32 laid-off, transferred to several small companies, 35 can not enter the big factory, middle-aged men are old and young, and the consumption platform thinks that men are not as good as dogs. Middle-aged man, do you still have dignity?
Many men always feel that even if the family income drops, they have to rely on themselves to carry it, and the living standard at home cannot drop. The biggest sorrow of middle-aged men is that their desire for support far exceeds their ability.
This is the root of the midlife crisis.
I used to be a young boy.
When I was a teenager, I used to be a teenager with red lips and white teeth, and my eyebrows and eyes were dancing.
But the good times are over.
Now he is a middle-aged man with a sad face and a sad brow.
Especially because of poverty, eating more carbohydrates, because of laziness, less exercise, and no diligence.
Have no dignity at all.
As a man, I have struggled all my life for the pride of my parents, the face of my wife and the happiness of my children.
For himself, men don't pay so much attention to eating and drinking Lazarus, so it's better to sit in a food stall, drink some wine, have a barbecue and talk about state affairs. It may take hours to play games, drink and smoke.
Zhang Ailing said: "After middle age, people often feel lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who depend on him, but there is no one to rely on."
(3) Middle-aged men and women are different.
Have you ever found that both husband and wife are middle-aged,
Men are getting more and more silent,
Women are getting bolder?
Men have lost their confidence and pride when they were young.
Women have lost their gentleness and shyness when they were young.
Men began to like to stay in the car and listen to music quietly after parking.
Women began to like food, fitness, yoga, flower arrangement, paper cutting,
Men like to fish alone,
Women like many people's square dances.
Men talk less and less in silence,
Women become more eloquent in social interaction. ...
(4) Middle age is a process of being hammered slowly.
Wang Xiaobo said: Life is a process of being hammered slowly. People grow old day by day, hope disappears day by day, and finally become like a hammered cow.
When I first read this language in high school, I felt that my life would never be like this. Now I finally understand that I must not be the lucky one who can escape those hammers.
No one is born silent, and teenagers don't know the taste of sadness, so they say they are worried about adding new words.
Boys are very expressive and willing to write poems, novels and even songs for their sweetheart. They denounce injustice, sympathize with the bottom, encourage writing and speak freely.
Their hearts are full of ambition and their eyes are full of tears. They don't know yet that the top of the pyramid is destined to be narrow, and fate doesn't allow all teenagers' dreams to come true.
Time erodes, years polish, the fire in the heart is no longer hot, and the light in the eyes is no longer clear.
Middle-aged men know the taste of sadness, but they know it is a cool autumn. A story without strength is pale, and people will only respect rights and money.
(5) Middle-aged people should give up their illusions.
Middle-aged men mean learning, giving up fantasy, giving up hope, giving up the sacredness of faith and giving up the pursuit of purity. Learn to face reality, face life, face your naked desires, face the relentless blow of life, face the despair of life, be forced to compromise, be forced to be tactful, be forced to smile at everyone, be forced to leave your godlike dignity behind life, hit your left face, and then send your right face with a smile. I still wonder where I can go in the future.
The sadness of ordinary middle-aged men is that their stomachs are greasy and their urine is brittle, but they still want to ride a whip around the world, see the most beautiful scenery and pick up the most beautiful girls. What they can't do when they are young can be achieved when they are old? How can so many people miss the past? Going home and mopping the floor honestly can also give a smile to his wife and children. Stop it!