When it comes to parenthood, everything is fine and dandy, from youthful ignorance to family burdens after giving birth and raising children, earning money to support the family, trying to deal with the children's education, and then assisting the children to set up a family, establish a career and bring in babies, which seems to be a constant source of concern and exhaustion, and the newest approach to old age is provoking widespread concern, which is no longer dietary, but rather is intended to tighten the time for leisure and recreation for the elderly, said Mr. Wang. They should have nothing in their twilight years, uncle wang this year in fact, more than years old, his twilight years imagined old age is to play cards with old friends, tour around to tone up the body and mind, square dancing to strengthen the body and work too much, busy can not be accomplished, I thought that after the retirement to be able to put it on the agenda one by one, but now everything violates my wishes, turned into a dream, uncle wang and his wife were also forced to live apart for a long time The two men have two sons, and they have met each other in a very difficult way.
Born two grandchildren, the youngest son gave birth to a grandson, often, he overflows with children and grandchildren, and was the envy of the people, but as long as the two kinds of disasters, this old man most understand, the two sons because of the work of the two sons settled in different cities, in the world rarely gathered together, life accepts the pressure of the grandiose, in order to share the children's burdens, the two old people can only with the family's grandchildren to assist! The eldest son's family lived for eleven years, the boy grew up, when he went to elementary school, he gradually understood that he didn't need to go to and from school to pick up the old man, but Uncle Wang's new task came again, the youngest son, Dabao was brought to the kindergarten by his wife, until he was three years old, at this time, his second was pregnant and waiting for the birth of the baby, his wife was too busy, Uncle Wang was ready to go to the youngest son's home to ask for assistance to fight for both sons Stay at home, in this year, he and his grandson together to assist him, informed netizens are no longer quiet, and asked me online by these two families for eleven years.
Chinese parents like Uncle Wang, his whole life seems to be coiled around his children, dispose of unfinished business, and have inexhaustible, inexhaustible heart, on the contrary, those wise and self-contained old people, regardless of their children and grandchildren, are seeking their own fun, and lazy to take care of their grandchildren, who are often from behind the back of the reproach of indifferent, the elderly in the twilight of the bites It was once common, the reason for this is nothing but the grandchildren complex of the elderly, the reasoning of the generational relationship is correct, the elderly usually think that their children and grandchildren are a source of happiness, even if they are tired and exhausted, they will have fun, in addition, it reduces the trouble of not being able to get rid of a career that is on the rise, it is easier and easier to be with one's own grandchildren, and to take on the burden of babies themselves, thinking about the various elements that The elderly have become a major force in bringing up children.
Ordinary, the elderly with babies is very common, young people focus on outside careers, they accept the grand pressure, they will only invent better living conditions, which is effective, to deal with a variety of unknown risks, deal with a variety of complex relationships, and taste the warmth and cold of the world, but on the old people who will bring babies home, it is not easy, the world without experience Children often form a variety of risky situations, pay attention to can not be separated for a while, it not only consumes brawn, but also consumes a great physical pressure, the young people must know how to be grateful, do not scold the elderly with children in the wrong way, to understand the difficulties of the elderly, tolerant understanding of the oldest old people is the greatest respect, the elderly are assisting babies every day, their physical and mental constraints, young parents in their free time When the time will try to bring their own children, and give them a few days off, so they have time to do what they like to do, enjoy the leisure time of the twilight years.