Recently, the "Happy Trio" is very hot, moving on the hot search, facing a crowd of fans wildly spread dog food. Big S Xu Xiyuan is the scene to pass the Royal Guide: "Eating shrimp is to be sure that the man to help you peel, do not peel, do not eat! "
The words just fell, the presence of the three husbands (Chen Jianbin, Wang Xiaofei and Jiang Hongjie) have buried their heads wildly peeling shrimp, the wives revealed a sweet smile, the picture can be said to be very spectacular and lovely.
Looking at Wang Xiaofei's doting expression, many netizens have expressed envy, but also many people feel that Da S has a princess disease, "make" can not watch. Big S had to step in to explain, "This is just a small habit of mine, I will not ask Xiaofei must help me peel shrimp." Also by the way to spread a dog food, "he has too many in the details of life to me thoughtful gestures, peeling shrimp for me is not the focus at all."
And Wang Xiaofei can't stand it anymore, replying in a domineering manner, "Her husband is willing to peel shrimp for her, what's wrong with that. Even let her husband peel a shrimp do not dare to hope, then I advise you to take a good look at your own marriage." The implication is that my woman I spoiled, I am used to! Women should be careful, find a man who is willing to help you peel shrimp and respect you.
Anyone can see that Wang Xiaofei loves his wife and is willing to accommodate her small habits. And Wang Xiaofei's level of care for DaS makes everyone feel warm and fuzzy that she married the right person.
The person who really loves you will definitely accommodate you, understand your unique variety of "work" and princess disease, take care of your small habits, small emotions.
Deep love is to accommodate, not love is to be. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
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The old girlfriend, Ms. Wang, has been having a hard time lately, suffering from insomnia and hair loss. But wherever someone says that Ms. Wang is not good, her husband does not ask questions, all suppress her.
During the month, my in-laws excused themselves from taking care of her on the pretext that they were not well, and my mother-in-law abetted my son, saying, "What woman doesn't have a child? I'm not sure what I'm talking about, but I'm not sure what I'm talking about," she said! I've been working in the field since I gave birth to my child." While others were treated like "noblewomen", Wang was tortured like a "ghost woman". She dragged the post-partum weak body, with a big baby, milking the little baby, a head of the two children, cooking, laundry, everything can only rely on themselves, but also to endure the in-laws of the scolding.
After the child is full of months, Wang's heart has long been broken, the man not only did not block up the storm for her, but also from time to time to give her a storm.
Once, we went to her home to play, Wang is very happy, while greeting everyone to sit down and drink tea, while the clothes in the washing machine to the outside out to dry, but also do not forget to urge the child to write well. While we were chatting, the doorbell rang, and Sister Wang nervously shook her body and immediately ran over to open the door.
Her husband came in and saw us, the corner of the mouth glanced, face unhappy, but cold did not say a word, nodded, went straight into the bedroom, lying on the bed to watch TV. Sister Wang looked at us awkwardly smiled, quickly poured a cup of water and ran in, curtly handed her husband, out gently cover the door.
We looked at each other and wondered what was going on in this family. Ms. Wang whispered apologetically, "He's just like that, coming back like a grandpa."
No wonder Sister Wang seldom invites us to her home, her husband does not pay attention to his wife, and his wife's friends are also so full of coldness and even contempt. It's hard to imagine how hard Sister Wang's days are usually.
She smiled bitterly and said, "It's hard for us to communicate, and we have to fight when we can't speak more than three sentences, it's too tiring. At first, I hoped that he could change, but now I no longer have the luxury of hope. I think the day the kids finish the college entrance exams, it's time for a divorce."
Finally, I understand why Sister Wang is so young, but her skin is prematurely rough, and her eyes always have a layer of sadness in the bottom.
What kind of selfish man would only love himself and not see his wife's various contributions? The most afraid of you obviously married, but to face the world alone more storms, but also to face the pillow people do not understand, do not agree, all kinds of difficulties.
The man who does not love you, will not understand your loneliness, do not take care of your mood, not for you to cover the wind and rain, feel hurt you for granted.
A man who really loves you will be considerate of your difficulties, share your hard work, respect your friends, love all of you, accommodate you, and even indulge your little emotions, so that you can live into a happy mold.
-3-When I got up in the morning for my morning walk, I met a couple in the neighborhood. Ling is holding a nine-section whip in his hand, dancing with vigor. Just see him a flash jump, long soft whip like a dragon, "snap" thrown up a whip flower, turn around a shake hands and another one, let people see can not help but shout.
Ling sister-in-law on the side of the gentle husband looked at the smile, while stretching his arms and stretching, lifting the legs and waist. After warming up, she walked to the other side of the pile of old sisters to square dance.
"Old sister you are so beautiful, eyelashes curved cherry mouth ......" Music, Ling sister-in-law dressed in a red dance dress, along with the sisters step, turn, movement skillful and beautiful. The wind is blowing, the leaves are shaking, the picture is so beautiful and provocative, you can not help but marvel at the beauty of life.
The sun rose to the treetops, the square dance song stopped, Ling also put away the whip, the end of the morning exercise, we are all sweaty, moody back.
Along the way chatting, I can not help but go up, curious to Ling sister-in-law to ask for advice on "the way to the husband". She smiled with a sweet face, "We seldom quarrel. I use the computer for a long time, neck and shoulders are not good, my husband accompanied me to start morning exercise. Now more than a year, my cervical spondylosis rarely committed, he also learned the nine whip, blood pressure, blood lipids are normal, even the belly are thrown down le. I'm not sure what I'm talking about, but I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do anything about it," he said.
The sunshine through the leaves, sprinkled in the couple's body, they walked side by side, smiling, almost fifty years old, but still a style of the appearance of splendor. It seems that the physical and mental pleasure of married life, so that the two still have the sweetness of love, happiness written on the face.
There is no such thing as a perfect fit for two people, only two hearts that can accommodate each other.
The man who really loves you will respect you, understand you, tolerate you, accommodate you, fulfill you, because he understands in his heart, he accommodates your little emotions, you will love him more, but also consolidate your happy marriage.
-4-Lin Xinru once wrote that her parents divorced. Lin's mother has a small cleanliness fetish, likes to raise flowers and grass in the house, arranged neat and comfortable. Lin's father, on the other hand, was not, and he was not a stickler for small things, and he liked to throw cigarette butts everywhere.
Finally, when another cigarette butt was pressed into a flower pot, Lin's mother divorced angrily. The whole family was puzzled, thinking that mom was too delicate.
Until later, once, in the hospital ward, to see the sick mother, leaning on the hospital bed reading a favorite book, after the father sat aside peeling oranges, looking at the mother smiled with a face of doting. She realized what kind of life her mother wanted, and it turned out that the years could really be so quiet.
The man who does not love you, even a cut of cigarette butts to throw where they refuse to accommodate you, feel that you are pretentious.
And really love you man, will accommodate you all, you love everything he loves, and you are proud. He moderately accommodates you, because he knows that you also love him tenderly.
Marrying the wrong person is "ghost woman", marrying the right person is "noble woman". The first time I saw this was when I was in the middle of a conversation with a woman. The big S "peeling shrimp theory", so that countless netizens are Wang Xiaofei's "wife" strength circle powder, he spoiled his wife into a princess, he also lived into the embodiment of the prince.
A man who is willing to accommodate you, tolerate your little temper, like your little pampering, understand your warmth and cold, know your sorrows and joys, not only the beauty of youthful love, but also the warmth of the marriage years.
Willing to accommodate your man, must love you very much, he put down the man's stature, hold up your hand, understand you, favor you, warm you, tender each other, lovingly years, it is worth you to commit to life.
The rest of his life is very long, girl, please marry a person who is willing to accommodate you.