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Besides us, some people, life is happy, happy, these people like to speak freely. There are also some people, the days are hard, and even some people live a little miserable, such people, often appear to be silent. Yes? Happy families are similar, unfortunate families are different? , do people, in fact, the same, every person has every person's suffering. And those who live a particularly hard life, but also appears to be lonely, for people in the world, they will often have words also do not say. Therefore, it has been said: ? When people are suffering, they have no words? , people who live a hard life, often have words but also do not say. I can't help but weep as I write this.
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First of all, people who have a hard time getting enough to eat often have something to say but don't say it.
There are some people around us who, in order to make a living, still struggle to stay on the edge of subsistence. Such people, although not many, but, whenever they appear in front of us, will still make us feel heartbroken. Yes, when we walk through those dilapidated old houses, when we walk through those roadside bridge holes, we can still see some people, because they have not yet been able to have three meals to eat and show helpless eyes. Such people, often do not talk much, in their world, perhaps, a lot of words are said in vain. The reason is that those who are struggling on the edge of hardship and suffering will not be able to understand the inner suffering of those who have not experienced it. Therefore, when we see these people who have difficulty in finding food and clothing, we have to be more sympathetic and try to give them as much help as we can.
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Secondly, people who are small in number often don't say anything even when they have something to say.
There are some people around us who, because of family problems, or because of problems in their own life situations, seem to be small-minded. These people, because life is tired, often in the face will show a look of sadness. Such people know? Do not enter the crowd if you are poor, and do not persuade people if you are soft-spoken. Therefore, in a crowded place, they will not get involved, and in a noisy place, they will not advise others. More often than not, they just stand silently on the side, and then, in the work of turning around, they are gone. Such people, even if they have a lot of words in their hearts, they will not speak out easily. Encountering such people, we must not look down on them, not to mention but they have to walk into the crowded place with great generosity, because ? Don't know my suffering, don't persuade me to be generous? , for them, perhaps, to them a slight smile, more can make them feel warm heart it.
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Thirdly, people with deep love wounds often don't say anything.
Everyone in their own life path, will meet their own love. However, not all love, will have a good process, not all love, can have a good result. Some love, in the originally smooth sailing time, but may encounter the parents of the rod, or other people's love, or even the other party mercilessly left. When we give our heart, but suffered these huge blows, how can we not be a huge emotional damage. Yes, when a person suffers these deep emotional wounds, we tend to become silent, become non-verbal, even if someone wants to communicate with us, we are? speechless, only tears first? Even if someone tries to communicate with us, we will be speechless, only tears will come first. So, for those who are y hurt, we must give these people some time and space, so that they slowly come out ah.
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Fourth, people struggling with adversity often do not say anything.
People in life, there will inevitably be times when they encounter adversity. A person has encountered difficulties, into the trough of life, this time, our network resources, our people, will encounter great difficulties. Yes, when we fall into the trough of life, struggling in adversity, when we look around, trying to find someone to help us when we found that those around the so-called? Friends and family? , but all of a sudden disappeared. When we struggled to get up alone, we finally realized: ? Relying on the mountain will fall, relying on people will run, only rely on themselves, is the most reliable? So, we face all the hardships of life, we learned to keep our mouths shut, we learned to ? There are words also do not say? Because we believe that some words,? said is also said in vain? , that is not as good as relying on our own efforts to slowly simmer, one day, we will get out of the trough of life.