Deep in Love and Rain has been on the air for 20 years, and every character in it has been a favorite.
And one of the most "thought-provoking" role, but the villain Xue aunt.
Auntie Qiong Yao is very wise to the modern vulnerability and lost into the role of Auntie Xue:
seemingly unlimited behind the scenes, but the mechanism is calculated, and ended up with the most tragic end.
Auntie Xue, who was born in a theater troupe, was uneducated and full of marketplace flavor, and became the ninth aunt of the Lu family because she was spotted by Lu Zhenhua.
This high intelligence, heart and means of the master of the house, from now on, through the thorns and thistles, to become the real mistress of the Lu family.
Her husband favors her exclusively, her children are excellent and filial, and she is happy with them, so she should be a winner in life.
But Auntie Xue ended up playing this hand of good cards badly, lost in the endless desire ......
First ambition, become the aunt of the end
As the Lu Zhenhua's ninth aunt, she knows how to control her husband and her children, and she has a good understanding of how to control her husband's life. She is well versed in the art of "mastering the husband" and has become the ultimate aunt by virtue of her own cleverness.
Even in modern times, Auntie Xue's ambition is not to be underestimated.
Auntie Xue's full name is Wang Xueqin, and just three months after she started singing, she was spotted by Lu Zhenhua.
Lieutenant Li went to propose marriage, the adoptive mother 10,000 not happy, using her daughter as a shield: it is still up to the daughter to be willing.
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After all, this man is several rounds older than himself, not to mention, but also with the way of robbery to force themselves. One still has to compete with eight wives for favor, and besides, Aunt Xue at that time did not even see Lu Zhenhua's appearance.
But Wang Xueqin saw her chance.
She advised her mother: Maybe it's still my luck, Wang Xueqin.
"As for the ninth and tenth in line and what does it matter, if the previous eight ladies are favored, it will not be my turn to sing opera. Since it's my turn, I'm afraid the first eight ladies are no better."
A speech, confident and domineering, but also organized, so that Lieutenant Li impressed: this woman, not simple.
For this marriage, she did not have the slightest worry, but full of confidence.
She daintily said to Lieutenant Li: "Mr. Army, from now on, I want you to take care of more."
Lieutenant Li immediately said: "I'm afraid I don't deserve it, I'm afraid I'll need you to take care of me more from now on".
This sentence is a prophecy, and since then, Auntie Xue has begun her life of blight and reincarnation.
On the day of the wedding, Auntie Xue wore a red horseback riding outfit, which was elegant and valiant.
Lu Zhenhua saluted the guests in accordance with military etiquette.
The previous year, he married Wen Pei, also saluted in this way, Wen Pei just shyly stood aside.
And Auntie Xue, after all, is Auntie Xue, Lu Zhenhua salute, her eyes on the other side of every movement, how the hands and feet are placed.
After the commander saluted, she learned in style and returned the salute to the guest with a beautiful military salute.
The action is standard, generous, won the applause and applause, the guests were full of praise for her.
Lu Zhenhua laughed heartily and looked at him with eyes full of appreciation and admiration.
And Auntie Xue is looking at Lu Zhenhua with a proud posture of a victor.
That delicate little face, this lofty, everything is in control of the aura, destined to be this family, the most unusual woman.
A young age, actually have such a heart?
Lieutenant Li, who was standing in the crowd, was truly shocked. He felt a sense of crisis.
Lu Zhenhua, on the other hand, is still immersed in the beauty and thoughtfulness of his new wife.
Since her, Lu Zhenhua has never married again.
After the marriage, she even gave birth to three children in a row, capturing Lu Zhenhua from the inside out, becoming Lu Zhenhua's favorite aunt, and winning the battle of the house.
In a way, Auntie Xue is successful.
She used her beauty and wit to trade in her unique favor and solidify her position in the Lu family.
She knew she wanted wealth, and she begged for mercy.
It's just a shame she didn't have time to think it through: what does this stand for behind the scenes, and what is the cost of such a choice?
Inside, it's the inner turmoil that makes you "bad"
After the fall of the Northeast, Lu Zhenhua took Mrs. Wenpei, Auntie Xue, and the children to Shanghai to escape the city.
And the other seven wives, all stayed in the Northeast.
The eighth wife, Wen Pei, was treated like an inferior. There is no comparison with Wang Xueqin.
But Auntie Xue did not know enough, she even used her son Erjie, squeezing out Wen Pei mother and daughter.
A lot of people think it's outrageous that Wen Pei is the most harmless character in the show, and is no threat to Auntie Xue.
Why do you have to go to great lengths to squeeze them out and treat them harshly? Is it all about the family fortune?
In fact, what Auntie Xue is more afraid of than the loss of money is Wen Pei's "harm".
More accurately, Auntie Xue has always had an object of persecution in her mind, and a persecuted self.
The pattern of her relationships is one of persecution and persecuted.
Even if Wen Pei knew the secret of Auntie Xue's cheating, if she told it, she could put Auntie Xue to death, and she and Yi Ping would not need to beg for their lives.
But she is kind by nature and she understands Auntie Xue. No matter how harshly she was treated, she never hurt Auntie Xue.
In the face of Wen Pei's concealment and sincere help, she does not have any gratitude, but will feel that the other party does not have any good intentions.
The first time I saw this, I was able to get a good look at the whole thing, and I was able to get a good look at the whole thing.
She is crazy about her inner fears, and sees everyone else as a victim, so she attacks and demands, so that she can stay in the "protective shell" that she has built for herself.
And her state of being affects every child.
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Ru Ping is a weak and timid character, and when she encounters problems, she only knows how to escape and retreat.
Mengping, not to mention, is another Auntie Xue's replica, but she doesn't have Auntie Xue's heart, doesn't know how to recognize the good guys and the bad guys, and finally gets raped.
A mother's energy has a profound effect on her children. Behind Auntie Xue's mask, there is actually a very fragile and upside-down heart.
She will never be able to experience the warmth of the world as others do, nor will she be able to convey pure and noble emotions to her children, and in her world there is only grasping, attacking, pleasing, and lying.
Wang Xueqin vividly interpreted what is called "bad understanding of people". She always interprets the world around her in the most vicious light.
Because, no matter how strong, domineering, and proud she is in front of people, she is restless inside.
She knows there is little affection between her and her husband, who is dictatorial, short-tempered, and cracks the whip at the drop of a hat.
She has been able to stay in favor by ingratiating herself and being submissive.
The only person who ever made Auntie Xue feel secure was Wei Guangxiong, her lover of ten years.
Unfortunately, scarcity can only ever attract scarcity, and this man is even more of the darkest side of the light of her heart, so that hidden under the mask of her nowhere to hide.
The more you want, the less you can hold on to
Auntie Xue thought she had a firm grip on two men, but she was frustrated at both ends.
On the one hand, Wei Guangxiong begins to dislike Auntie Xue because of his younger lover, Anna.
At that moment, Auntie Xue's pride is wounded.
But when she comes home, she is told by her husband that he wants to move out and live with Wenpei's mother and daughter.
On the one hand, there is her lover, whom she has spent all her money on, and on the other hand, there is her husband, whom she has served for more than 20 years, and for whom she has given birth to children.
Auntie Xue has poured too much into both relationships, and given too much, only to be abandoned.
Wang Xueqin's whole life is a constant grasping; she grasps for wealth, for a husband, for power, for a lover, for children.
But in this instant, everything she grasped for seems to be lost.
She lost her mind all of a sudden, and couldn't care less about anything else, she just wanted to win the battle with Wenpei and Yi Ping.
She ran to Wenpei's house and made a scene, insulting Yiping and Wenpei with the most vicious and unpleasant words.
This also forced Yi-Ping to speak out in anger about her cheating.
And all this was heard by Lu Zhenhua outside the door.
When things fall apart, Lu Zhenhua wants to starve her and Erjie to death.
She and Erjie are trapped in their home. Wei Guangxiong steals all of the Lu family's possessions and leads the wolves into the house.
The three rich sons and daughters of the family, who she had been living a good life with, are all of a sudden turned into penniless paupers.
She spends her days pouring out her sorrows with alcohol, and Erjie is not treated well, and the two of them are also subjected to frequent domestic violence.
She is left with no family, no money, and is truly alone.
Finally, in order to expose Wei Guangxiong, she went to jail.
Auntie Xue, from a lowly background, uneducated, and full of marketplace flavor, but got a good hand of cards.
Unfortunately, in the end, this good card is also played to pieces.
It can be said that Wei Guangxiong is the first person that Auntie Xue has ever given her heart to.
After the scandal was revealed, she yelled at Lu Zhenhua, saying: Wei Guangxiong is a hundred times better than you, a thousand times better than you, and I'm willing to give her a child, and you deserve to be cuckolded!
What Auntie Xue wants in life is love after all.
It's just a shame that because of her inner turmoil and aggression, she can't see true love and kindness, and it's hard for her to be treated truly well.
Lu Zhenhua's favor is only because Auntie Xue is a stand-in for his first love.
She has never been truly loved in her life.
Perhaps this was the wrong move in the beginning, when she decided to trade marriage for glory and money for love.
In the past, when I saw such an ending, I felt happy.
Now every time I think about it, I feel doubly sad.
When she married Lu Zhenhua, she was so full of stars that she thought she was going to be able to rewrite her life. But instead, she has been trapped in an inner cage, consumed by scarcity all her life.
Breaking through scarcity to see our true selves
"Deep Rain, Deeply" is an emotional drama from the heart that shows us ourselves in a different light.
In the play, Auntie Xue looks shrewd, powerful and self-possessed, but is the one who lives the most confused life.
She never thought about what she really wanted.
Sometimes I wonder if Auntie Xue had used her "ambition" to fulfill herself, maybe she would have been a successful woman.
But instead, she invested all her passion, youth, and hope in a man, and made a mess of her life and the lives of her children.
Like a deprived, starving child, she seizes whatever she sees and desperately tries to fill her mouth and body.
But a person who doesn't know herself, what she grabs is never what she really needs, but rather an illumination of inner scarcity.
Auntie Xue's life is a process of falling apart, and I'm afraid that in the end, she doesn't understand why she's fallen so far ......
Because she's never really read herself, and those negative beliefs planted in the depths of her subconscious mind have continued to entangle her throughout her life.
If she could have seen her inner desire earlier, it would have been a different story.
As Jung said: when the subconscious is presented, fate is rewritten.
What we have to learn throughout our lives is to know ourselves better, and only when we know ourselves well enough can we know what we really want.
Being constantly aware and open to wisdom allows wisdom to get ahead of mistakes.
Instead of waiting for life to wake up with pain, you realize:
It turns out that the only person who can fulfill yourself is yourself.
Planning | Hungry Fish
Editing | Jiang Feng
Anchor | Audiobook anchor, Himalaya search: anchor Ning language.