What are the questions to not obsess over to get your ex back?

The two questions that I find most likely to plague getting back are Can I get it back? Does he still love me? Why are these two questions meaningless? The probability of being able to get the other person back shouldn't be on you? The first thing you need to figure out to get a man back is what kind of person he is, what you broke up over, and what you did after you broke up that consistently hurt each other. Figure out these issues, you can win him back how much probability actually already know in the heart.

And most of the breakup, there will be room for recovery.

01 Redemption lies in your feelings

Not because you feel that the scene of the breakup between you is not very good, you feel that the feelings have been unable to come back, but also because you feel that he is a person who will not come back to give up on salvage, and do not get entangled in his love or not love you.

Many people will be entangled in the problem of love before retrieval, it seems that love is not love for them is the ultimate meaning of retrieval.

In fact, the significance of salvage is not built on the case that he still loves you, the reason why you salvage the old love instead of going to find a new love, because you are comfortable with him, do not want to risk encountering the dregs of a man to change a person, many times, do not go to talk about a new relationship, simply because you do not want to spend time and energy to grind with another person.

So if you want to get your ex back, don't ask if you love him, but ask yourself if it's cool to be with him.

02 Love or not love no one has the answer

What kind of counts as he loves you?

I often see a lot of articles titled: men love you, look at this point to know; not for you to spend money on the man must not love you; the man's this detail, that he does not love you ......

But after reading this there is no standard answer to tell the girls what kind of love, what kind of love is not called.

But after reading this, there is no standard answer that can tell girls what kind of love is and what kind of love is not.

03 Too entangled will miss the recovery time

Really want to make sure that he loves you after the breakup of the girls, most of them will miss the best recovery time.

Really want to salvage him, do not dwell on whether he loves you, although to salvage an unknown looks like a sunk cost is too large, but think about it, you salvage a person also look at his face, it will certainly be tied hands and feet.

There are also girls who pay extra attention to each other's responses when they are recovering, analyzing each other's feelings about themselves, the more they care, the more likely they are to make mistakes.

The above is only a personal opinion.