Falling down is not scary, what's scary is whether you can get up decently and go on gracefully

In recent times the entertainment and fashion worlds have been staged one after another with the drama of falling down and getting up.

Vimeo, which came to China for the first time, set off a huge craze. The over-excited girl Xi Mengyao fell solidly in front of her house, causing wave after wave of heated debates.

Some people say Xi Mengyao this fall, completely bid farewell to the stage of the Vimy.

I've seen a lot of models fall down on the runway for various reasons, but their careers haven't been affected too much, and no one has ever been so criticized.

At first, I felt like Veep was a little too harsh, but after watching the entire video of the fall, it's hard to sympathize with her.

After a long moment of not knowing what to do and sorting out the decorations on her head after Xi fell, she stood up with none of the aura or poise of a Vimy supermodel, and walked through the whole thing loosely, with an extremely awkward smile on her face.

Foreign media, who are used to seeing famous models fall, criticized Xi Mengyao, "She fell like a bag of wet cement, and stole the spotlight from the stage."

We often say that it's not scary to fall, just get up. But often omit the most important sentence: "Start over."

So Xi Mengyao will leave the stage of the real reason, not she fell, but she fell, although she climbed up, or long stuck in the fall after the overwhelm and embarrassment, and forget their own identity and should come down to the road to go.

So it's not terrible to fall down, what's terrible is whether you can get up decently and walk down gracefully.

Marriage is like a trip, will experience the storm, some people through the storm to see the rainbow. Some people go their separate ways and get back on the road, and some people look around at a standstill.

Recently, Cecilia Zhang has been on the hot search again, since the divorce, Cecilia Zhang has not come out.

In a variety of programs to sell their own sad mother persona, just like the former sister-in-law of Xianglin to tell their own misfortune.

Fortunate and unfortunate, are self-inflicted. The good hand of a deck of cards in the hand, was played by their own splintered. The star girl, who was once the star of the show, has become a box office poison.

After the divorce, Nicholas Tse made a movie, hosted with big friends to experience a different twelve flavors. Compound with Faye Wong, opened a new page of life.

Where there is Nicholas Tse and Faye Wong's news, Cecilia Cheung will inevitably speak out, related to the irrelevant, the majority of melon eaters will always be associated with rich.

In this failed marriage, Cecilia stayed in the same place and did not want to start again.

Chen Guoping said: couples love, hand in hand to walk the journey of life, of course, is lucky. If you can't do it, walk alone, although lonely, but also clean, not a big misfortune.

The biggest misfortune is that obviously they have the talent, the value, the body, have to make themselves like a thousand years of complaining.

My cousin from my hometown is a legendary figure.

When she married her husband, he was very poor. She followed her husband down the street to sell buns as a small business, and then had savings, they opened a small family workshop to make leather shoes, the two of them work early in the morning and late at night to make leather shoes, and then take out to sell.

Later, the more they did, the bigger the family workshop became a large factory. In the days of the better, her husband rolled the money with a small three elopement.

There was no money to pay wages and buy raw materials, and the products could not be delivered. The ordering party and the workers blocked the door of the factory, and the two underage children were so scared that they cried out.

In the end, everyone saw that they were orphaned and had no money, so they emptied the house.

Everyone thought she would be crying everywhere, but she still held her head up and greeted her acquaintances as they came and went.

My mother said she hadn't seen her pulling a cart for years, and in the winter she watched her pulling a big cart of cabbages, and two children with red faces pushed the cart behind her, raising their arms and rubbing their sleeves to get rid of the snot that flowed down their throats.

Later on, my cousin became a so-called "second-hand dealer" in my hometown, selling seasonal fruits and vegetables to the city.

When I was a kid, I didn't have a place to take a bath, so I had to go to the town to take a bath in the public bathhouse, which was very busy.

Cousin aunt saw the business opportunity, she used her own savings plus borrowed money, rented a piece of land in another town to build a bathhouse, there is no money to hire people, so they burn the boiler.

After hours, my mother took me to that town to buy things, to see my cousin's aunt when she was burning the boiler, her head wrapped in a piece of towel that could not see the original color. The sides of her nose were stained with soot, and her fingernails were black.

Then I heard that her two children graduated from college and became public officials. She used her money from running the bathhouse to buy a house in the city for her children, and her days ahead were spent bringing up her grandchildren and square dancing.

My aunt said that these days there are many people watching and few people helping.

People are now respecting and envying her from the initial mockery and pity behind her back. Aunt Cousin has turned her life into an inspirational drama.

Auntie said the face is earned, not given by others. These days there are more people watching and less people helping. When you fall down, even if someone helps you stand up, you need to walk steadily on your own for the rest of the way.

Marriage is never the whole of life, he is just a play on the stage of life. The beginning of the play is often to joy, happiness, but the end of the play is often different.

Some marriages are a comedy, from beginning to end.

Some marriages are a tragedy, beginning with happiness and ending with sadness.

At the curtain call, some are whole and ready to go, and some are miserable, all heading to the next drama of life. Some people start over with a new attitude to play a comedy, some people hard to once again play a tragedy.