28 years old square dance video

Last night, a friend Xiao Mu called me and asked me for money. Because the child is ill, hospitalization needs a sum of money. She graduated five years ago with a savings of only 5,000 yuan. Before, she relied on her husband's salary to support her mortgage and daily expenses. This time, when the child was ill, Xiao Mu completely collapsed. He used up all his savings and borrowed some.

I remember that Xiao Mu studied accounting. I haven't thought about working for so long? She said she hadn't thought about it. She submitted a lot of resumes and didn't even have an interview. After graduation, I got married and had children, and what I learned was never used again. I forgot what I didn't continue studying. No company will want me.

Without high education and experience, people who are "worthless" in the workplace are really hard to find a job.

Xiao Mu also thought about upgrading his academic qualifications and picking up the knowledge of accounting through self-examination, but his family also opposed "what else?" It's no use, concentrate on taking care of the children at home. "So she gave up the idea of upgrading her education and spent five years. She felt abandoned by the times.

In fact, she gives up on herself because no one can stop you from studying.

In the news some time ago, the Luqiao toll station of Tangshan Municipal Government was cancelled. A 36-year-old elder sister said, "I am 36 years old, and my youth has been paid." Now I can do nothing but charge, and no one likes me. I can't learn anything. "

Alibaba recruits senior product experiencers who are over 60 years old and earn 400,000 yuan a year. Among them, 83-year-old grandma Tsinghua Xueba, more than a dozen groups are square dances. KOL often organizes some offline activities. Grandpa Zeng, 62, even took out his own PPT directly, and Photoshop was skilled.

On the one hand, grandmothers who are over 60 years old show off their talents, and on the other hand, a 36-year-old female toll collector cries that she is too old to learn new things and can do nothing but charge.

People, in this life, the only thing they can't give up is learning. No matter what industry you are engaged in, no matter how old you are, whether you like it or not, otherwise you will be abandoned by the times.

A few days ago, I took a taxi home from work one night. The driver's master chatted with me and asked me if I went to college, what I did, and why I got off work so late. He said that his children are now in high school, and their academic performance is very average. He wants him to learn some skills and not let him go to school. A diploma is worthless. "You see you went to college, and you are not so tired at work so late. You might as well do a little business, and your life is quite moist, so you don't have to work so hard. "

I really didn't say anything about this choice. People are different. Different people have different pursuits.

Some people find that there are college students who graduated from famous schools in society who have not found jobs, and many successful people have been very successful before finishing school, so they say everywhere that diplomas are useless and studying is useless.

Some people's success belongs to small probability events under high probability events. For example, Bill Gates dropped out of Harvard University.

If you are not confident that you can survive this life by luck and have no ability to feel that you are too good to others, please study hard. A diploma is a stepping stone, giving you a certificate that can be seen by more people. The ability to bring you economic benefits and feedback comes from lifelong learning and accumulation. Learning knowledge can broaden your horizons and change your way of thinking.

Although learning is very hard, it is undeniable that everything we have experienced will, to some extent, create ourselves in the future. Having a degree that can be taken out will invisibly increase your confidence in your future life and make yourself a truly valuable person in the workplace.

The deeper you learn, the more you will find that the purpose of learning is to shape a better thinking mode. Mould your own thinking mode in reading and cultivate your core competitiveness to improve yourself.

Keep reading. Develop a good thinking frame when reading and studying. After reading each book, you can think about the influence of the author's point of view on your knowledge framework, whether it is approval or denial, expansion or deviation. When you can think about your income, you have really finished reading a book.

Cultivate your core competitiveness. Core competitiveness may be a skill, which can be more and more refined through long-term accumulation and promotion. This is the core competitiveness. For example, if you are an accountant, you can improve yourself and become an excellent accountant through grade examination or some experience. There is actually no clear upper limit for this ability, and it will become more and more detailed with your experience.

From now on, keep learning and thinking, and become a better self.