This situation sometimes makes young couples very tired, especially young couples who have just been married for a long time.
For them, they are used to coming and going freely and living according to the lifestyle of two people. This marriage, a lot of constraints, a lot of etiquette between elders, and all kinds of things make them feel overwhelmed.
Therefore, as parents, we should know how to share such pressure for our children, and don't embarrass them by their own age.
As parents, they must all love their children and want to give them all good things. But sometimes, it may not be the right way, which often brings trouble to children.
Therefore, after children get married, they should be parents like this.
When you marry your daughter, you should send her out with happiness and blessings. Don't be hostile and feel that the baby you have raised for so many years has been taken away by other men, thus embarrassing others.
Don't be too hard on your future son-in-law. Let him buy a famous car, buy a big house, and even charge exorbitant prices. Let him use the money to build your daughter's marriage.
You know, you should marry your daughter, not sell her. Besides, the person who is in conflict with you in front of you is the one your daughter loves deeply and the one your daughter wants to marry. As parents, getting in the way is likely to ruin the happiness of my daughter's life.
Moreover, it is really difficult for you to insist that the other party meet these requirements when the man has no economic conditions. Even if that man's selling iron meets your requirements, it will be your daughter who will accompany him to bear hardships and pay off debts in the future.
Therefore, as parents, after a daughter gets married, don't embarrass her son-in-law, and don't interfere in the affairs between her daughter and son-in-law.
For a married son, as a parent, it is more important to know how to quit at the right time, not to interfere in his son's married life, and not to always tell his son's daughter-in-law what to do.
They have their own small families and many things need to be solved by themselves. If the elders interfere too much, it will make children feel bound and oppressed.
So as parents, enjoy your old age and be safe. Don't wear a worrying hat all day. Young people have young people's ideas and should know how to respect them.
Generally speaking, after marriage, parents should try not to interfere in their lives, whether they are daughters or sons.
After all, children grow up, get married and get married, and many things have their own opinions. Unlike when I was a child, everything needed your parents to come forward.
Now, they can be independent, meet their loved ones and make up their minds to build a new family. As parents, we should know how to let go, give them back the decision-making power and let them live the life they want.
As for you, you should have a rest, enjoy your children and grandchildren, be an elder in peace, wait for your children to be filial, and leave the rest alone.
The children have grown up. Let them make their own decisions after marriage. After all, they have their own family and a new beginning.
As parents, it is understandable to sympathize with children, but there are many ways to sympathize with children. You don't have to interfere in their children's lives. Making decisions for them is considered distressing.
Besides, for children, what they want is definitely a free life. I was always under the control of my parents before I got married, and I must want to get rid of my parents' bondage after I get married.
Therefore, as parents, we should give our children the opportunity to exercise, give them the right to make their own decisions, and let them choose their own happy life and live their own lives.
Young people have young people's ideas As elders, we should know how to respect and support young people's ideas and let them do, fight and rush.
So young people will naturally live with you with respect and love; In this way, the big family and the small family can live in harmony and everything goes well.