Often let the old man at home with the child will have what bad influence on the child?

I don't know if you still remember, a child who dances square dance very well. Square dance is synonymous with the big mom, and the child's square dance dance is very smooth, we laughed after is not a deep thought, why the child jump square dance well? Auntie at home with grandchildren, the elderly have nothing to do with children dancing square dance, the children's ability to imitate is very strong, surprisingly, the square dance dancing skills are superb. Rural parents with children, there are advantages and disadvantages, but the disadvantages outweigh the advantages.

1, rural parents with children, sons and daughters-in-law have more time and energy to make money to support the family. Parents with children more attentive, more careful, son and daughter-in-law also more assured.

Bringing up a child is indeed a heavy task, especially before the child is three years old, bringing up a child is a very tiring job. The first thing you need to do is to change the diapers, do the laundry, feed the baby, and keep the baby from crying, all of these things can be very busy, and there are endless things to do all day long, and the baby's crying at night makes it hard to sleep all night long. When parents help to bring up children, young couples have more time and energy to earn money to support the family. Parents with children are more reassuring. The parents are also more attentive to the children than the nannies are to the children.

2, the way parents educate children

1, "under the stick out of filial piety," too harsh, and even scolded the child, so that the education out of the child's character naughty and rebellious. In rural areas, parents generally have this thinking, "under the stick out of filial piety," many rural young people are under the stick of their parents scolding grown-ups. Some of their grandchildren are also educated according to the old way of educating children, and many children brought up by their parents for a long time are generally more naughty and disobedient, and more rebellious.

2, too spoiled, pampered

Now most grandparents education grandchildren are more pampered, and even spoiled, such parents educated out of the children, but also make you a headache. Children want what to give him, do the wrong thing also do not enlighten the education, a pampering spoiled. Such children are generally more domineering self, temper.

3, parents' bad habits affect children

Rural parents' bad habits, children in the invisible will learn. Children's ability to imitate is very strong, the beginning of the article to see the children jumping square dance, but also because of the children's ability to imitate strong, only to learn the square dance. Children dancing square dance, and jump posture movements and the same as the big moms, does not seem to have a funny but let a person think y reflective. In short, the disadvantages of having children brought up by parents outweigh the advantages. Young couples let their parents with children is also a helpless move, should be more communication with their parents, to instill them with young people's new way of education, and at the same time have the conditions of time to accompany the children, more and more communication with the children.