I want to be a woman with texture and interesting.
"May you be able to work from nine to five, but also be able to wander the world."