We all know that with the continuous development of society and people's living standards continue to improve, we have more and more people, in the leisure time, is particularly keen to jump square dance, and this jump square dance crowd, there is no age and gender differences, that is to say, who can go to jump.
Because square dancing is not only good for physical and mental health, but also to strengthen the body, so there are more and more people are obsessed with this, but in comparison, most of the people who jumped to the square dance are mainly elderly people, after all, the elderly time is sufficient, and in these groups of elderly people, but also to a lot of married women are mainly.
While it is said that the benefits of square dancing, but as we married women, many times, we still have to stop, learn to self-discipline, do not be addicted to every day to go to the square dance.
So why should we advise married women not to indulge in square dancing? Listen to the heart of these 3 women in question, you will understand the pain in their hearts, in the end why.
Why married women, do not indulge in square dancing? 3 60-year-old woman said the pain in the heart
A. 60-year-old Sun aunt: addicted to dancing, so that I and my son's daughter-in-law's relationship almost deadlocked
I'm 60 years old, I was retired at the age of 55, retired, I had wanted to go back to my hometown to spend the days of life and enjoy the happiness of anything, but my son adjusted the work position, and now every day is busy with the work, and I've got a lot of time for the work. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on the way to the next level, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on the way to the next level," he said.
I agreed to do this at the time. In my son's and daughter-in-law's home, we got along better with each other, especially with my youngest grandchildren, as if I were back in my childhood.
At first I remembered to look at the table, because by the time I have to go to the school to pick up the little grandson, but then jump jumped jumped and I forgot to jump, the result is that several times I will pick up the little grandson thing to delay, the school teacher to the daughter-in-law son to call, and they thought that I was in some kind of accident, and anxious sweating all over the place to look for me.
Then they knew that I was addicted to square dancing and delayed the children from school, the face is very ugly, although they did not say anything at that time, but I know that their hearts are certainly not good, since then, I gradually reduced the number of times to go to the square dance.
Sun Auntie think: women jump square dance is not wrong, but also can not be and children's relationship with the stalemate, to be really that way, it is a little bit more than worth it, women learn to self-discipline is very necessary.
The 60-year-old Bai aunt: addicted to square dancing, so that I have been in the eyes of outsiders is an ungrateful daughter
I'm 60 years old, since two years ago I was hospitalized due to illness after an operation, my entire body and mental outlook is not very good, and my family has an 85-year-old father need to take care of me, the pain in my heart is only known to myself.
These are the first time I've been in the country.
Later a good sister let me go with her to dance, I only jumped for more than half a month, I feel my whole person's mental outlook and color all of a sudden a lot better, the mood is also getting better and better, and from then on I am addicted to jump on the square dance.
Just because I have been in the heart for a long time, just think about their own square dancing this thing, the old father to serve this thing to delay, there are several times the old father hungry want to eat, but unfortunately I dance square dance is not at home, or neighbors to my old father to end of the meal, the old father to see me want to cry.
My heart at that time, not to mention how hard it is, there are several times I went home, neighbors on my back pointing, although I can not hear what they say, but I know what they want to say, surely is to say that I'm addicted to square dancing, but also do not filial piety old father and so on some of these words, and then later on I do not go to the square dance.
White aunts bluntly: women even if they like to dance, but also can not say that this delayed filial piety home to the elderly, "all good filial piety first," which is the most important, and this is more important than anything else, the woman if you want to dance in order to square dance, and let themselves "back on the "The unfilial scolding, that is really a sin.
Three. 60-year-old Aunt Liu: obsessed with square dancing, so that my husband and I almost divorced
After I retired, I originally wanted to go out with my husband and traveled around, just because of a number of other reasons failed to do as I wished, I'm at home every day doing nothing, it is very depressing and boredom, and then I went to the park to sneak around and saw a lot of people are jumping in the square dance, I gradually became interested in it, and then I was very happy. I gradually became interested in it.
This kind of square dancing we do can be done together or in groups of two. At first I was dancing with a sister, but then that sister got sick, so there was a new person of the opposite sex dancing with a partner.
Originally, I dance just to pass the leisure time, and there is no other messy ideas, but I do not know how my husband knows, I dance with other men in the square, once I dance just to the home, he took the excuse and I had a big fight.
While I repeatedly give him an explanation, but unfortunately he just do not listen, the two of us bickering for a month, the husband even said harsh words, to divorce me, I think about it, and finally I rarely go to the square dance, even if I went to the square dance later, I let my husband to go with me.
Aunt Liu frankly: women can go to the square dance, but must strive to obtain the support and understanding of the husband, if the woman is just one of my own way, their own happiness and pleasure built on the husband's "pain" above the words, it is really a particularly unfortunate and sad thing.
Small micro-emotional conclusion
In fact, many times, married women dancing square dance she is not a bad thing, after all, dancing square dance is a good physical and mental health of good physical activity, we should actively participate in it, it is indisputable.
Just in the process, our married women must pay attention to one point, that is to say, married women dancing square dance, although good, then we have to according to their own actual situation and family situation, to targeted square dance, rather than regardless of the "cost and consequences" of the obsession with jumping to the square dance.
So, even if married women feel that the square dance is very good, but after all, we have a family, so we have to correctly deal with and at home with the husband, home, children, home, the elderly and other relationships between the three, the woman only in the three to find a balance between the two sides can be accepted and satisfied, she can really feel and experience, jumping to the square dance to their own bring The first thing you need to do is to find a balance between the three, so that both sides can accept and be satisfied.