When I saw my friend again and again praised the mother, it was the busiest double grab season in the countryside, she is in the ground to manipulate.
Yun, thirty-five-six years old, tall, round face. Her eyes are not very big, but they are very sharp. The ponytail brushes tied behind her head are fluttering around, revealing a flamboyant and lively personality. Two slender legs look very capable. She - a mother of three children, the eldest daughter is in the second year of junior high school, the second daughter is in the third grade of elementary school, the youngest son is only five years old in kindergarten. The three kids are thick-browed, handsome and pretty. The hair is lively and cute, beautiful and not too plain. People love cute little children. I not only think: this material is very rich, and the cost of childcare can not be underestimated in the era, they are even a child is not easy to raise, not to mention three children, which has to be how much patience, strength, courage superposition, to carry such a heavy load?
However, when talking to her, I realized that taking care of the three children going to school, eating and drinking, urging her eldest daughter to finish her homework on time, helping her youngest daughter to complete all kinds of learning tasks, driving her youngest son to kindergarten, and doing the laundry and cooking are just a small part of her life. More often than not, she has to take care of her mother-in-law, who is bedridden and cannot take care of herself. Cloud called her my mother-in-law. This life has lasted for twelve years. Farm work in the fields also awaited her. That day she said she wanted to go to the field to cut vegetable seeds, but it rained, so we went home with her. The room and the courtyard were neatly cleaned and tidied up. The old man was sitting in a wheelchair and greeted us with a smile when we entered the house. She was cooking pancakes and talking to me. The fields of the bunting had to be hoed, and the wheat was turning golden waves, and it looked like the busy season was about to begin. The school also asked her to lead the parents in singing and dancing to rehearse for the June 1 Children's Day performance. Isn't that a lot of work? Yes, my husband is working hard to make ends meet for the family. Children's "June 1" is a very important day, but also a very important activity, I have to try to support, not only to dress up the children beautiful, lively and lovely, generous atmosphere, but also to bring up the parents, the young did not have the opportunity to go on stage and not known to the best side of the show to everyone, and let my children know and see that their mother is not only the best, but also the best. I want my children to know and see that their mom is not just a woman who can only do laundry and cooking. She loves to sing and is the leader of the parent chorus and dance team. The photos she takes are beautifully dressed and stylish, a change from her usual plain clothes. Can sing and dance in the release of their own energy and stress, and then how much pressure, how busy and tired, when the children enter a group of swallows back to the nest like flying into the mother's embrace, called mom, everything has drifted into the Java State. She said, the child is the driving force of her life. In order to children, she has to work hard to support the family, try to create a cozy, because she knows that the family and all things prosper.
What kind of things attracted you into this family? When I asked her, she would have had better opportunities and choices before this. "He was nice, not bad looking, honest, and an introvert, which kept him from talking much. But he's also very good at joking around once he and I get acquainted, and it's the meaty kind. Although he hasn't studied much, he's honest with people, doesn't have a bad heart, is down-to-earth and willing to work hard." From the photos that my classmate took of their family, I saw that her husband was a very handsome young man. "I am the youngest in our family, and his father is an old Chinese doctor whose clinic is open in our village, not far from his house. His father's' medical skills were so good that everyone in the village was willing to go to him. His mother was a hard-working person known to everyone in the village, keeping the house clean and tidy. We were introduced to each other. The first time I went to his house, his mother, my future mother-in-law, was already paralyzed in bed due to high blood pressure. His father had high blood pressure and diabetes, and multiple ailments afflicted these two old men and the family." Faced with such a difficult dilemma. He was very unsure of himself. She said his husband said so.
I wonder why? She said, this may be the arrangement of fate. I didn't mind, didn't give up, and walked into the house without a second thought. His sister, at that time, was already married. Parents firmly opposed, do not agree with our marriage, but I was very insistent, parents are very helpless.
Walking into the home, I set out to clean up the home environment. You can imagine that the mistress of the family is bedridden, two men will make the home what it is like. Messy furniture has to be placed neatly wiped clean, the quilt on the bed sheets clean, clothes neatly organized. Pots and pans are cleaned and stored in an orderly fashion. In the yard, the debris is categorized and sorted out. The house looks like a home. Washing and cooking for her mother-in-law, scrubbing her body, carrying her feces and urine, massaging her body, turning her over, and pushing her wheelchair out into the sunshine are the tasks she must do every day. And then there was the farm work in the fields. Then three children were born one after another, which brought their family not only the joy that normal people can enjoy, but also the heavy pressure that normal people can't experience. When the pre-dawn light enveloped the village and everything was still asleep, she was already up, picking up her mother-in-law's soiled pants and clothes and bed sheets to wash them in the cool water by the river, no matter whether it was spring, summer or fall. When the sound of the village chickens crowing and dogs barking breaks through the quiet of the village, and the lights from the windows of all the houses light up the village, she has already hung up the clothes and made breakfast to take care of her mother-in-law to get up and freshen up for dinner, and to take care of the children to get dressed for dinner and to go to school. The first thing you need to do is to take care of the housework.
After doing all this then go to the field to do farm work. When the night falls, the last night song of the birds to send the tired day of the rural people to sleep, she is expected to tomorrow's things, accompanied by winking stars into the dreamland.
A sick father-in-law, although he could not do heavy work, but also for the mother-in-law as a companion, there is a care for each other, so that the days in the day after day of labor and haste.
"Happy families are similar, unfortunate families have their own misfortunes." The seriously ill father-in-law is hospitalized two or three times a year. Thus she was running around the home, hospital, school, fields, really divided and exhausted. In the end, the old doctor was tortured by the pain and stress of life and passed away! Leaving his bedridden partner and children and grandchildren. The burden on Yun's thin shoulders was even heavier. But she had no complaints, she said she chose the road must go on, even if it is difficult, bitter, tired, chose him, we have to accept everything, including his sick mother's hard life. My mother-in-law, a hard-working woman all her life, the blows of fate, the heavy blows of life, the pain of losing her old partner did not destroy her. "My mother-in-law is very strong and very hardworking, at the very least I don't have to lock the door when I go out. Even if she's in a wheelchair, she cleans the yard." Just this short sentence makes people respect this old man!
On summer evenings, she also pushed her mother-in-law out. While riding in the cool, while dancing with them in the square dance. In order to lonely mother-in-law also release the pressure in the heart. "Husband often quarrel with me do not allow to show up, in order to life trifles" "He said that since my mother was seriously ill, I thought this life is like this, can not find a daughter-in-law! Did not think you not only did not dislike me, but also married me, for me to give birth to such a lovely heartbreaking three sons and daughters. You treat my mom so well, better than you treat your own parents! Marrying you is a blessing in my life! I feel I'm sorry for you, since I had you and came to my house, I haven't stayed a night in my own mother's house, and every time I'm in a hurry." Every time after a quarrel her husband chanted like this. She was touched and heartbroken to hear it, and she said so. I think there is no poetic vow here, no warm romantic feelings before the flowers. This is the most real fireworks life, life fireworks!
Happily, their children grow up day by day. For her to share some of the household chores within her reach. See her eldest daughter to the grandmother to wash the feet of the meal, the youngest daughter for the grandmother to comb the hair and wash the face, five-year-old son to guard the grandmother side, a small fist for the grandmother pounding the sick legs. The smile on her face was as bright as a flower, and she was enjoying the happiness of an ordinary person. The whole family gathered around to eat, simple but delicious meal eaten deliciously, put in front of the cloud in front of the rice has not moved, she is feeding her mother-in-law to eat first. I think here, there is no poetic vow, no flowers before the romantic feelings, this is one of the most common but the most touching and warmest family picture.
The field, rapeseed growth is gratifying, spike big burst full has matured, got up early in the morning, harvesting is complete, the children together, each person a small bundle, to help me hold the rapeseed to the plastic sheeting, a small face flowed down the fine beads of sweat. The face is a happy smile, the youngest son picked up a wooden stick to hit the seeds, just like a little man's vigor! My daughters helped me open the bag to collect vegetables, I feel very pleased. She said. Yes, I think the children at this time must really understand and understand "who knows what is on the plate, every grain is bitter" and "sweat drops under the soil" taste and meaning. Knowing the hard work and difficulty of the mother. This is a picture of the most beautiful idyllic scenery on earth.
Twelve years, for a young girl from the flower girl to young daughter-in-law, from a single girl for a person's children, for a person's daughter-in-law, for a person's wife for a person's mother, this multiple identity conversion process, this day after day, year after year of perseverance and perseverance, this lost youthful years of payment is not very long and is by no means very short. How many twelve years can there be in life? The best time from the age of twenty! In this kind of perseverance, cloud, she brought to this family is the sun-like light - is warm and bright, is the dark night flashing in the dome of the stars - the star of hope, the star of the future. Children are the hope and future of the family, as well as the flowers and future builders of the country. A woman can hold up half the sky, the blue sky! How much more than half the sky does she hold up in this family? Filial piety star - rising in her hometown
- the honor of the most beautiful mother, is affirmation and praise, encouragement and appreciation, but also a kind of spur - continue to move forward! The impetus. More than that, it is a responsibility and bearing. Although we all know that the back of the honor is superhuman pay.
People are good, the sky is not deceived, but I hope that the good people, the original heart does not change, "old as we are old as people old" will continue to inherit here, and carry forward, in her hometown, in the whole county, and Longnan and even the Chinese land! May this family day better and better!
Note: This is a true story without any fiction and exaggeration, I write with a most sincere heart to dedicate to the good master and readers.
Note: This is a true story without any fiction or exaggeration.