Middle-aged and elderly women have no financial pressure to remarry, and most of them are asking for trouble, which will make them unhappy all their lives.
No matter how strong the love is, there will be a dull day. Young couples will grow old and have children in the middle. Love will become kinship. After two childless people get together, most of them will take care of their children, and eventually they will be unhappy.
There is a female neighbor in a building. She is 58 years old. Two years ago, that man died. Her retirement salary is only about 2000. Fortunately, there are two houses for rent to subsidize expenses. After her husband died, she met a man of similar age. She is not married, but two people are partners. This man is very realistic. Getting along with her is basically spending money. She also helps men wash clothes and cook. At first, they were close. I haven't seen that man for a long time. Anyway, they didn't get a marriage certificate, broke up if they didn't agree, and there were no economic disputes and complicated separation procedures.
I don't think middle-aged and elderly women have any financial pressure. If both men and women have children, it is best not to get married. If you are afraid of loneliness, find a like-minded partner, never get married, but have a partner. Take care of each other in life and when you are sick, and accompany each other when you are lonely. If one day, one party doesn't want to live, just get together.
The advantage of not getting married is that there is no property dispute and no psychological pressure. If you get along, it's over. If you don't get along, you break up. This lady has been divorced for more than 20 years, and now her daughter is married. It is understandable that she wants to pursue her own life. The premise of marriage is that the other person is single and has no children. In this case, the man has no selfishness and much less trouble. The 57-year-old lady has been divorced for more than 20 years. It is not easy to live alone with my daughter for more than 20 years. Now that her daughter is married and has the right person, it is understandable that she wants to pursue her own life.
Women who marry single childless men are more likely to be happy after marriage. There used to be a woman in our village who became a widow at the age of 40 and married a single man from Anhui to Jiangsu. That man has never been married and has no children. He is really good to his wife. Before the demolition, there was work in the field. He got up in the middle of the night to pull out seedlings, distressed his wife and let her sleep. Now give my wife a monthly pension of 2000 plus a monthly salary of 4000. His request is simple. His wife can prepare some food and two or three glasses of wine for him every day.
Aunt's ex-husband often beats and scolds her, and this man has a good impression on her. Up to now, they have been together for nearly 20 years, and everyone in the village says she is very lucky. Middle-aged and elderly women have less physiological needs, strong self-care ability and no economic pressure. For them, a free life is also a good choice. Middle-aged and elderly women have strong self-care ability and can live a full and wonderful life without economic pressure.
If you live alone, you can arrange your own day. The air is good in the morning. After you come back, you can exercise for a while, do housework and watch the news. After a nap in the afternoon, you can invite your partner out to chat and visit the park. After dinner, you can dance square dance, sweat, take a hot bath and sleep all morning. You can also bring grandchildren, enjoy family happiness and help children do small things within their power. Once or twice a year, I pull my suitcase, meet my companions, travel, see the scenery outside, taste the food and feel the local customs. Arrange your daily life so that you won't feel lonely.