Who loves to say what to say.
Everyone has their own life and live. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty!
As the saying goes - which one does not say anything after, which one is not said before?
If it is at work, we have to surface commitment, then also pay attention to do the same flow and not dirty it; since the retirement, it is not necessary to pay attention to those who blindly worry about the people.
You ask why there are always people talking about it, that is because they are salt pickled radish -
Idle!
First of all, let's talk about a real-life story about being forced to go to the mahjong table for fear of being criticized.
Ms. Ming was the director of the sewing workshop, retired a few acquaintances called her to play mahjong, she politely declined. So the cynicism came, said she "do not fit in", "retired everyone is a common people, but also set up what the leadership of the frame?"
Ms. Ming can not hear these gossip, reluctantly on the mahjong table.
To play mahjong with color, once, she lost six hundred dollars, a few days of heartache, "to buy food to save a few cents, to haggle with the vegetable vendors for half a day, six hundred dollars have to talk about how many times the price to earn back?"
She proposed to play a little smaller, win or lose no more than a hundred dollars a day, the poker players said she was "stingy", "the more money people are more stingy."
The evening mahjong too long, really sleepy, she proposed to rest early. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and the company's goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and the company's goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The first time I saw this, I was able to see the whole thing, and I was able to see the whole thing, and I was able to see the whole thing, and I was able to see the whole thing.
A few tossed down, she lost interest in playing mahjong, and felt that this game hurt money, hurt the body, hurt feelings, she was determined, regardless of what others say, never play mahjong again.
At the beginning, Ms. Ming was afraid of others to say three, only to go along with others to play mahjong, thinking that this can block the mouth of others. The first time I saw this was when I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley, and I was a student at the University of California, Berkeley. Just as the old saying goes, "A pig's mouth can be blocked, but a person's mouth can't be blocked." The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty!
So, this friend, you don't like to play mahjong and square dance, then don't play not to dance, you want to stay at home alone, stay at home alone to live the life you want. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to do that, but I'm sure you're going to be able to do it," he said.
Retired, my life I make the decision, "walk their own way, let others say go!"
What the hell!
They are the first to be able to do so, and they are the first to be able to do so, and they are the first to be able to do so.
First of all, according to their own hobbies, like to play, do not like to not play, not because others like, they are exempt from the difficult to participate in it.
Secondly, we must live out the personality to have a sense of the big picture in the post, not by their own character, often have to only agree with the views of others, that is the basic quality of being a human being and the need for work.
Once again, do not because others say three or four around their own, although the person who said you or yourself, before you may be a character, but now is just an ordinary retired old man, do not care about those who gossip, do not be atmospheric, others say that you good and bad can not affect your image and life.
In short, once you have chosen your own path in your old age, you have to be determined, by others to say it.
Who is so boring? Just mind your own business, don't mind other people's business. You also do not pay attention to what others say, live a good life, do a good job on their own right, more exercise exercise, to ensure good health.
People's aspirations for a better life is the strongest voice of our time, but also the people's choice and pursuit, but there are always gaps and contradictions, some people are keen to participate in a variety of cultural and recreational activities, one day busy dancing and singing playing mahjong, the day's life arrangements for the tension, but also some people like to be quiet, do not want to participate in the dancing and singing and playing mahjong and playing poker and so on, but reading and writing to watch TV, or Like hiking and walking around the park, especially some of the retired old people, each with different hobbies, the meaning of life is different, some people do not like collective activities, but like personal activities, what is wrong? Can not say who is right and who is wrong, can only say that the character is different, different behavioral habits, can not say anything, can not have anything to do with each other, blame each other, criticize each other. Can only make a point, this is a kind of freedom, is a very important thing only, retired, each well, to their own things they do what they like, enjoy their old age, happy and nourishing, for the purpose of health and safety, keep a smile to protect themselves, so that the rhythm of life life is more meaningful ah! Sending landscape, love of the motherland, love of learning, full of love, the mission is glorious, not to be ashamed of Shaohua, not to be ashamed of the people, the successful realization of the Chinese dream of my dream, so that life is not endless, unlimited joy, optimism and positivity, is the king of the road ah
That is the people of your concern, afraid that you are at home, lonely it.
In fact, people really need to go out and have as such, so that life is called meaningful.
The first thing you need to do is to get out of the house and get out of the house. If the second youth is not adjusted just right, people will soon become old. These are all retired big sister? Look at their colorful lives.
The carrot and the cabbage each have their own favorites! Whoever likes to do something can do something! People can't live in other people's comments, and can't be swayed by other people's remarks, or else they will be very tired and mess up their mood. Since the retirement, it must be more than sixty years of age, has long been indifferent to everything, calm and relaxed. Rubbing hemp, dancing, flowers, birds, boxing, walking, can be ah. Some people always like to take their own good and bad, stand in their own point of view to judge others, think they like others must also like, how can that be? After retirement life is still long, we will certainly find like-minded people to play together, three views do not fit together, or will be out of the unpleasant.
People live a life that is inevitable to be talked about. A lot of people can not see others than their own good, jealousy is particularly strong, this is the greatest weakness of human nature, so that you do a good job there will be people say that you are not good, let others say go, go their own way, life is short, cherish every day, tomorrow and the accident do not know which one first, so be free, how to be happy how to live, since the retired, the good life has just begun.
While I am not yet at the age of retirement, it is foreseeable that after my retirement, I do not like to play mahjong and do not know how to dance in the square.
Will this really be someone to say something ? We do not hurt the sky, and will not take up the interests of the public ****, and what is their position, what is the right to say to others? Although I am very angry, but the saying that people are afraid of what they say is still heard. What can we do? I can only look down on myself.
People live a life, who is behind no one to say, and how many people behind not to say people it!
Similarly, my mother-in-law also encountered, although things are not the same, but the situation is the same. My mother-in-law is also six or seven, but she has been a hard worker all her life, can not be idle, my husband's two brothers, each of us individual children with their own. In her hometown, she grows vegetables and sells them at the market every day. Most of the older people in the village sit on the side of the road every day and talk to each other. My mother-in-law never joined them. But she was often talked about behind her back. Even in front of us, they dared to say that your mother was really capable and how much money she must have earned today. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to get out of this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to get out of it.
Luckily, we have a good relationship and we don't need to be provoked by them. We also said privately, next time we must dislike back, but some of them are called aunts and mothers, and it is not good to pull the face open tear. These people's ill will, we all know in our hearts.
After a long time, we also figured out that this is the so-called sour grapes effect. My mother-in-law although sixty or seventy, but the body is strong, feel than I have strength. They are always talking behind their backs, either with leg problems or with diabetes, they can't walk well, they can only sit there and move their mouths.
The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new computer, and you'll be able to do that.
In fact, you can also learn from the Yellow Medicine Master's open-mindedness, when someone misunderstands and wronged him, he said: "You come to kill me!
See I don't care!
People eat grains and cereals, what kind of people are there. People who like to talk about others should be people of low quality, and no one is qualified to ask others to like the same habits as themselves. As long as your behavior does not affect others, he would like to say what can be said as he said, or appropriate back to him, told him to consciously control his mouth.