When you finish watching a work, I believe you will have a lot of feelings, so why don't you sit down and write a good after-thought? You may want to sit down and write a good afterthought. The following is I help you to organize the "30 only" afterthought, just for reference, I hope to be able to help you.
Thirty-year-old women will have a lot of different states, some people's careers are booming, and constantly rely on their own efforts to get the rank of the promotion. But it is also inevitable to encounter career bottlenecks, slower promotion, and the face of a new boss to produce a clear inferiority complex.
See here let me have a very strong **** Ming, just this year encountered job changes, coupled with the recent search for work more walls, the original self-confidence has disappeared, more of the mentality is anxious. Reflecting on the issue of self, these years continue to be in the only output no input work state, from time to time to receive new work tasks are also any person to learn for a period of time can be mastered. The skills that I have mastered are unrivaled, but they are not something that can ever be replaced.
Zhong Xiaoqin in the play is a good girl image, her life is smooth. Since childhood, she has lived with her mom and dad, and when her husband traveled on business, she returned home to be with her parents. The work is not good or bad, never made any mistakes, but there is no significant achievements.
Zhong Xiaoqin's life is what many of us call the good life, no big pressure, all things are someone for her to worry about, leading to her own do not know what they really like, what to do. Just like what her good friend Gu Jia said to her in the hospital, it's always good when others say it's good, bad when others say it's bad, and living her life as others want her to be.
Although Gu Jia is a full-time mom, she has a clear goal in life. With her smarts, she took care of the Mrs. Circle, not only letting her son enter his dream kindergarten, but also helping her husband get through the difficulties of the business and get the order for the paradise.
When I was twenty years old, I was thinking about how scary it would be to be thirty years old. Because people always say that once you pass thirty, not only age, physical energy decline, has not been able to be compared with the time of twenty years old.
Time never gives an answer, but only increases the burden.
Now that we have reached thirty, we don't have so many ideals and ambitions when we were twenty, and there is more acceptance of reality and compromise.
Recently aired on the wind and waves of the sister and thirty only, are 30 + women, they chose to bravely face the unknown, so that life has become more and more colorful, but also gave me a great encouragement. The road ahead is still long, not because of a moment of disappointment and self-doubt, believe in yourself, there will be unlimited possibilities!
Recently, I have often brushed the clips of the two dramas "Thirty Only" and "Twenty Not Confused" in Jitterbug, together with the Mango Channel's hit variety show "Sisters Riding the Waves", which simply depicts the different profiles of the women of this era for us. From the youthfulness when they enter the society to the gradual maturity, despite facing different problems and challenges, and also with the aggravation and troubles brought by life, they are still striving to grow up, become independent, and search for a more authentic self.
The title "Twenty Not Confused" is very interesting, the original `"Forty Not Confused" means that at the age of forty, after a lot of experience, you have your own subjective value judgment, and here it has become 20 years old. 20 years old can really be "not confused"?
This is the first time I've ever seen a person who has been in the world.
Ancient people may not, but in today's society, they do.
Network development, information overlap, the era of knowledge explosion, our minute has long been extended into the past countless times, do not look at them only twenty years old, their crying, laughing, sadness and joy is not less than the sister of the wind and waves. Premature maturity is not a bad thing, on the contrary, you will look forward to their more unknown, twenty can aspire to learn, can also stand, can not be confused, can ride the waves, unlimited possibilities.
Compared to too many TV dramas that ignore the plight of 30+ women's lives in order to emphasize women's abilities and status, "Just Thirty" puts the current stage of women's workplace problems, marriage problems, and life path choices on the table.
The plight of twenty-year-old girls is mostly an adaptation stage of moving from campus into society. By the age of thirty, they each have their own difficulties.
What also stands out is the determination and independence of the three thirtysomethings in Thirty Only in the face of their dilemmas.
Though they each have their own difficulties, the women in Thirty is the epitome of the real-life sisterhood that rides the waves, rather than being the pitied heroines of a story.
Whether it's the sisters in "Twenty is Not Dangerous" or "Thirty is Just Thirty," I've been y touched by being 25 years old. Think about the four years since entering the work, faded from the campus in the childish, understand the laws of society. As a member of the grassroots workers, in the close relationship with the masses, and quickly experienced more of the human condition. In the daily work, we need to take ourselves as one of the ordinary people, in order to "serve the people" to do deep and real. In the face of difficulties, want to find ways to ride the waves, sharpen their skills, and move forward.
The recent hit TV series "thirty only" search rate has been soaring. The drama tells the story of three women in the city at the age of thirty this age node, family, work in the heavy pressure encountered. Gu Jia has an enviable family with a smart and cute son, a handsome husband and a company that is controlled by Gu Jia, who is a full-time wife on the surface, but is actually the chairman of the board behind the scenes. The company, the family are well organized by Gu Jia, she set talent, beauty in one, is a perfect role. Wang Manni is a Shanghai drifter with a good face, a good brain, and a lot of energy, and she's still single at thirty. Zhong Xiaoqin is a local Shanghai girl with a gentle character who grew up quickly after the divorce and eventually reaped happiness with her ex-husband.
Gu Jia's husband was originally a fireworks designer, who became Mr. Xu with her help. Her family will get better and better if she follows her plan! Xu Yushan's cheating ruined the happy family. There is a lot of controversy online about what happened to Gu Jia. Some netizens cursed Xu Yushan scum, some netizens think Gu Jia is too strong, and some netizens want to tear the third party.
I think Gu Jia's family changed because of the lack of communication. Green tea woman Lin You have have the reason why you can get close to Xu Huanshan, because the little Gu Nian appreciate him, admire him, to meet the man's vanity. But in front of Gu Jia, he is just a child who can't grow up. When something happens to the company, Gu Jia steps in to give him a good aftermath; the education of the children at home, even as small as what socks to wear have to listen to Gu Jia. Gu Jia is more mature than him, more capable than him, more sensible than him, listening to Gu Jia is absolutely right. But he has to feel that Gu Jia has been looking at him with his afterglow, and he can't see admiration or appreciation in Gu Jia's eyes.
Gu Jia for the family worked hard, the company in crisis, she tried to find ways to enter the circle of wives, low down to please the wives, and thus set a single, the company back to life. At home he is a full-time wife, taking care of the family's food and drink in every possible way. She thinks the family will get better and better with her efforts!
The problem lies in the fact that they just thought they were giving, and didn't ask each other what they really needed inside. If Xu Rongshan had told Gu Jia earlier about what she really wanted in her heart, and if Gu Jia had properly let go, there wouldn't have been so many ifs in life.
Wang Manni's ex-boyfriend missed Wang Manni again because of the lack of communication. The reason why Zhong Xiaoqin got divorced was because she didn't know what the other person's heart really thought, and after communication, the misunderstanding was lifted and the feelings were deeper. Communication saved their marriage.
This TV series tells us that if you want your family to be harmonious and happy, please communicate well.
What defeats love is never human nature. Can withstand the temptation of people, the woman at home, even if it is a shrew lazy woman will not derail; and can not withstand the temptation, even if the fairy married home will be outside the fishy. Derailment is wrong, there is no doubt about it. However, there are still some people are busy for the scum whitewash, and even put the blame on the woman. Just like Xu Huanshan cheated on his wife, some people say that it is because Gu Jia gave him a lot of pressure in the invisible, he cheated on his wife. Some even say that perfection itself is a fatal problem, how many people can be on the same wavelength as the perfect? It's strange that a woman like Gu Jia doesn't get cheated on. This is the logic of the scum, cheating is me, but the fault is you.
A friend of mine, with her husband from school uniform to wedding dress.
The man has a successful career, but also gentle and considerate, spoiled his friend like a child. Do a handful of good food, but also will bring children, milk, change diapers, accompany the child to study, all do. It is such a model husband, every day in the company and female colleagues to eat alone, talk about the world, talk about the hotel.
Friends of the sky has collapsed, so how can a perfect man cheating? To say that the wrong, surely she is wrong, is she not good enough. The friend fell into a deep self-doubt, suspecting that they are not beautiful enough, not good enough body, not gentle and virtuous enough, not hot enough on the bed ......
A good big beautiful woman, inferiority complex to walk on the road, feel that the square dance of the aunt are more attractive than their own. She more desperately skin care fitness development hobbies to enrich themselves, but also more desperately good to her husband, as a result, people go out of town on a trip, and with the airplane met college students hooked up. This time, my friend finally realized that it is not her problem, but the man is too disgusting. Not to mention the school flower, even if you give him the globe flower, he will still cheat on her. Her only fault is that she is not confident and takes the scumbag's fault on herself.
When a woman cheated on her husband, everyone will condemn the woman's moral turpitude, shamelessness, and sympathy for the man; but when a man cheated on his wife, people scolded the man at the same time, and more will "analyze" the woman's problems - too strong, or too not independent! The woman's problem is that she is too strong, or not too independent, and then she is not beautiful or sexy, so she can't hold on to a man. What's worse, the women themselves are also reflecting. Which man is really perfect? Does he make a lot of money? Do you do the housework? To his wife on the children attentive to it? No fat, no beer belly, no baldness, handsome out of the sky? Why don't their women cheat on them? They also have reasons for cheating, just choose to be loyal.
In the face of cheating, the most correct approach, not to forgive, not to redeem, not to "correct their shortcomings" to cater to a man without a moral bottom line, is to decisively leave.