In today's society, it is indeed not easy to find a good man, and many women are troubled by this. In the end, I had to shout out helplessly: out of ten men, seven are stupid, eight are stupid, nine are bad, and one of the "Five Poisons" accounts for them all. So, how to correctly understand these "five poisons"? The new interpretation of the so-called "five poisons" is "eating, drinking, whoring, gambling, and smoking." Moreover, the five names of "gods, immortals, guests, disciples, and ghosts" can be used to distinguish and classify them. If you have any doubts, let me explain in detail:
1. Eating
Eating is the first instinct. When a child is born, he will know how to breastfeed without being taught. It can be said to be completely subconscious. As we grow up, we all know the truth that "food is the most important thing for the people", but the most important thing is to eat. Eating is not to make yourself fat, but to eat in a nutritious, healthy and even interesting way. The appearance of eating must be elegant, the eating must be rhythmic and controlled, and you must be able to tell a lot of truths while eating. This is the only way to know how to eat. This kind of person can be called a "foodie". Understand what "frying, deep-frying, stir-frying, stir-frying, and boiling" means, what "delicacies from mountains and seas, birds and beasts" mean, what "fresh fruits and vegetables in season, and rare game" mean. For a banquet, all the dishes should not be served at once, but should be served one by one. The lady passing the dishes should walk gracefully and gracefully. The dishes should be salty first and then light. Even if you go out to eat noodles, you should try to eat as much as possible. Head noodle soup.” In order to reach this state, is it possible not to do ascetic practices? Only in this way, the status of "foodie" may be promoted to "gourmet".
Although eating ranks first among the five poisons, I think it is not poisonous!
2. Drink
Drinking means drinking. Children will want to drink something sweet, but most adult men actually like to drink something spicy. Because there are too many things and too much pressure, you need to release. If you really can't release, just numb yourself for a while. Injecting anesthetics is obviously not the best choice, and it is better to choose fine wine.
Wine is a good thing, red, white, and yellow, delicious and sweet, with all kinds of flavors. How can one word "spicy" describe it all? There are various titles for people who are good at drinking: Bacchus, Bacchus, Drunkard, Drunkard, and the lowest level is the alcoholic. Li Bai has hundreds of poems about drinking, and he can be called the god of wine. Those who can't get drunk according to their weight can be called wine wizards. Those who can't do without wine three times a day, and those who can't get into trouble even after drinking wine are the wine monsters. They rely on wine to numb them all day long. If you don't do your job properly and don't care about your family, you are an alcoholic.
As the saying goes: Drinking can make great things happen, but it can also make things worse. Being drunk can damage your soul, and being addicted to alcohol can damage your liver and spleen. Therefore, I believe that alcohol is both a tonic and a drug, and it can only be used in moderation.
3. Whoring
The word "whoring" is the most telling. All women have always gritted their teeth when their husbands went whoring to other women, but now, this situation has changed subtly. As prostitutes, they naturally like men who go whoring, because these stupid men are their food, clothing, parents, and their gods. Even though they would secretly curse afterwards: Bah! Dressed beast! But he won't offend them. So they respectfully call these men "guests", and ordinary people also call such people "clients."
As a woman from a good family, would she like a man who is a prostitute? It feels unlikely. But there are exceptions. When facing prostitutes, men rarely get emotional, but only regard it as a one-time transaction, that is, the sale of money and body. Whether it is the second wife or the third wife, the man pays not only money, but also their feelings. This situation is undoubtedly a great threat to the women in the family. Therefore, many wives acquiesce to men's so-called "playing for the occasion". As long as they don't give love, they will never tolerate having a mistress with colorful flags flying outside. Of course, it can't be said to be a kind of liking, but it can be said to be a kind of helplessness.
In today's society, pornography is almost rampant. There is a strange theory that because there are more prostitutes and clients, there are fewer rape cases. It seems to be good for the stability of society. Regarding this strange theory , I really dare not agree with it. As for how many toxins prostitutes bring to society as a whole, experts have to evaluate it.
4. Gambling
Gambling, the average wife can tolerate this behavior of her husband to some extent. Although the name is not good, gambler, gambler, gambler, as long as the man still If they have a shred of sense and do not bet their wives on the gambling table, but leave their wives behind, women will naturally happily put their hands on men's arms and enter and exit the numerous chess and card rooms and mahjong parlors together. In the Shanghai Opera, there is a story about "Lu Yachen loses a bet and sells his wife". In the end, the prodigal son turned around and his mother-in-law forgave him.
If a man does not gamble in his life, he will lose a lot of charm. If his life is always stable, it will be even more boring. Nowadays, men's gambling equipment has been made public, and they have begun to bet on numbers, horses, and games (such as football lottery). Maybe one day, the God of Luck will suddenly come, and the little loser who has no place to stand will suddenly become a millionaire. Then the look in the woman's eyes when looking at him, besides soft waves, is tenderness. ?
What’s more, stock trading is also gambling. The government openly opens the stock market and allows the opening of chess and card rooms and mahjong parlors. Gambling is already open. Can this be considered “poison”? Today's women, in addition to dancing in their spare time, most of them also learn to play mahjong. People are obsessed with the mahjong table, and there are fewer people gathering to petition and "make trouble". Such "poison" is actually beneficial.
5. Smoking
The fifth of the five poisons is smoking. Some people used to regard drug abuse as one of the five poisons. I still think it is appropriate to regard smoking as one of the "five poisons" that men often have. The reason why drug abuse is not included in the five poisons is because it is not common.
Many women don’t care whether men smoke. In women’s eyes, if a man smokes, of course his posture should be as elegant as possible and the cigarettes he smokes should be as high-end as possible, then there will be no problem. From a certain perspective, "smokers are more masculine" is the inner monologue of many women. Didn't someone create a song "Taste" for this purpose, "I miss your kiss, the faint smell of tobacco on my fingers, the taste of being loved in my memory." In fact, smoking is not just for men. Is it difficult to say that women don't like it? ?
In today's society, women have also begun to follow the fashion and learn to smoke. They hold thin cigars between their jade fingers. Women also get a sense of satisfaction behind the smoke. Not so much because of the smoke itself, but because of the indescribable thing that smoke represents. In the past, people called people who smoked heavy cigarettes "smokers", but now they call people who smoke "smokers". It is these tens of millions of smokers who have created huge tax profits for the country. Isn’t the biggest tax creation in our country the cigarette tax and alcohol tax?
A man must like something. Which of the so-called "five poisons" do you have? Do you like being a "guest"? Or are you willing to be a "ghost"? Haha, it's up to everyone to do what they like. Don't embarrass yourself. The most important thing is to have self-control. No matter what kind of "poison" you have, don't be obsessed with it. Remember, the money you spend is yours! A healthy body is yours! A happy family is yours!