There are many taboos during the Spring Festival. Although many of them are feudal thoughts of the older generation, we should pay attention to them.
Married daughters can't go back to their parents' homes for the New Year. As the saying goes, once a married daughter returns to her parents' home for the New Year, it indicates that her parents' fortune will be bad, which will bring disaster and disaster to the family. Her daughter is married and belongs to another family. During the Chinese New Year reunion, the daughter belongs to someone else's family, which is equivalent to family reunion and family disunity.
First, the water poured by the married daughter
At the same time, the married daughter can't go home for the New Year. The main reason is that she will bring disaster to her brothers and sisters and embarrass her family. This is a feudal idea, but many people think it is necessary to guard against it. Going back to her family for the New Year shows that her daughter is still attached to her family, but she is not allowed to go back for the New Year, because her daughter's indifference to her family makes him think about her husband's family and take root in it. This is the ancient way to break off a daughter's marriage. Mainly because the marriage in ancient feudal society was decided by parents, many daughters were dissatisfied with this marriage, so the family would take this way to let their daughters accept their fate and work hard for their husband's family. This method was feudal in modern times, but it was practical at that time.
Second, the married daughter belongs to someone else.
At the same time, the married daughter is also a guest when she goes home. During the Spring Festival, there are many things to be busy, but the married daughter is a guest after all, and the whole family needs to try their best to entertain her. What will delay her family at this time is a delay for her family and laziness for her daughter to be a guest, so this is also a way handed down from feudal society to prevent her daughter from returning to her family at this time.
The fact that a married daughter can't go back to her parents' home for the New Year doesn't mean that she broke off the relationship with her parents, nor does it mean that her parents don't love her daughter, just because of feudal thoughts. I don't want her to go back to her mother's house for the New Year, but I just hope she can live better at her husband's house. The New Year is a time for family reunion. A married daughter can spend the New Year with her husband and mother-in-law at her husband's house and start a new journey, which is the beginning of a new family. Daughter's parents hope her daughter can go out and explore another world of her own. They don't want to go back to their parents' protection and become children during the Chinese New Year. They hope that she can assume a social responsibility, assume the responsibility as a parent, and understand their parents' good intentions.