If life could start over, I would work out well, play street dance, music.
If life could start over, I would fall in love early and learn to understand tolerance. I'll wait for you to come, treat you well, and never let go.
. . . . . .
The "joke" that was spouted out without thinking,
the unverified people's beliefs,
the unresponsive and sincere waiting,
the abandonment of the principle of faith.
We are full of expectations and fantasies for the future, just as we expect God to give us another chance to start over. Go back to that year, that moment, and we'll do it again.
If life can be redone, go back to that familiar place and meet the people you want to see the most.
"The ocean says
that the past
has no meaning
that timing is meaningful
Yu Hao said the past is important
otherwise where would the clues come from
and in my past with her
I missed the timing
and she let go of all the clues".
Unfortunately, you only live once.
There's no turning back, no predicting the future.
Only the anxiety of the future and the challenge of not being able to win or lose.
According to psychological researcher Taylor,Brown (1988), within reason, "reluctance to admit mistakes, refusal to apologize, and the acquisition of a sense of superiority" is a method of self-improvement that maintains an individual's mental health to some degree. Mentally healthy people seem to have the enviable ability to distort reality in a straightforward way that raises self-esteem, maintains a high sense of self-efficacy, and increases optimistic views of the future.
Psychologically speaking, isn't it true that we want a do-over because our present selves have been smoothed out by life and have become so incredibly bland and boring?
Remember the movie "Charlotte's Trouble", the loser Charlotte came to the wedding of the former schoolgirl Qiu Ya, to see his former classmates successful career, spring. One thing is not successful Charlotte heart sour, in the wife of Ma Dongmei stimulation, through the drunkenness of the wedding scene.
Dissatisfaction with real life and resentment of the past, dreaming back to high school. Borrowing the memory of his future life, he let loose and took revenge on the teacher who humiliated him, pursued his beloved girl, made his disappointed mother smile again, and even became a famous writer, musician, and internet celebrity, and a series of events flamed out in unbelievable speed.
Indulging in such an extravagant life, Charlotte has always felt inside that something is missing, but no matter what, he can't pursue it, until he meets a person ......
No matter what, it seems that people's demands on life can never be satisfied, and their desires can never be filled, even ignoring the law and venting their repressed loneliness.
The family's lack of support for their choices, the overtime "favors" of corporate class bullying, the inability to ask for what they want in love.
The bar screaming all night long, "single addiction", addicted to the phone, the network can not be extricated.
But is this the perfect life I need?
Immersed in the perfect life of smugness, without the struggle, struggle, competition to get the perfect. It seems a bit overwhelming, but it's just an unanswered question of what's going on in the air, what's going on in the air.
Only when you find your own position and rhythm, and enjoy life to the best of your ability, can you play a stirring music.
The first thing you need to do is to find out what you want to do and what you want to do, and then you can do it. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.