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Speaking of "second-rate" women, there are two sisters recognized by the entertainment circle, one is Na Jie Nana and the other is Er Xinyi.
Although these two women are beautiful in the usual programs, the way they say it and laugh at the sky is enough to make the audience smile.
Because it's so funny, it has nothing to do with modesty and virtue. More importantly, both of them have families, and everyone's husband is not bad.
Many people who eat melons are puzzled. Why do these two "second-yuan" women look crazy, and sometimes what they say makes others lose face, but they can have male-level husbands like Jason and Justin? Why?
What's more, the person who was attacked has a lot of fans, which is a pity.
Actually, don't worry. They can live in harmony and enjoy themselves. It makes sense to analyze the reasons.
On the other hand, girls who are always "stupid" in life are really stupid, aren't they too bad? Why can such a girl have the love of her boyfriend or husband and get full happiness?
Next, let's analyze it in depth.
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First of all, some people's "two" is not necessarily the real "two".
Aside from the entertainment circle, we only talk about real friends now.
Many people are surrounded by such people. People whose real thoughts are consistent with their external performance are straight-tempered. For example, they hate a person deep down, and on the surface, they don't talk to that person directly, or even talk with thorns. If you like someone, it will be obvious.
And there is another kind, they often hate a person inside, but they can't see it from the outside, and sometimes they can show a more intimate state. In other words, what is expressed and what is deep in the heart are not necessarily unified.
So, by the same token, some people seem to be very "stupid" people, but in fact, the other person's real appearance is not the case.
I have a friend with me. She belongs to this kind of person, a girl who looks "stupid" but is sober and smart in her bones.
What are the advantages of such a girl?
In the vernacular, when it's time to play dumb, play dumb and concentrate. Anyway, acting is also a waste, but don't think people are idiots who know nothing and can't lose anything. That would be a big mistake.
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Secondly, there is a measured and principled "two".
There are also many friends around, belonging to people who have no sense of proportion and principle. The specific performance is that you should not be angry when you are angry, and you should not lose your temper when you are angry. This kind of "second" person is often "second" inside and outside, but sometimes people feel that she is a double lack of IQ and EQ, which makes people speechless.
However, not every girl is like this. Some girls' "two" are often very principled and measured.
Xiaobai, a girl in the picture above, once went shopping with her boyfriend and met a young mother with a child on the way.
Seeing her boyfriend chatting happily with that woman, Xiaobai vaguely wanted to go somewhere else first, and it took her a long time for her boyfriend to find her.
In fact, Xiao Bai was very angry at that time. She is a little suspicious that this woman is her boyfriend's predecessor. Ask, it really is.
According to Xiao Bai's true psychology, she only needs to slap her boyfriend to be Japanese. When she meets her ex, she will talk without introducing herself. What is the nature of this?
But she put up with it and put up with it, especially saying "two". "What's the use of her? Now she is someone else's wife. What can you do if I am no longer good? Don't you want to transform me better? "
That's not all. Finally, I added, "After transforming me, I can also be a good wife. Hahaha, you are really the best predecessor. "
This sounds more "two" out of tune, but it wakes up her boyfriend.
After a long time, my boyfriend said a word. He said that if Xiao Bai had a big fight with him at that time, it was very likely that they would have broken up long ago, but after Xiao Bai said that "two", it also made him think a lot.
Therefore, when encountering something, it is better to say something relatively "second" with principles and opinions than to fight directly.
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Finally, find a partner who is willing to be "two" with you and is willing to make you "two".
Why some girls can "seconds" is because she met a partner who is willing to let her "seconds".
"Two" also means funny and funny. It depends on your partner's acceptance and tacit understanding of you.
Some men prefer women who don't talk, women who have no sense of existence, and some men are naturally self-centered.
However, some men like to be funny not only by themselves, but also by their partners. It's fun for two people to be funny together often. I recommend seeing Deng Chao and Weibo in Sun Li, which are full of "Erqi".
We often say that to find a partner is to find a person with the same three views.
Some people think that "Er" is a lovely, funny and lively flavoring agent, but others think that "Er" is purely brain-damaged, mentally ill and mentally retarded.
You see, the same behavior is lovely and acceptable in some people's eyes, while others think it is an insult to personality.
It shows how important it is to meet the right person. Only those who are willing to let you spend "seconds" with you will give you more room to display.
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Then some girls will ask, I am a natural person who is not "stupid". Now, in order to make my future life happy, should I become a "second"?
Actually, you don't have to. Being yourself is the most important thing. Some things and some personalities can't be forced.
The reason why a girl with "two" is happy and liked by her husband is definitely not just because of her "two".
So don't steal the concept. They first choose the right person in choosing a partner, plus using "two" as a substitute for life, as well as painstaking management and invisible management, so that they can have a happy life now.
Therefore, if you want to live a happy life, you are definitely not a stupid "two". Otherwise, not only will you not get the man's love, but you will even react and invite rejection. It needs a wise "two" to become a real "two".