But Xu Jinglei, who has always been known for her purity and coolness, also has another title, "The Little Witch of the Beijing Circle,"
She was once a "mistress" who openly provoked the original wife,
but she also had the opportunity to talk about her life on the show.
She has as a "mistress" openly provoked the original wife,
also talked about the "borrowed abdomen" view in the program,
She also pried the goddess Gao Yuanyuan's corner,
The appearance is not outstanding, but she is
Although she has been with her boyfriend Huang Lixing for 11 years,
but now the 47-year-old Xu Jinglei has not yet chosen to get married,
What is the reason that she is still choosing not to get married?
1. Xu Jinglei's youthful experience
In April 1974, Xu Jinglei was born in a residential area near Sanlitun, Beijing. Her father, Xu Zijian, and her mother, Yu Shurong, were both ordinary workers in factories in Beijing.
Xu Jinglei was dark and thin as a child, and because she didn't like to write, she didn't study well at school. Her father, who "hated iron and couldn't stand steel", would ask her to recite Tang poems every day after work, and in order to get her to write, he also made her study in the calligraphy class at the Beijing Children's Palace, where she practiced calligraphy every day.
Under her father's strict education, Xu Jinglei developed a beautiful hand of calligraphy, and since she was a child, she has a rich cultural heritage of reciting Tang poems and reading books.
Xu Jinglei is not the only daughter in the family, she has a younger brother. Her father, Xu Zijian, quit his factory job and opened a neon factory at home in order to provide for his siblings to go to school.
Due to the limitations of the technology in those days, the words on the light box needed to be handwritten by hand, and her father, in order to save costs, let Xu Jinglei, who was already successful in calligraphy, write them, and Xu Jinglei's words spread all over the city of Beijing along with the light box.
After high school, Xu Jinglei was obsessed with painting, and wanted to enroll in the Central Academy of Drama in the Department of Choreography and Arts and Crafts, and her father did his best to meet the daughter's hobbies, Xu Jinglei after a year of professional study, and finally because of the cultural scores are too low, no chance of the Central Academy of Drama.
Preparing for World War II, Xu Jinglei gave up painting at this time and prepared to apply for the Beijing Film Academy, and eventually she was accepted into the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy.
2, the origin of the talented girl will act, conduct theater Calligraphy own font
During the university period Xu Jinglei and Pu Cunxin, Liu Hanqiang, Jiang Wu and others starred in Zhao Baogang director of the "a wind, flowers, snow, and moon thing". In 2000, she and Pu Cunxin won the title of "Dual Cohesion in Arts and Culture".
In 2003, Xu Jinglei won the Best Newcomer Award and the Outstanding Newcomer Actress Award at the Huabiao Awards for the movie I Love You, and the 26th Best Actress Award at the Hundred Flowers of Popular Cinema Awards for Subway to Spring. She also won the "26th Hundred Flowers Award for Best Actress" for "Subway to Spring" and the "23rd Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actress" for "My Beautiful Nostalgia".
Xu Jinglei, after winning awards for her acting, had the idea of becoming a director, and in 2004, she wrote, directed and acted in her debut film "Me and My Dad", which won the "Best Screenplay at the 4th Chinese Film Awards", "Best New Director Nomination", "Best Director in Mainland China", and "Best Actor in the Chinese Film Awards". The movie is a great success, as it has won four major awards: "Best Screenplay at the Fourth Chinese Film Awards", "Best New Director Nomination", "Most Popular Mainland Actress Award" and "Best Debut Award at the Golden Rooster Awards".
Successful director Xu Jinglei, while the iron is hot, she wrote, directed and acted in the film "A Letter from a Strange Woman", which won the "Best Director Award at the 52nd San Sebastian Film Festival in Spain".
At this time, Xu Jinglei's fame in the Beijing circle is getting bigger and bigger, plus she also wrote a handful of good brush strokes, good script writing, acting, directing the play excellent, in 2007, she also created her own font "Founder Jinglei Simplified", slowly Xu Jinglei has the "Beijing circle of talented women" title. "
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3, acquaintance Wang Shuo provoked the original
Like Xu Jinglei called her "Beijing circle talented girl", do not like her called her "Beijing circle little devil", Xu Jinglei can have today's achievements can not be separated from her university period, "boyfriend" Wang Shuo, "boyfriend" Wang Jinglei. "The first step is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what is going on in the world.
Xu Jinglei, who has always been a pure and cool person, has never had a boyfriend since she was 19 years old, and Wang Shuo is a man who has the greatest influence on her.
When Xu Jinglei was admitted to the university, she left her father's strict control and began to completely free herself, often skipping classes to go to the bar and play rock 'n' roll with them.
One time in the bar by the then famous Wang Shuo a glance, Wang Shuo on the appearance of this cold inside the wild girl attraction, in the case of already have a family Wang Shuo or Xu Jinglei launched a fierce pursuit, and Xu Jinglei is also attracted to this talented man.
Later, Wang Shuo through his own contacts and resources, will bring Xu Jinglei step by step into the "Beijing circle", Xu Jinglei in Wang Shuo's help to live under the success of Zhao Baogang directed "a wind, flower, snow and moon thing", after Xu Jinglei to do the director, the first time is to find Wang Shuo.
It can be said that Xu Jinglei can so smoothly into the "Beijing circle", Wang Shuo has a large part of the credit, Xu Jinglei is Wang Shuo in the back to bring her up.
"Talent and beauty" should be a blessed story, provided that both are single, but Wang Shuo is not single, his wife Shen Xujia once accompanied him through the trough of life, the two have a daughter.
And was Xu Jinglei charmed to the head of Wang Shuo, completely disregard for morality and ethics, and even brought Xu Jinglei to the home, the two at home unashamedly love, was his wife Shen Xujia caught a current.
As a "junior" caught by the original wife of the current Xu Jinglei not only did not panic and fear, but directly to the Shen Xujia said: "" I have been in your home strutting in and out of so many times, you'll give him to me. " And Shen Xujia said: "You don't understand, I am his mother, he simply can't leave me".
A "junior" openly provoked "the original", in Xu Jinglei's cognition this is her love Wang Shuo performance, but in the world's moral concept, she is a destroyer of other people's families, shameless "junior". ".
"Old love" finally did not win the "new favorite", Wang Shuo finally chose to divorce his wife, Shen Xujia took his daughter far away from the United States, Xu Jinglei so forced Wang Shuo's original match, as Shen Xujia said, leaving his ex-wife's Wang Shuo, career The first step is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing and how you are doing it.
At this time, Xu Jinglei has been relying on Wang Shuo's resources and connections to meet the "Beijing circle" many prestigious bosses and directors, coupled with Xu Jinglei's own talent and strength in the Beijing circle has a place in the people waiting for the two good news, Xu Jinglei Wang Shuo broke up.
4, warping Gao Yuanyuan corner, when the junior
After leaving Wang Shuo Xu Jinglei, turned into another part of her feelings, this time Xu Jinglei is still "junior", she pried the goddess Gao Yuanyuan corner.
In 2005, the media photographed Xu Jinglei and Zhang Yadong shopping scene in Beijing together, the two hand in hand intimate interaction chat.
Zhang Yadong is a very famous music talent, Xu Jinglei very appreciate Zhang Yadong's music talent, in the knowledge that he has a girlfriend premise, but still on Zhang Yadong to start fierce pursuit, she also invited Zhang Yadong to star in her movie "I and Dad".
When he was photographed by the media shopping with Xu Jinglei, he had already been dating the goddess Gao Yuanyuan for a long time, and their relationship had been stable and very compatible.
Zhang Yadong once said in an interview that he likes Gao Yuanyuan very much, and that she is a very special person, and her ideas are so special that they sometimes affect his own ideas.
The two were together even to the point of talking about marriage, and Gao Yuanyuan had rejected other people's confessions in order to be with Zhang Yadong.
"Xu Jinglei interfered with Zhang Yadong and Gao Yuanyuan romance" once the explosion, as the victim of Gao Yuanyuan is also timely stop loss, immediately broke up with Zhang Yadong.
In this way, Xu Jinglei smooth "junior correct", however, not long Xu Jinglei and Zhang Yadong broke up, after Zhang Yadong and Zhai Ying together, Xu Jinglei side also has a new boyfriend.
5, talent woman persona is not guaranteed, shoot "Durarara promotion" to know Huang Lixing
"provocative original match", "forced away from the original match", "junior" and other labels The negative information that has been attached to Xu Jinglei's body is so overwhelming that she realizes that her hard-earned "talented woman" persona is going to be lost, and the public has begun to question her.
In order to divert the public's attention, on July 20, 2010, Xu directed and starred in "Dulala's Promotion", in which she met Huang Lixing, and the film received a great response when it was released, and even grossed more than $100 million in mainland China, making Xu the first female director to break the $100 million mark at the box office in China.
Xu Jinglei's movie instantly shifted the public's attention, and the scandal between her and Huang Lixing, the actor who played Wang Wei in the play, quickly rushed to the hot search, and the two fell in love in the play, and outside the play was rumored to be a fake drama, but at that time both sides did not come out to admit it.
In 2011 and directed the "intimate deceased" two people again, the two together in love with the performance is more and more obvious, but both sides are still on the love love love love problem shut up.
In everyone's speculation that the two do not have a relationship, in August 2014, Xu Jinglei said in a microblogging article said: "five years have not red face more did not quarrel, but also is not allowed. The right person is the one who makes you better." This is also a disguised recognition of his romance with Huang Lixing.
In 2018 Xu Jinglei posted a public confession on Weibo, she said, "In the past nine years, I have been sick from time to time, and you always have the medicine".
This is an affirmation of Huang Lixing's companionship over the years and a response to him, but Xu Jinglei has never responded positively to her romance with Huang Lixing.
6, do not get married program talk about borrowing the abdomen to have a child
Huang Lixing accompanied Xu Jinglei for so many years, but it is worth to come to such a sentence, we can not help but let everyone for Huang Lixing is not worth it. But Xu Jinglei and Huang Lixing's relationship has been very stable, Xu Jinglei is also very satisfied with Huang Lixing.
With the growth of age, 47 years old, but she is late to get married this makes everyone very puzzled.
In response to this question, Xu Jinglei said, "I don't want to prove my love through marriage, and I don't need to take a piece of paper to make myself feel secure".
At first glance, this will feel that Xu Jinglei is very thoughtful, is a new era of independent women's point of view, but in the eyes of the majority of people, her ideas will be around the people as a "freak", Xu Jinglei also said that "they do not care about the views of others, they may not have their own life! The first time I've seen this, I've seen it in my own life.
Most people get married in order to pass on their children, and when asked about "children" in the program, Xu Jinglei did not shy away from talking about the idea of "borrowing a baby" in the program. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and then you'll be able to get a new one, and then you'll be able to get a new one.
In our country, it is against the law to have a baby on your belly, and as a public figure, she has received more attention than the average person.
But Xu Jinglei did not shy away from talking about the violation of national laws in the program "borrowing a baby", no matter whether Xu Jinglei "borrowing a baby", as a public figure should set an example, should be responsible for their own words for the community to spread positive energy, not to mention the fact that Xu Jinglei is a public figure. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world.
7, the status quo
When I was young, I was asked by my father to be strict, and when I grew up, I chose to break the confinement, and under Xu Jinglei's innocent and cool appearance, there is a restless heart.
At 19 years old, there has been no shortage of boyfriends, Xu Jinglei, and Huang Lixing, who has been with her for 11 years and still does not get married.
Marriage is not the end of love to her, and she does not feel any pressure from Huang Lixing, who is the only one who has been in love.
She chose not to be bound by marriage, to live the life she wants, 47-year-old Xu Jinglei live than anyone understand.
Finally, I hope that Xu Jinglei, as a public figure, can strictly regulate her own speech and behavior, and spread positive energy for the society.