The three moral relationships and the four virtues that feudal women observed.
"Before marrying, follow the father; after marrying, follow the husband; after the husband's death, follow the son."------- Yi Li Mourning Clothes Zixia Zhuan
"Women's Virtue, Women's Speech, Women's Appearance, and Women's Merit."----- Zhou Ri Tian Guan Jiu Concubines
Women's Virtue (character)
Women's speech is called rhetoric
Women's countenance is called wan yi (grooming)
Women's gong is called silk soot
============ Three Submissive Virtues of a Girlfriend ============
Boyfriend's words and actions should be obeyed
Boyfriend's ignorance should be blindly obeyed
Boyfriend's idea to obey
Boyfriend's affectionate to endure "get"
Boyfriend's thin line to be subjected to "get"
Boyfriend's suspicious to remember "get"
Boyfriend's petty to be "get"
============ man's three from the four virtues ============
Girlfriend out of the door to follow the "get"
Girlfriend order to serve "from"Girlfriend speak wrong to blind "from"
Girlfriend make-up to wait for "get"
Girlfriend spend money to shed "get"
Girlfriend angry to tolerate "get"
Girlfriend birthday to remember "get"
Ancient women abiding by the three from the four virtues of the women in the parody of the Three Kingdoms
Ancient women abide by the three from the four virtues
Women
The three from the Four Virtues
Throughout history, wild history, the words of the book, the play, everywhere not to promote this ethical morality, there is no lack of Wang Baochuan such chaste martyrs, but also Wang Zhaojun of the flow of political interests and relatives of the tool woman, many writings, except for the "Dream of Red Mansions" and the "Liaozhai Zhiqi" in the woman, the nature of the true, can be sung and praised, the other can be exempted from the Three Kingdoms, although the woman is very few, but also can not escape the tragedy of the Destiny ......Everything in heaven and earth a yin and a yang, the red dust of the human world a man and a woman, men and women is always the topic of discussion, men and women entanglements are the most wonderful story. Men and women's competition seems to have never stopped, from the initial matriarchal society, know their mothers do not know their fathers, with the woman's contribution to social life gradually lower than the man, and gradually transitioned to the male dominated by women from the patrilineal society, the woman's social status has become a subordinate role, after the feudal society of the old Mr. Confucius indoctrination, the woman who is, in accordance with the teachings of the man and the long of its rituals also. Women's subordinate position by forced to fight to become a conscious acceptance, and then the theory of this three from the four virtues in-depth into the consciousness of each woman, and become a norm of adherence to ......
Diaochan - poor daughter of the body of the tigers and wolves
Diao Chan is a kabuki in the house of Wang Yun, the Sisters of Wang Yun, was selected from childhood in the house, teaching and learning songs and dances, although treating the pro-daughter, but is a plaything of Wang Yun, Dong Zhuo chaotic program, want to usurp the throne, it is the country's business, it is the business of Wang Yun, your men, you can not be leveled, but to come up with what chain of plans to let Diao Chan to color as a spear to kill Dong Zhuo father and son between, really incompetent. What's even more pathetic is that Diao Chan thought this is a great righteousness, and felt that only in this way can we hold the great kindness of Wang Yun, poor daughter body circling between the tigers and wolves, perhaps from the time Diao Chan stepped into Wang Yun's house, was destined to be the fate of this tragedy, even if there is no Dong Zhuo, and in the end, it is not inevitable to become Wang Yun's concubine.......
Sun Shangxiang
Sun Shangxiang is the younger sister of Sun Quan, the lord of Wu, and in the playbook, Sun Shangxiang is extremely courageous, with hundreds of maidservants, and often carries a sword, and her room is full of military weapons, though less than a man's. It seems that Sun Shangxiang is a very courageous person. It seems to be a character, but still can not dominate their own destiny, was set up by Zhou Yu's beauty plan, made a mistake, by the Wu State Mrs. married half a hundred Liu Bei, that Sun Shangxiang in the bridal chamber before also did not see Liu Bei, parents' orders, the words of the matchmakers, listening to others to arrange for their own life, and later was designed by his brother to cheat back, intended to use the Adou for Jingzhou. Poor Sun Shangxiang even became a political tool in the Shu-Wu dispute, I do not know where to go after returning to the Eastern Wu? ......
Mrs. Cui, the wife of Liu Zhan, can be regarded as a chaste and virtuous woman in the feudal society, and she is to be included in the biography of women. Deng Ai sneaked across the Yinping, broke Mianyang, soldiers pushed Chengdu, after the Lord Liu Zen surrendered to the city, his seventh son Liu Zhan bitter advice is ineffective, crying, rather than die to surrender, his wife knew, greatly appreciated: wise! Wise, but also to follow with death. And said, the king died father, concubine died husband, the same meaning. Liu Zhan's wife for the righteousness of the festival and die, but the three children were not spared, also killed by Liu Zhan. I'm sorry!
Liu An's wife - wife is clothes?
Another woman has to be mentioned, this woman is the wife of hunter Liu An. At that time, Liu Bei borrowed his home, Liu An arranged for Liu Bei to eat, did not find game, in order to curry favor with Liu Bei, to express their loyalty, even killed his wife to cook meat for Liu Bei to eat, Liu Bei ate well, asked Liu An what meat? Liu An said it was wolf meat, boy, who is the wolf? Later, after Liu Bei knew, he was only overwhelmed with sadness, dropped a few tears, and did not vomit, nor did he reprimand Liu An, it seems that Liu Bei was also unimpressed. This gentleman also famously said, "Brothers are hands and feet, wives are clothes, clothes are broken, can still be sewn, hands and feet broken, can be renewed. This shows that women at that time in the eyes of the family is just passing on and face head ......
Cai Wenji - history respected political talent
Cai Wenji is a celebrity in history, this woman is proficient in music, good at poetry and literature, is very talented, but the Unfortunately, in the chaos of Dong Zhuo, was plundered by the Xiongnu, a go twelve years, Cao Cao because of his father Cai Yong good relations, with thousands of gold to Cai Wen Ji ransom, married to the cantonment lieutenant Dong Sisi, and let it organize his father's writings, leaving a precious cultural heritage for future generations. Although Cai Wenji was not allowed to start well, she ended up in a good place, which is still fortunate among the many unfortunate women in the Three Kingdoms. The rest of Cao Cao's wife, Zhang Ji's wife, Zou, and Cao Pi's wife, Yuan Shang's wife, Zhen, were in the midst of the chaos and had no choice but to marry a chicken and follow the chicken, or a dog. Lu Bu's daughter and Guan Yu's daughter also once became the bond of the alliance, but in the end did not just. The rest of the noble queen, the noble consort of a class of people actually worse than the common people, the last incense to die, so that people do not have to lament ......