Everyone has their own vision and imagination about the ideal old age life, for some, the ideal old age life is like this:
My ideal old age life is:
Sane, healthy, and rich
Every day, I stroll around the park, sneak around the old companion
Staying bored, I will take a DSLR and the old companion to run all over the world
Tired and come back together to live a slow life peacefully
I will make a vegetable garden, plant some food that I love to eat.
When you are tired, you can come back together and live a slow life
Make a vegetable garden for yourself, plant some vegetables that you love to eat
Take your children and grandchildren with you, and raise a few cats and dogs when they are old enough.
There are also some people who want to live in old age: to be clothed, to be fed, to travel at any time, to have the money to be free, that's what I want.
I hope people say I'm old and immortal, the old lamp body really hard! Even be able to old will squat in the square next to watch a group of big mom dancing square dance, do a delicate and elegant tart old man.
Other than that, most of the old age life description:
Pocket money, filial piety of children, peace and health.
I want the people I like to be by my side.
Good friends we all live together in the nursing home daily mahjong.
It's okay to go out for a walk, cook and buy food together, anyway, it's that kind of slow life.
No children, no children, hands have free money, buy a large yard, home sheep.
With my girlfriends, I dance in the square, look at handsome men, and drink milk tea!!!!
A set of house a dog a she is enough for a lifetime.
An exquisite cabin in the Changbai Mountains, sitting in a rocking chair next to the fireplace watching young love beans sing and dance, with a blanket on your lap and a lazy old cat sprawled out yawning on the blanket.
On the rational attitude to old age
1, do not ask for the return of the children
First of all, you pay to your children, do not expect them to be the same as you feedback back.
Payment and return is not proportional, only the world's parents, the lamb kneeling is still sucking your milk, it feeds not you. There are fewer and fewer children with filial piety, save some of your own milk to feed yourself.
2, enjoy it while you can
When your teeth, legs good, the body is still good, while not deaf and mute thinking is still clear, taste the world's delicious, take a look at the mountains and rivers, walk around a turn, it is not in vain to come to the world of life, do not come to the teeth can not walk not to blame themselves, no regrets medicine.
3, children and grandchildren will be blessed
Children's lives do not go beyond the children and grandchildren, children and grandchildren will be blessed, they are their whole life, the road is they walk, the hand must be scattered, so that they are independent, so that you can put down the burden.
4, the development of an interest
Take advantage of the young to develop an interest in the old empty nest to prepare, once the children leave home, they do not look at the wall all day and night to daze, not their own spiritual support, then the dorks will look for you, it is inevitable.
5, the heart of their own
In the heart of the children at the same time also heart of their own, the children again filial piety, colds and fevers you still have to suffer, who can not take your place, you feel that the children are your body fell off the meat, but they will never feel that you are their body fell off the meat, which is a two concepts.
6, willing to spend money on themselves
To spend a piece of their own, never go to spend 80 cents, the second half of your life consumption is limited, there is no need to be miserly on their own, but also can not save to go, save will not be given to you to set up a house of cards, save the suffering of only themselves.
7, don't eat carrots and worry
Don't worry about some things for the children's sleep, that is, do not eat, do not sleep, things still exist, there will not be a river, the sky is not hungry, the world sparrow, don't eat carrots and worry.
8, do not compare, do not compare
To the age of the ear, do not compare, do not compare, most of the life is over, what are clouds, your existence is the best, stretch your legs and feet can not account for one or two meters place. Contentment and happiness is the moment, reduce and suppress their own desires, into old age, see the mountain is the mountain, see the water is the water, there is nothing that makes you particularly rare, do not let others put a fart on their throats itch, learn no talent.
9, do not insist
It is a donkey, pulling the mill for a long time also have to rest their feet. After reaching the flower armor, anything is not hard to come, do not say hard to think of the children's house is not renovated, there is something not to do, worry so much, their own hard to get involved.
The rope breaks when it is in the most delicate place out of the problem, as long as you feel hard, either rest or find a doctor, never insist.
10, as the case may be
Life's road past a large part of what is also commonplace, the concept of truth sometimes do not have to be more or less people to identify, there is no need to go to the top of the fight. The grinding of the edges have been worn away, has come to a bad time to catch you, and then let people catch your handle, then you are really stupid. It's not smooth, it's relieved, it's not sophisticated, it's old-fashioned, it's just as it is.