Essay on (Parents' handwriting on their children's life and learning)

Be a learning mother and children *** with progress

Simply love children, is very easy, even "hens will" (Gorky's words), but with the science of motherhood to educate children is not so easy. In all walks of life need to qualify for a certificate of competency, a certificate of competency, the only thing that concerns the child's life education of parents do not need a certificate of competency, and will never be laid off, said to be a parent's good fortune, but in fact, is the sadness of the family education. As the mother of an only child, no one teaches us how to be a qualified mother, not to mention the opportunity to personally summarize the success of the experience for reference, which makes modern mothers feel y the lack of experience and knowledge in educating children with scientific motherhood. In the face of all sorts of confusion, as a child full of instinctive love of modern mothers, especially need to strengthen the study, for self-improvement and learning, for the education of children and learning, in order to become a role model for children and learning, in order not to be abandoned by the times and learning, to do a timely grasp of the pulse of the times, and the child can be with the children *** with the progress of the study of the mother.

One, to teach by example, to learn to the child to see

Actions speak louder than words. This Tsinghua University motto also applies to mothers who spend a lot of time with their children. In home education, parents are in fact the mirror of the child, the parents of the words and behavior around all the time not become close to the child to observe, imitate and learn from the example.

The Lebanese poet Kahlil Gibran said: "If the parents are the bow, then the children are the arrows on the bow". Parents are depressed, the child must have no ambition; parents are positive, the child must be enterprising. A good bow has no arrows, and only from their good parents can children shoot to the heights of character and wisdom.

If the mother asked the child to cherish the time, study well, but in front of the TV or mahjong table to kill time, any you say that the child will be difficult to convince to sit at the desk; if the parents adhere to the study in their spare time, and constantly give themselves "charging", the child does not have to urge will have a strong desire to learn and motivation to learn. The child will have a strong desire to learn and motivation to learn without supervision. This is the influence of contextual education on children's subtle influence.

I was engaged in writing work, used to reading and writing at night, accompanied by a lonely lamp, or holding a book reading at night, or the figure of a book in my daughter's young heart planted the seed of willingness to learn. Subconsciously influenced, my daughter has been away from TV and obsessed with books since she was a child, and after she could write, she insisted on writing a diary or making up stories every night. Seeing that I would often receive bills, she also had the desire to submit articles, and actively asked me to show her how to write good articles and how to submit them. So far, my daughter, who is in fifth grade, has had several articles published in various newspapers and magazines, which has greatly stimulated her interest in writing.

Have heard a child I do not know whether to complain or to celebrate the words: "my homework textbook to mom to see she can not read, fool her really easy". "The fact is that the government is not going to be able to do anything about it, but it is going to be able to do something about it," he said.

These are the first time I've ever seen a woman in the world who has been in a position to do something like this. Although the family does not have a podium, blackboard, but a school that never takes a vacation; although the mother does not have notes, but the child is the shadow of the teacher; with a learning family, in order to create a mutual concern for the child, *** with the participation of each other to share, and positive dialogue learning atmosphere; with a learning mother in order to set up a learning confidence for the child, self-reliance, self-reliance, self-reliance and self-discipline role model.

Second, sit down on an equal footing with the child's classmates

No equal parent-child relationship, it is difficult to create a relaxed and harmonious learning family; there is no squatting to communicate with the child's mother as an equal, it is difficult to get the child's respect and trust. If the mother can become with the child *** with the study of classmates, *** with the progress of friends, that is her greatest success.

Frequently heard a parent hate iron said: "Now to provide children with learning, living conditions, how good ah, but how they are not interested in learning it?" In fact, when you think about it, the children's reading environment is not ideal. When we were young, life is monotonous, buried in reading is a pleasure, and now the children are faced with television, computer games, the network world, color screens, text messages and other heavy temptations, to be quiet to read and study, the need to pay many times more than our time of self-control; children in the past at home there are also peers to catch up with you, and now the children are not competing in the home of the competition partners will have no competitive power. At this time, it is even more necessary for mothers to squat down to be their children's companions and classmates, and children to play together, learn together, grow together, *** with progress.

Buddy with the child, and not only refers to learning the knowledge of the books. The American educator Dewey believed that "education is life", in turn, I think "life is education". In the child's clothing, food, housing, transportation, play and study in all aspects of the content and timing of learning and education at any time and any place. In daily life, the right to choose to the child, will develop the child's democratic, equal attitude and self-selection, self-responsibility; the use of holidays to take the child to travel thousands of miles with the road, it will be in the training of the will at the same time have a better read a million books of knowledge; and the child to study with the table, *** with the discussion of the problem, the child will gradually away from all sorts of undesirable temptations, will be interested in transferring to the books; with the child *** **To participate in a variety of social welfare activities, the child in the mother's personal inspiration will gradually grow into a perfect character of the person ......

I am a person with a wide range of hobbies, all the good new things are eager to try, all the beneficial activities are actively participate in. After having a child, I am even more excited to learn and live, and the success and joy I get from this has y infected my young daughter. She also loves all the good things that life has given her, and she has been able to experience the joy of success in them. Since the age of three, my daughter began practicing dance and has never stopped; since the age of four, my daughter began to learn the piano and enjoys herself every day; at the age of five, my daughter was awarded the title of municipal "King of Stories"; at the age of seven, my daughter's first work was published; at the age of eight, my daughter went to Beijing to participate in the National Children's Dance Performance; at the age of ten, my daughter won the "Little Moderator Competition" in the city. The first prize in the city's "Little Host Competition"; usually, in the school organization of the three good students competition, poetry recitation, singing contest, sports, etc., her daughter won honors and certificates of appreciation are countless.

At the end of each semester, my daughter and I would share a table to summarize our respective achievements and shortcomings. At that moment, my child and I were close friends and classmates, and that was the moment I was most happy and satisfied.

Three, cultural feedback from the child to learn

Parents in the education of children at the same time, in fact, can also be from the child to learn a lot of books can not be learned.

With the advancement of mankind from industrial civilization to information civilization, there is an endless stream of new things appearing every day. With children's active thinking, broad vision, sensitive awareness and ability to adapt to acceptance, they have far surpassed their parents in the acquisition of knowledge related to the latest trends in society, and parents are no longer the authority of knowledge. However, due to the influence of traditional thinking, many parents are accustomed to "show strength" to their children, put on a dignified face, in order to establish authority, to obtain the child's respect. Do not know, parents timely "show weakness" will be better to stimulate the child's confidence and interest in learning. Therefore, parents should not only share the experience of learning with their children, but also learn from their children's strengths and grow with them.

Daughter's piano playing, every piece of music is faster than I practiced; daughter read English than I pronounce accurate; daughter writing than I imaginative; daughter dance better than me; daughter Mandarin than I speak standard; daughter learn geometry when the sense of three-dimensionality is stronger than I am; daughter encountered a bad thing is easy to think about, daughter is more tolerant of other people than me ... ... ...There are many things in my daughter that are worthy of my humble advice. Every time I ask for advice, it is a great encouragement to my daughter, and it reinforces her strengths. After discovering the beauty of the trick of "asking children for advice", I often intentionally "pretend not to know what I know" and ask my daughter for advice at any time, so that she will try to do better in order to "teach her mom". I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that.

Children are growing up, and parents can't stand still. Learning from your child should be the first step in becoming a learning mother. Parents only bend down to learn from their children, in order to cross the "generation gap", will go to the world of the child's mind, in order to become a child's friend, in order to make progress with the child ***, together with the growth.

The birth of my daughter has given me a chance to learn, grow, and enrich my life as a mother, giving me a new perspective, understanding, and a sense of responsibility to look at the world of life. First of all, my words and deeds first affect my daughter, then my daughter's words and deeds and then affect me, we are so interactive and complementary, learning from each other, *** with progress. (Author: Anhui University of Science and Technology Party Committee Propaganda Department Cui Qin)