The times are changing fast, information is flying all over the place, countless desires ebb and flow in the bottom of the heart, you want everything, but you can't get anything.
Because, all the good things in the world, you need to be able to deserve them only.
Sometimes life is very simple, but with what you have, to get what you want.
The really hard part is that you don't have it.
All of our anxiety is because: the heart is not willing, the power is not enough.
Wang Xiaobo said that all human suffering is essentially anger at their own inability.
The most difficult thing in the world is to be able to do it.
You want to be a big star, but do you have beautiful skin, great acting skills, a background, or can you be lucky enough?
You want to be a big boss, but can you suffer? Can you see opportunities? Can you gather talent? Can you have the heart and vigor?
Fame and fortune move the heart, glitter and shine, gold, who do not like it, but they have what cause will belong to you?
Don't grudge yourself a low origin, just listed on the bottom of the sea fish boss Zhang Yong is more than ninety dollars a month from the technical school graduates all the way to tens of billions of dollars of listed companies, he used 24 years of hard work to do, you say you can, you go to the bottom of the sea fish to do a year to try as a waiter, a day of hard work for more than ten hours, not anyone can stay down.
Smaller than Zhang Yong, but earlier than the listing of Zhang Yong's company, Liu Qiangdong is also from a low background, when he was a teenager, he even saw the electric light are excited, and then ate, lived and slept in the office, one day and one night, slowly simmering out of the business empire of Jingdong.
So, life has its ups and downs, don't look at people now is a high light or trouble, they have proved their "can do".
One more thing, look at things from a long-term, holistic point of view, Liu Qiangdong's trip to the United States, Jingdong and rumors of Liu Qiangdong's younger brother of the incident is destined to enter the business history of the textbook, and so on a few years, more than ten years in the past, the business school will again and again to review this classic case.
And we are in the development of this event, the evolution of the process, is just involved in consuming the hilarity of celebrities?
People who are inexplicably happy and excited when they see and hear about other people's problems never amount to much.
Other people's business and what you have to do, how you think, how to say, but also a little bit of power are not, is completely idle bullshit, blind worry.
What is the ability to count the gossip of others.
Neither can cure your poor, also can not manage your hungry.
Therefore, a lot of things on the Internet, just need to skim the surface to understand a good, into which chirping, is very not worth it.
The road is exhausting.
With that time and energy, it's better to think about how to solve your problems and troubles.
After all, the only thing we can manage and do well in this world is to sculpt ourselves with time and experience.
Don't live in a muddle, if you can't think straight, starve yourself for three days and your mind will be clear.
Making money is the most important thing.
All the unhappiness, in the final analysis, is because you have more than enough heart, and most of the power, powerlessness and more is caused by your balance is insufficient.
The heart is not enough, the power is not enough. It's pain, it's punishment, and it's a spur, depending on how you look at it and what you do.
It's all your choice whether to rise up from this, or to be depressed and degraded.
Don't lie to yourself about going with the flow, the real flow is to do all the hard work after the calm, not to deceive yourself and others to shirk.
And, some things are really not a matter of doing or not doing, but a matter of wanting to do or not wanting to do.
If you don't want to, you will naturally find a reason not to do it, which is why Zeng Guofan said, "The world's ancient and modern mediocrity, all to an inert word to defeat; the world's ancient and modern talent, all to an arrogant word to defeat.
And said,
"Hundreds of ills, all born from laziness. The first is that the first time I saw the movie, the second time I saw the movie, the third time I saw the movie, the third time I saw the movie, the third time I saw the movie, the third time I saw the movie. One is slow, and the other is slack."
All your reasons are just lazy.
In fact, you want the best, you have to bear the most painful, you want to enjoy the scenery of 8000 meters peak, naturally, you must endure the pain of thin air there.
Where are the shortcuts in life?
Just as you can not suddenly jump from the foot of the mountain to the top of the mountain, you can never be from what do not understand, what will not be the first brother of the community suddenly became a calm and calm old man.
All the way to the willow, all the way to stumble over.
In the comic strip "Giant's Apple", Chaimi said, "At first it was just a larger red flower, then a strange bee flew in, and then it was just a different fruit, and no one knew it would turn out like this. Isn't that how all the horrors of the world happen slowly?"
Man grows up slowly, and then suddenly grows old, because he realizes that the fruit he bears is too ugly, or simply just doesn't bear fruit.
Not every tree or flower has the ability or opportunity to bear fruit, and the same is true of man.
The first thing I've noticed is that I'm not a big fan of the idea, but I'm a big fan of the idea that I'm not a big fan of the idea, and I'm not a big fan of the idea that I'm not a big fan of the idea.
"All the good things we accomplish, none of them can be done quickly - because they are all too difficult, too complicated.
So cautioned Akio Morita.
In the materialistic world, our biggest problem is that we are too anxious, too eager to get things done overnight, too eager to get things done, too eager to get things done, so much so that the time of anxiety is willing to be greater than the time of our thinking and efforts.
There's a summer between spring and fall, and it's so simple that so many people don't get it, or they think they can work miracles with their ingenuity.
But they forget that miracles are often synonymous with being able to work hard.
Life is a constant battle, not to see who laughs first, but to see who laughs last.
In my opinion, it is important to not become a person who "has a heart that is not willing to do anything", and to not let yourself fall into a situation where you "have a heart that is not strong enough", and you can't do anything about it.
Then you must exercise your three abilities:
One is self-discipline.
A person who can't manage his time and emotions well can't be expected to accomplish much.
Life is a period of time, where you plant melons and beans, where you spend your time and what you get. If even the most essential time is carried around by outside emotions and distractions, you can't even control yourself, and what can you do?
The second is self-confidence.
Self-discipline must have self-confidence, because the most powerful ability of people is to overcome their own weaknesses, not to be defeated by temptation.
People with self-confidence, will be born to build a career, the courage of the courage of the people, there is a vast ocean, the hegemony of the people.
Third, self-improvement.
Self-discipline, self-confidence is bound to continue to grow themselves, so that they become better and stronger.
There is no light outside, then emit light yourself.
Such self-improvement, self-burning people can influence, lead others to challenge the difficulties, trek through the mountains, through trials and tribulations, and ultimately win.
For example, if you start a business and open a company, you can imagine that if you can't even manage yourself well, how can you possibly manage dozens, hundreds, or tens of thousands of people?
The fear and trepidation, such as walking on thin ice, the greater the ability, the greater the responsibility, Jack Ma, Zhang Yong, such a person behind the burden of a group of people's future destiny, how can only the scenery is infinite?
Doing business is so, do other things is so, your ability, your talent, only to match your ambition.
The world is to see the results, ambitious to do is ambitious, not to do is delusional.
A lifetime, some people live into a myth, some people live into a joke, some people live into the face, some people live into the son, success or failure, not only is the situation, but also the choice of each person.
In his introduction to The Sheltering Sky, Urs Wolf says,
"Our retreating resistance is one of the most compelling dramas on the stage of our time."
That's all.