Elders generally believe that even if you earn less money at work and make ends meet as a whole, it is a loss-making business, you should stick to work. They are all based on a very simple outlook on life, that is, people can't be idle. If they are idle for a long time, they will be abolished, and they will continue to work anyway. Moreover, they believe that as long as people keep working, they will develop. If they earn two thousand today, they may become five thousand in a year or two, so they can work hard for more than ten thousand years.
Many so-called career planning experts also suggest that you stick to work. The basic principle is basically the same, that is, you have to go to work. Only when you are working and always in the workplace can you remain competitive and get possible promotion or job-hopping opportunities in the future. You earn less now, that's because you are incompetent. After studying at work for a few years, you will gain a lot of abilities, and then you will get better job opportunities.
But now many young people, regardless of their educational background, are facing two major problems.
The first question is: the work you do must conform to the law of five thousand yuan and the law of conservation of consumption. Only hard work can save a little money every month. In the long run, the money saved is not enough to make up for the double chronic injuries caused by work.
For example, long-term work has accumulated various cervical and lumbar diseases, such as hypertension, hyperlipidemia, hyperglycemia, gout, heart disease and so on. And severe diabetes and pancreatitis. Don't laugh when it comes to this. Over the years, I have witnessed many people under the age of 30 like to mention gout, diabetes and pancreatitis packages. Many people behave exactly the same when they get sick for the first time.
For example, I have a buddy who wrote a sentence on WeChat in the morning. He drank too much last night, as if he sprained his foot before going to bed, and now he can't get out of bed. Then with the help of people with relevant experience, it is confirmed to be gout.
There are two friends, both of whom had a small barbecue in the middle of the night and suffered from unbearable pain when they slept. They were taken away by an ambulance, hoping to mention pancreatitis.
Why do you think young people suffer from many diseases that only old people can get?
Bad living habits are obviously the main cause, but many bad living habits are by-products of overwork or bad work habits.
If the general ledger is calculated, the money earned by going out to work is really uneconomical, and then many young people would rather lie flat than go out to earn some wages.
The second problem is that most people's roles in the workplace are full-time screws.
Most people are only responsible for part of the work, and then most people can only do three or four parts of the work in their lifetime. If they don't see it, they can't have a chance to see the whole picture of the work, because the whole puzzle is the property of capitalists and won't be easily obtained by you. This will inevitably lead to your salary may increase with the increase of inflation and working years, but you can't get the career development path recognized by the previous generation in the industrial age.
For example, if you graduate from undergraduate course, you will be an assistant engineer after entering the factory, and you will be promoted to a senior engineer all the way, and then you can be a deputy chief engineer if you are lucky. Even when a technical secondary school enters the factory, there is a complete set of upgrade system for you to upgrade slowly. All kinds of wages and benefits also increase with the improvement of the level. More importantly, at that time, they were all state-owned enterprises, and everyone was a system. Theoretically, there is no risk of unemployment. (although it was later mentioned that someone was laid off)
Now in the eyes of the boss, most migrant workers are just migrant workers. If he spends money on your time, you can play this job full-time, and it's only fair to pay with one hand and deliver with the other! As for your long-term career development plan, the boss will not take care of it, so you still have to rely on yourself. I believe that my efforts will one day create my own little miracle.
Therefore, if most people fail to get a good position in the workplace, they are forced to do a purely consumer job with no future development and low salary, that is, to exchange time for money every day like assembly line workers. Then choosing a job is not a cost-effective thing in the long run. But most people are in this dilemma. Work is not cost-effective, and it is unrealistic not to work. In the end, I can only swing back and forth in the state of being ruined and waiting for Godot.
At the same time as me, for example, Zhang Dahua was admitted to the establishment for self-study and Li Xiaoming was admitted to the civil service. Only I can work flexibly at home and do anything, such as setting up stalls, doing odd jobs, cleaning and working as a waiter in a hotel. At that time, I thought we all had a bright future. As a result, it's a long story.
When the people around you really go out to work as fresh graduates, you will know. According to the law of 5,000 yuan in big cities, rent 1-2k, meals 2k, commuting 500, and other water and electricity network fees 200- 1, 000. So, how much money do you have left?
Workers who do not have a skill and preparation that becomes more and more popular with age are those who only know clerical skills. When they go to work, they pay and work like slaves. So this kind of unemployment at home is cheaper than going out to work. If college students are cheated by tens of thousands before they are wet behind the ears, it will be beyond redemption. Might as well lie flat at home.
Of course, the rich never talk about the concept of gnawing at the old, and they are all poor people who have been staring at the concept of gnawing at the old. If I were a parent, I could earn money and have money, and my children are raised so hard. Why should I let my children go out to suffer? Why does my child go out on his knees? I paid him to go out and see the world, exchange friends and see the world. Will not let him get involved in this stinking employment environment. Let him find a job by belittling himself.
Hard-working young people don't earn as much as an aunt who dances square dance every day. What needs five people to do is not to recruit five people to do it, but to recruit only one person to do the work of five people and let the remaining four people lie at home. Finally, I want to say that I am not calm, but I really haven't forced myself to kneel down to find a job. I still have to work, but I don't have to go at once.
My parents have a considerable pension. All I have to do is do all the housework, accompany them to check and take care of them comfortably. The rest of the time is my own. You can travel once a year. In this life, take good care of your parents, read more books, take a walk, do something you like, and then finish yourself when you are old.