I don't think it's wrong at all to say that people are getting old after 70 years. Although the medical level is much higher than before, there will still be a lot of elderly friends slowly leaving you one by one at such an age. At that time you will feel the preciousness of life and feel the horror of death, and with fewer and fewer friends, you feel more and more lonely. In the end, you don't even have someone to talk to, making you feel that living has lost its meaning. So how to get rid of this social bottleneck caused by old age, I suggest you take the following approaches:
To get rid of this older and lonelier situation, you have to continue to expand their social surface, to the old people to go to more places. The more people there are, the easier it is to meet new people. I suggest that you go to the park, especially in the morning from five to six, six to seven in the evening, this time, the park in the old people in particular, there are pumping ga, there are writing, there are watching the children and square dancing, of course, playing chess is also not in the minority. It can be said that the square is a piece of land for the elderly, in the square elderly can show their talent. There are vulgar, there are elegant, there are introverted, there are eloquent, can be said that all kinds of elderly, are gathered in this land to give them joy.
You can try to join them, I believe that slowly you have a *** with the topic, because they and you face the same embarrassment, that is, the older the lonelier, the less friends, as long as you take the initiative a little bit, most likely you will become a friend without words. If you have *** with the same hobby, such as chess or writing, may also be able to become Zhong Ziqi and Yu Bo Ya like soulmates, the achievement of another section of the story of the mountains and rivers. If you do people usually more high-profile, or more elegant, you also need to properly lower their own stature, after all, there is a friend, even if he did not imagine so good, not your impression of the hope of making friends with the type, but there is a friend to care about you, always better than alone on a person. Loneliness is what people are most afraid of, and I think it's worth the sacrifice to stop being alone.
Secondly, I think the elderly should develop their own hobbies. I have seen a lot of news about the elderly playing games on the Internet, and I personally agree with this behavior of the elderly. Especially play some of the more popular games, such as the hero alliance, as long as not overly addicted, play him a handful of two hundred every day, not only can prevent the emergence of Alzheimer's disease, but also in the game to see a variety of people, to experience and teammates together to work hard to get the thrill of victory. I believe that in the middle of the game, you will not feel like you are alone, as part of that team, I believe that moment, you are not alone. Communicating with other people in the game is actually a kind of socialization, and maybe you can find your own forgotten friends in the game.
Lastly, I think older people need to keep themselves socialized and always be optimistic. Don't get hung up on the death of one or two friends and live in sadness. That way you will find yourself getting lonelier and lonelier and in time you will also suffer from depression. For an elderly person to suffer from depression is certainly the most unfortunate news for his old age. Keep an optimistic mind, have an open heart, you will find yourself doing everything very well, make friends naturally.
These are my views on this issue, any comments you have are welcome to share.