Nowadays, society, not like before, if people do not have a son and a half a daughter, old age is really nowhere to go, counting on the children of old age, now, everyone is very open-minded and very independent, and everyone's siblings, are not much, unlike before, several, you can take turns to take care of, everyone has their own work, life needs to cope with, there is almost no one, in the parents have something, you can drop everything, you have a good time, you have to take care of your parents. When something happens, there's hardly anyone who can drop everything and go take care of them and be around 24 hours a day.
Elderly people who have children really don't necessarily have people to support them in their old age.
There may be several scenarios:
One, the child will not be able to do anything, will never grow up, and the parents will still have to support him when they are 70 years old. This is the first time I've ever seen a child with a high school diploma, and I've never seen a child with a high school diploma.
Second, the unfilial son. Real case: the mother painstakingly cultivated his son into an American, a family, she wanted to go to the United States to live with his son, in the joy of heaven and earth to spend their twilight years, can be rejected by his son, with a check of a few tens of thousands of dollars to buy off the relationship between mother and son.
Third, I want you in front of me, with you in the sky. Now is a mobile society, the children are more in the different places of entrepreneurship. Some even a few years can not see a side. Parents are sick, hurry to come, and hurry to go, not much power to borrow.
Fourth, the heart is not enough. In fact, now the most bitter and difficult is not parents, but children. They have a wife and children, the bottom is not thick, spending huge, desperate to make money, the pressure is great. Really do not have much energy financial resources old people.
Fifth, the child Healthy promising okay, if the unfortunate child has a disability, or loss of independence, or crime ...... that also talk about what old age, is to promote the old it.
Of course, the upper number of cases is still a minority. And 70 years ago, most of the elderly, to the previous generation of the elderly is still filial piety.
Why is it wrong to say that the Dinks must have no one to retire?
There are no absolutes in the world, and it's ridiculous to say ''definitely''. The words should be said, there is a child does not necessarily be able to old age, rich people do not necessarily not be able to old age.
Raising children from childhood to adulthood, need to spend money, and even children have children, the elderly still have to stick money. And Dink this huge sum of money saved. So there are children's old age is pinned on the child, Dink old age is dependent on money.
Then the question comes: pension is a child reliable it, or money reliable it? There is a famous saying: matter determines consciousness. In today's society where money is not an option, money is still reliable. Don't you see that nowadays old people are keeping their wallets tightly closed to their children? When parents have property, children compete to support them, but when parents have no money, they play soccer. Of course, it's best to have money and children, but as an ordinary person, having children means having no money.
As for Dinky being lonely in his old age and having no one to care for him, it's a bit of an exaggeration. Nowadays, the world of the elderly, more colorful than young people, such as reunions, companionship tourism, square dancing, hemp friends, interest groups, more busy than work.
As for the time when the body is not working, there is no big problem, call takeout, call hourly workers, hire a nanny, into the high-grade nursing home. Being bullied hit l10 to find the police, have difficulties to find the community. Even on the day of death, there is a civil affairs bureau to collect the body. Then again, no relatives, still no friends?
Some people will ask, you are Dink, right? No, I have children and am very filial. Even so, I want to be a retirement Dink, I don't want to overwhelm my children with a few years of retirement.