Because if people say it without thinking, it will either appear particularly uninteresting and tasteless, or it will make others feel very uncomfortable. This is a sign of low emotional intelligence. In fact, you have to use your head to do things and talk.
There is no obvious innate difference in EQ between people, but it is closely related to the cultivation of acquired. From a simple definition, improving EQ is to change the part that can't control emotions into the part that can control emotions, thus enhancing the ability to understand others and get along with others.
Extended data:
The performance of low emotional intelligence:
1, wait until you are in a good mood and in a good mood before doing anything;
2. Speak without thinking, regardless of the feelings of others;
3. I don't understand what others want to say;
4. I don't understand other people's euphemisms, and I can't hear the meaning in other people's words;
5. Motivation to kill others;
6, excessive dependence on others, no self;
7. Go backwards forever and don't know how to reflect on yourself.