We thought the children came to repay their kindness, but in fact most of them came for revenge.
When dealing with children, most parents will choose to use authority and force to suppress them, but this practice is often unsatisfactory, sometimes useful and sometimes useless. And the real master parents, with their children, can speak louder than silence.
When other people's children go slow, their parents will be more blunt, more shouting and more anxious than their own children. This father is just the opposite. He is not in a hurry, not shouting, not in a hurry. At least, his face is not in a hurry. He slowly held a big clock, stood quietly in front of his daughter Xiaoyu, watching her eating a mouthful of rice with a helpless expression on her face.
When he was heartbroken with anger, he had to pretend that he didn't care. He was crushed mentally by Ma Benteng. On the surface, he was slow, and you helped yourself. Onlookers think Shi San is going to suffer internal injuries, but they just look like I didn't say anything, I didn't rush, I just didn't get angry.
Daughter Xiaoyu not only eats slowly, but also does everything slowly.
Other children rushed out of school the first time after school, but his girl Xiaoyu was never in a hurry. Not only did she not crowd out with everyone, but she came last in the school. In dad's video, the little girl stands alone in the school square, thinking about important events in her life, while dad outside the school can only sit on the steps at the school gate and watch slowly.
Daughter is always too slow, and dad has his own way.
All the daughters packed their schoolbags and stood at the door with cups, waiting for their father. However, the father learned from his daughter's appearance, picked up the socks, shook them first, and then folded them. No matter how loudly his daughter complains, his father just keeps a straight face and looks like you are in a hurry to leave first.
I overcame my daughter's habit of being late in one fell swoop. It's really a master's trick, winning or losing instantly.
Do you find that blogger Shi San never worries? No matter whether his daughter is late for school, eats too slowly, or does manual labor, the old father will always wait helplessly, but without a word of urging and complaining, let alone a word of blame and reprimand. This is not the highest level of parenting. No matter what the child is, we accept it. Whether he is a snail or a turtle, we can only follow his body.
Everyone knows that we are always anxious when we do it, but it is easy to deliver in a hurry.
Ding Mao, a carpenter, is from Mao Mao and works in harmony. Carpenter-type parents always hope that their children can grow up in their own hands according to their own wishes when they treat their children. Everything has standards and scales, and products are carved from the same mold.
The gardener, with a pair of scissors, will follow suit. When pruning flowers and plants, he will modify them according to their original shapes, just like orchids, and each plant is different.
Carpenter parents prefer to change their children, gardener parents prefer to respect nature.
Blogger Shi San explains what gardener parents are. Give children enough respect and full development.
Xiaoyu is always slow to go to school and leave school. He didn't complain, just waited a little longer. Xiaoyu likes to do manual work, and she is slow. She sat next to the child and watched her focus on the tortoise. You can see other children frolicking, and Xiaoyu is lying on the ground reading alone.
Children have her style and tonality, her temper and preferences. What parents can do is to respect and support, give her time and space, and let the children grow up freely.
Everyone knows that companionship is the longest confession, but how to have meaningful companionship is really a problem.
Xiaoyu practices Latin dance at home. In order to cooperate with her daughter's practice, dad borrowed grandma's professional dress for square dance and practiced with her daughter at home in short sleeves and skirts.
Although I can't keep up with my movements, my expression is not enthusiastic, and I even feel that I just made up a few words, but it can't hide my seriousness. The key point is that the daughter accidentally sent her father to the dance group, forcing many parents to ask the teacher in the group, does this child still need his father to perform?
Dad's companionship with Xiaoyu has never been lip service, let alone a condescending parent. This kind of companionship is a kind of personal practice. No matter whether he is good or not, the power of form and example will always be achieved.
Think about it. We always educate our children to play less mobile phones, read more books and do more exercise. But when children come home to see their parents, it will always be the mobile phone in their hands and Ge You lying on the sofa. How can we convince them of this gap between words and deeds?
Have you ever found that real parenting experts never talk about skills and principles, because their methods of educating children have been integrated into their words and deeds.
To sum up, master parents raise their children, and the experience is summarized as follows:
If you also encounter the problem of disciplining children, you may wish to watch the video of this master father and let it go in an instant.